The 68-year-old man said:
Now he is 70 years old and paralyzed by a stroke. If I don't take care of him, I will get advice from others. Why? You only think he is miserable now, but what you see is his miserable appearance now. You don't know how much his bullying and indifference hurt me decades ago. I endured, waited and hoped for it decades ago, and finally it was time for him to beg me, you know? I have been waiting for this day for 30 years.
More than 30 years ago, he was the owner of a special factory. The booming business has made him more and more grumpy, even at home. Anyone who goes against his will, even if he is unhappy, will taste the fist. Me and the kids, too.
In the children's impression, he didn't come back to this home many times. Every time I come back, I either drink late or invite three or five people to play mahjong at home.
Once, he brought some friends home. Teenagers knew he was coming and went to his classmates' house to play, for fear that he would be unhappy and scolded.
Knowing that they came to eat, drink and play mahjong, I simply said hello and went back to my room. I want to lie down for a while because my stomach is uncomfortable during my period. He looked at me like this and even said that I didn't give him face in front of my friends, so he gave me a beating when he entered the house and asked me to treat me well these two days. Otherwise, he will never leave me alone.
At that time, the mother-in-law was different from now. After serving at home, I have to take care of my mother-in-law Although she often lies in bed, her mother-in-law knows what he looks like in my eyes, so she doesn't care about teaching her son, so it's no use laughing at me in front of me. She can't control her man. She seems to be above herself. She tells me what to do and scolds me without opening her mouth.
Some people say, why not divorce if you live like this? Of course I thought about it, but I was forced by external pressure. I want to know that in those days, it was unusual for women to divorce. Anyone who is divorced will find someone to give advice, not to mention a pair of children who need me. If I leave and he marries a new lover, won't it be the children who suffer? So, I have been enduring it.
Speaking of new love, he has gone out more than once and even took it home for the night.
One night, he was drunk and smoked, and brought back a woman in her twenties. When her son saw it, he got angry and had a fight with him. Facing his son, he worked hard. His son left home that night, gave up his studies and never wanted to come back. Poor thing, he was only 17 years old.
No matter how big the business is, it will fail one day. A few years later, the factory closed down. Everyone who flattered him left him. He is very depressed. He is either drunk or wandering around every day. If he has no money, he will know to ask me for money or call me. Fortunately, when his business was good, I saved some money and opened a small shop to maintain everyone's expenses.
How many days and nights, I hate him so much that my teeth itch, hoping that one day he will fall into my hands and be at my mercy.
Later, the son who left for many years settled down in the big city through his own efforts, and the daughter also found a good home. Filial children took me to them, went shopping and danced square dance every day, and finally lived a comfortable life for a few days.
And he, his children don't want to take a reason, even if he accuses and abuses more, this time it's different, he can't be presumptuous.
Two years ago, he was paralyzed by a sudden stroke. He needs constant care, but he still hasn't changed his bad temper I thought I had endured it all my life, waited for this day for nearly 30 years, and now I still want to suppress me. Why? So, I really don't want to care about him. My son found him a live-in nanny to take care of him, which is filial piety.
Don't persuade others to be kind, and don't suffer others. Now I ignore him and live a leisurely life of shopping and dancing. Who knows that speaking a few words is just the tip of the iceberg compared with my suffering for most of my life?
The true portrayal of everyone in old age is caused by what they did when they were young. Loneliness or pain, no one can escape after all.
No matter who you are, when you face someone, you should do it with good intentions. As the tree, so the fruit. If you plant kindness, you will naturally reap blessings. If you sow evil consequences, you will only reap desolation.