-Proverbs 22: 6
Tik Tok has a 4-year-old girl with 65,438+200,000 fans. She is called a child prodigy because she can draw at an early age. She paints lifelike fish, beautiful and quiet scenery and vivid flowers. It's incredible to watch her video. Her gestures of painting with a pen are sophisticated and steady, which doesn't suit her age.
Of course, behind every online celebrity, there is a huge controversy, and netizens from all walks of life have different views on the little girl.
It has been pointed out that the video is post-produced from the perspective of a professional painter, and it is impossible for a little girl to complete such superb skills alone; Some people say that the child's father is an excellent painter, and it is natural to train a little painter; Others joked that after watching the video, they went home to kick the children.
There are also many people who say they can't do it. Why do they want children? Isn't this forcing children to realize unfulfilled dreams for themselves? Life is only a hundred years, as long as children are safe, healthy and happy.
With different experiences, we can't evaluate other people's attitudes towards life, and we don't want to weigh who is right or wrong, but how will the facts develop?
Tik Tok's little girl started painting at the age of 4, which must be hard for ordinary people to imagine. Perhaps her childhood was accompanied by painting, and she lost the happy time when other children played wantonly. But at an early age, she has a skill and is so excellent. I think as a parent, she should not worry too much about her future career development, and according to normal logic, the professional height and artistic attainments that a little girl can achieve may not be reached by ordinary children.
Some time ago, Jay Chou showed a piano with fruit in a program in Nicholas Tse, which made Nicholas Tse dumbfounded! I also joked that I hate myself when I look at you now and regret why I didn't listen to my mother!
Jay Chou then shared the story that she was forced to practice piano by her mother since she was 4 years old.
In a poor single-parent family, his mother Ye Huimei scrimped and saved, bought him a piano, hired the best piano teacher, and asked little Jay to practice for more than two hours every day.
But a 4-year-old boy is not old enough to be naughty all the time. How easy is it for him to sit down for an hour or two and concentrate on practicing boring fingering?
Mom insisted and stared at him practicing the piano with both hard and soft. Every time she is impatient, her mother will stand behind her with two vines.
I believe that every child will have a feeling of suffering in the face of such a thing, and little Jay is no exception. He protested over and over again why other children were left at home to practice the piano when they could play outside, and sometimes even wondered why he wanted to learn the piano.
Now we see Jay Chou playing music with bananas and even pineapples on the show. It seems that entertainment actually requires a perfect mastery of the piano.
Every time he mentioned his mother, Jay Chou was more grateful, so he specially wrote a song for his mother called "Listen to Mom". It can be said that without this great mother, there would be no Zhou Wang today, and we would not be able to hear so many wonderful and popular music.
Moreover, Jay Chou said frankly that after her daughter Zhou Xiao started to learn the piano, she had to "force" her daughter to practice every day, just like her mother.
Those who are forced are grateful, and those who are spared are sorry.
Yang Ying once saw Liu Henry play the violin perfectly in the program. She said, "Why didn't anyone force me?"
I believe many people feel the same way. Many times we regret our ignorance when we were young, but we also blame our parents for not urging us. After all, the road to art basically starts with dolls.
As I said before, some parents said that I don't ask my children to be excellent, as long as they are happy in peace, but can they really be happy in peace? I do not think this is necessarily the case.
Society is very realistic and cruel. Children who have no competitive advantage are often full of inferiority complex, which greatly reduces the happiness of their careers and families. What's more, while your children are enjoying a carefree and happy childhood, other children are running hard to win the chips of life.
Don't choose comfort for your child at the age when he can bear hardships. Don't wait until one day later, he will understand that his years of ease and indulgence have brought him the humbleness and lowliness of his life.
Pianist Lang Lang was forced to jump off a building by his father, and he was extremely wronged and collapsed. But later, when he stood in the palace of art and enjoyed the happiness and status brought by music, he thanked his father for choosing this path for him.
As the host, Dong Qing was resentful because of her father's strict discipline when she was a child, but she was very talented and won everyone's love. She choked up several times when talking about her parents in the program, saying that every parent would do everything to love their children.
We are all sons and daughters, and one day we will become fathers and mothers. When a child grows up and asks why you didn't give him a hand at the beginning, you answer that because he didn't like it at the beginning, you are pale and powerless. After all, which child's dream is not a snack game animation?
I am most afraid that you will be mediocre all your life, but also comfort yourself that you are ordinary and valuable. We will say this to people who pursue comfort.
And those parents who often say that they don't want their children to be excellent, but only want their children to be safe and happy, are they also looking for excuses for not cultivating excellent children?
Parents are the starting line for children, and the height of parents determines the height of children. For children to run farther and stand higher, remember to push yourself and push the children.