The most important thing is to find something for yourself to do, so that your life is full, every little thing has its own fun, sad or not, happy or not, have its own meaning of existence, grasp their own mind, life is full of fun everywhere!
In fact, a person, really not so sad, especially when you are accustomed to a person, it is difficult to imagine that there will be another person's traces in the future life. And living alone, you don't have to accommodate another person, and no one will force you to do things you don't want to do, it's really comfortable. It's easy to live alone, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, eat when you're hungry, sleep when you're tired, and you won't be sad because of someone who is destined to leave you. Of course, occasionally may also feel a person's life is very monotonous, this time, you need to go out, can be to travel to enjoy the scenery along the way, can also be shopping malls to buy favorite things, and even in the downstairs neighborhood parks to see laughing children or square dancing aunt. Of course, if you live alone, you can have a cat, there will be a surprise.
In the morning, sleep until the sun rises, clean up, either at home to make yourself a simple and exquisite breakfast, or go out of the neighborhood near the Xiaolongbao is also a good choice.
In the morning, clean up your room, organize the books that are lying around, put the clothes you want to wash into the washing machine, and then, brush up on today's hot news or catch up on newer anime, wait for the clothes to be washed, and then hang them up to dry.
Lunch is not recommended to order takeout, even if you are a person, occasionally you have to cook, do not need too much, a bowl of rice, a cup of juice, a plate of tomatoes and scrambled eggs, enough.
In the afternoon, you can take a nap, half an hour perfect, the rest of the time, prepare some snacks, read a book, stumble upon interesting sentences, you can excerpt, both to practice, but also to deepen the memory, why not do it?
The evening can be about three or two friends to get together, friends do not need too much, the most important true friends, we find a barbecue stall, together to talk about recent events, good and bad, nothing is not to go through, and if there is, then wait.
A person living really does not need to be too lively, simple to be good, because too lively, then, after the crowd dispersed, will feel very lonely, this fall is not everyone can stand. You should know that, compared to not get, get and then lose is the most abrasive.
If you do more meaningful things that improve yourself, you'll realize that being alone is too much.
Now that I'm single, I used to feel more lonely. I had nothing to do all day and I was mentally depressed, and then I realized that the more I lived like this, the more disheveled I felt. So I started to keep myself busy and do more things to make my life more fulfilling.
There is so much to learn. You can keep reading every day, record what you see and hear today, and practice your writing. You can also insist on exercise, so that your body becomes better, people become more spiritual.
You can also go to the exhibition, expand their horizons, see the ever-changing technological development, you will find that there is a lot of fun in life.
The key to an interesting life is what you do, not what you think in your head all day long, and the idealist will not take half a step. You only out of the first step, after the road will be wider and wider.
When our life becomes more and more busy, sometimes we can feel the happiness of living alone. Facing this every day alone
may feel confused and lost, feel lonely and empty. In this flurry of years, each person should be more from the little life in the ocean to find fun. The busyness of the busyness of the busyness.
Each person has more hobbies and interests, more children, no matter how alone, can also feel the joy of life. A person who is full of positive energy inside, a sunny person, life where there will be no fun? Like and love together, when we feel the hardships of life, a person should be more on the unknown future to do not decadent not addicted, like what, what to do.
"Zither, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, wine and flowers", laughing at the cloud bound cloud Shu, tea, peace and happiness in the search for fun. Open a book chanting, practicing writing, laying a paper pen and ink, point drawing a mountain and water, the yard planted a few pots of flowers and grasses, fertilizer, loose soil, if you like music playing the piano, play the flute, listen to the high mountains and flowing water like music, as much as in the self-entertainment in the ...... All in all, cultivate a little bit more hobbies and interests, with a positive mentality to face, a person The first thing you need to do is to find a way to make sure that you have a good time, and that you have a good time.
This is my philosophy of life.
How can a person have fun?
A person to live a fun, I think it should have a few aspects.
First of all, the sunshine of the mind, contentment. A heart full of sunshine people, even if the wind and rain came, he also optimistically believe that after the storm is the rainbow, the sun will soon appear. Sunny-minded people, like the wonderful jumping notes, played a song of happiness. The world, everything grows separately, which constitutes a colorful world. People are also the same, the multitude of beings, each have their own, each enjoy their own happiness, society is harmonious and harmonious. A person is contented, not for wealth, fame, status, glory, driven by the sway, to do not be alarmed, watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; no intention of going to stay, roaming with the sky outside the clouds rolled cloud Shu. This way, life is interesting.
Secondly, life should have a goal, full of confidence in the future. A person does not have an ideal goal in mind, only know how to eat, drink and play, do nothing all day long, do not think about progress, do a day monk hit a day clock, how can it be a happy and interesting people? And the future is full of hope, there is a goal ahead of the people, must be toward the goal of the people, but also must be the harvest of psychological fulfillment, in order to be the life of an interesting person.
Then again, it is best to have some hobbies. Hobbies are the spice of life, can make life more flavorful. The Northern Song writer Su Dongpo said that life is enjoyable sixteen things: the shallow water of the Qingxi canoeing; rain bamboo window night talk; summer to the Linxi Maundy; after the rain to see the mountains; Liuyin embankment idle line; flower dock bottle before the smile; across the river mountain temple heard the bells; the month of the East neighbor blowing Xiao; morning Xing half cones of tea incense; afternoon tired one side of the rattan pillows; open the urn do not meet the Tao Xie; guests do not take the clothes and crowns; begging for the name of the flower bloom; fly to the fowls since the words; guests to draw spring tea; listen to the fiddlers know the tone. If modern people can have their two or three, life can not be interesting?
If a person is living an interesting life, their mind is very important, the requirements of various things can not be too high, too high, it is not easy to pursue, easy to lose interest. To make a suitable goal for yourself.
A person should go out more, that is, travel a little. You need to communicate with people more, cultivate the relationship between people, and also improve their own interest.
To improve your own interest in life, participate in sports exercise is a good choice. Interest in life is generated in sports. Outdoor sports are the best choice to improve your interest in life. Play ball fishing, running and what not, also enrich your life. This is how you can be interested in life, have fun and pursue it. Life has to be lived meaningfully, only to live a real interest.
I've been living alone in Haikou for a month now, and every day is very fulfilling. I cherish every day in Hainan, because I'm going to go back to work after the new year!
A person at home ah actually really boring. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get away with it, but I'm sure you're going to be able to. I also have this experience and feel. After a period of discomfort slowly find the joy of being alone. First of all, you have to find your own interests. For example, if you are writing poetry, you will have to think hard to get the best lines, quote scriptures, search and find, and formulate words. When you repeatedly recite their own masterpiece not also ecstatic, rejuvenated. This is the fun. Of course, writing poetry is not a daily inspiration. This requires a wide range of interests, such as landscape and flowers, in the observation and appreciation of the time you may have a new inspiration. Another example is to find a few old friends to play chess, no matter how good or bad the game is, as long as you are integrated into the group, you will have endless fun. Here you can chat with your old friends and kibitz will you feel constrained, can you feel the passage of time? It is also a blessing to have a group of old friends in one's old age. Find your own fun, cultivate your interests, make yourself happy and have a happy old age.
A person who wants to make his life interesting, make his own little life flavorful, must find their own hobbies, want to want to live an interesting life may wish to first become an interesting person.
Interesting life is certainly in the premise of solving the problem of survival to have, want to live an interesting life, which is a little more, to see what they want to pursue a little, want to go to taste what kind of life. If a person every day for themselves and a family of old and small three meals a day, then he certainly do not have the heart to live an interesting life. Even if the scenery is beautiful, they are not in the mood to enjoy it, and even if the food is delicious, they do not have the heart to taste it. There are also some interesting activities that need money for support. Fun is not a gift, it can be learned. But how?
The first step is to stay optimistic.
Be an optimist. The same thing, optimists can see a lot of good, can automatically shield the dark side, choose the sunny side, and find which can enjoy the small fortune, life has flavor, is the first realm of interesting.
Second, have a sense of humor. A sense of humor is our resistance to the impermanence of the world, because of humor, you can, laugh it out and get over it.
Again one should have a hobby.
This hobby can make you full, can make you not feel life is boring, can make you immersed in it to discover and enjoy the fun of the special, the more focused you are, the easier it is to devote yourself to it, the more you indulge in it, the more you will feel, it's fun, it's fun. So, how exactly does a person live to make life interesting? It depends entirely on you as a person. Why don't you start by looking at what you find to be interesting people and things, introduce those things you find interesting into your life, and see if anything changes?
Because funny, life will be alive, will be a little cute, the day is not so sad, after all, live is not an easy thing, need to look away, and funny, in fact, is to humor, lifting the weight of life.
If you like it, you can find your own fun and interest in it, and insist on doing what you like, you can also make life interesting! With the heart to do, your state will be in every time to insist in the unknowingly change for the better. May you can confidently say, I live alone, I live well.