It's hard to be a woman, and it's even harder to be an older woman.
Some people have said: "Doing women do not want other things, just want to find a good honest man, and live a little stable days". But the reality is often not so satisfactory, some women may be able to live the first half of life, but the age of a large, to the second half of life on the downward spiral, more and more difficult, this is why?
After observing those wise women, we found that all women who are rich in the second half of life often have these four qualities.
01
Kind-hearted
A woman can live well in the second half of life, in fact, do not need to fortune-telling, just need to know how she lived in the first half of life, basically can be deduced.
For example, if a woman's heart is treacherous, like to sow discord, and the public, then she is bound to suffer a lot of people.
After a long time, the people around her will naturally leave slowly, not daring to trust her again. The second half of such a woman's life, naturally, will not be well.
Then again, if a woman's heart is good, the first half of her life has been friendly and sincere, and has helped many people.
Once in a while, she can naturally get a lot of people's trust, and will slowly gather a lot of people around her who are willing to help her. Such a woman, who has accumulated so many good deeds and blessings, will naturally lead a good life in the second half of her life.
So do women, if you want to live the second half of life, do not need to pray to God, more do not need to fortune-telling and begging, more good deeds is the key to determine the fate.
The old saying: "the first half of life accumulation of good, there will be after the blessing; the first half of life accumulation of evil, there will be a great disaster." Doesn't that, say, make a lot of sense?
02
To be cultured
When a woman is young, whether or not there is a difference in the fate of culture is not big. But once you've gone through half of your life, it's a completely different story.
A cultured woman, even if she is older, her face is no longer beautiful, but also can radiate the charm of wisdom. An uneducated woman, on the other hand, will look vulgar.
So, if you want to be happy in the second half of your life as a woman, you must be cultured.
And in fact, want to have culture is not a difficult thing. After all, it's not like making someone cultured makes her a scholar.
Women who are older and want to have culture can participate in some cultural activities in their own city during their leisure time, read more books and newspapers, and grow their culture while enriching their lives, isn't it good?
And, after middle age, women are bound to encounter problems from home and society.
When a woman is educated, she will be able to deal with problems in a more organized way.
So, when a woman gets older, she must pay attention to her own cultural cultivation, which will, to a large extent, affect her future destiny.
03
Emphasis on education
Again, a woman's happiness in the second half of life depends largely on her children.
If a mother has a worrying son, I'm afraid it should be very difficult to be happy, let alone rich. Therefore, as a woman, if you have children, you must play the role of a good mother and educate your children well.
When a woman is past middle age and her children have grown up, if they are still good, they can certainly help their mother in life.
There was a young girl who drove a Maserati after drinking and not only killed others, but also seriously injured herself.
The girl's mother was so worried about her.
If the girl's mother had taken her seriously from a young age, she might not have gotten into this kind of trouble, wouldn't she?
The great thinker Mencius could not have been as good as he was without a good mother who emphasized education.
Menzi is outstanding, his mother is also famous in history, become a beautiful story, is not very good? Therefore, a considerable part of a woman's fate in the second half of her life is determined by her children.
Women who can pay attention to their children's education are doing themselves a favor for the rest of their lives.
04
Managing health
For a person, happiness or wealth, in fact, these are built on a healthy body.
So, as a woman past middle age, must pay attention to the maintenance of the body.
We should usually relax our mood, to say to ourselves: "small things I don't need to be serious, and big things I'm more really useless". You should try to be calm when you encounter things and not always lose your temper.
Also, take regular physical exercise.
For example, on weekends, you can go hiking or square dancing, which are very good exercises.
Be sure to have "their own health, their own management; their own life, their own management" concept, to take responsibility for their own health.
As long as there is health, the second half of a woman's life, even if she can not be rich, relatively speaking, can also be relatively smooth.
This physical health, is definitely the key to influence a woman's fortune in the second half of life, I hope you must pay attention to.
A woman with more money, children and then excellent, their own health is not good in later years, it is also a daily suffering, is not it?