When his wife found out that the man was cheating, she was very angry and full of negative emotions.
At this time, don't suppress your emotions, find a correct channel to vent your depressed and negative emotions.
For example, talk to your best friend.
For example, talk to me and I can enlighten you.
Like running.
Like finding an empty place to cry.
Then vent, eat and sleep well.
Second: take care of your children and your body.
Because many wives are in anger for a long time, regardless of their health and children, which is very harmful to themselves and children.
You have to understand that no matter the sky falls, the physical and mental health of you and your children is the most important.
I don't want you to take yourself and your child's body to get back at men.
In this way, you punish yourself with the mistakes made by men.
You don't eat, children don't eat, and men and mistresses still can't break up.
In this way, you hurt your child and yourself, and men and mistresses still have to go their own way.
Third: protect your property.
Don't fight with men, scold mistress, let men secretly transfer property, or let mistress cheat you of your property.
In case the derailed man gives the mistress too much and transfers the property.
Fourth: choose between divorce and redemption.
This choice is the result of your careful consideration. You are responsible for yourself, don't delay.
Because the longer you wait, the worse things will be for you.
Maybe when you were hesitating, the man got Xiaosan pregnant.
Maybe during the delay, the man transferred his property and forced you to divorce.
Otherwise, you will get a divorce.
Fifth: If you choose to divorce, then get a good divorce.
If you choose to save, take the correct way to save.
If you choose to divorce, think about it. Divorce is the result of your careful consideration.
Get what you deserve and get a divorce.
If you want to save it, take the right way to save it.
Anyway, I support any decision you make, and I don't want you to delay or endure it.
Sixth: whether you finally divorce a man or continue this marriage, you should heal the pain and don't delay.
Healing the pain is the beginning of your rebirth.
Whether you are divorced or continue this marriage with a man, if you don't heal the pain, you will live in the shadow of man's infidelity all your life.
Moping all day, not interested in anything, quarreling with men every day, or checking men's posts, or not trusting men.
The end result is that it is better for two people to be tortured for life in marriage.
To make matters worse, it ended in divorce.
Maybe you are confused and helpless when reading the article at the moment, and you really want to solve the problem, but you don't know how to do it.
I feel that marriage is not good and divorce is inseparable.
If you don't want to be tortured like this forever,
Then make a decision as soon as possible.
Divorce or redemption is your best choice.