Nowadays, women are very much in pursuit of economic independence, so that they will have a career of their own, and even better than some men. But in the countryside there are still a lot of married women, after giving birth to a child, they are idle at home with nothing to do, every day is to hold a child, and a bunch of women gossiping together. It should have been the age of struggle, but has been tied up by the family. Seeing those girls who are still very young and already holding children, I feel quite sorry for them, because they can't find the value of their life.
One: idleness.
In the countryside, this is a very common phenomenon, that is, men are working outside to earn money, women at home to look after the children, take care of the elderly. If you don't have a job, you'll be idle every day, and you won't know what to do. If you go out to work, your kids are still young and your mom has to be around. You can only stay at home, this life is really very boring. But for them there is nothing they can do.
2: Do not want to make changes.
Possibly those girls in the countryside are less educated, so there is no great pursuit, it is felt that the woman's life is to get married and give birth to children, so that after they have married and given birth to children, it does not matter if they are at home with them. I don't want to change the status quo and make some achievements for others to see. So, I don't have any pursuit, so I can only be satisfied with the status quo.
Three: I don't know what I can do.
Maybe there are people who feel that they are too bored to stay at home, want to find a job to earn some money to subsidize the family, or buy some things on their own, after all, girls are like to buy all kinds of cosmetics. But their own low education, no skills, so that want to go out to work is also a very difficult thing. And you can't find something you like to do.
Maybe this is the difference in thinking, some people are willing to the status quo, some people are thinking of their own future plans, no matter how, as long as they are happy on the good.