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In a small square in Chengdu, Sichuan province, a square dancing older woman deliberately tripped over a scooter child, who landed on his face and could not stand up.
This incident makes people very angry and very surprised, the old man why do this. The child was only three or four years old, and repeated viewing of the video revealed that the old man really did it on purpose.
The old man is 79 years old, surnamed Du, has commissioned his son and daughter to apologize to the child's parents in person, the child's parents expressed understanding.
I think there may be two reasons why the old man did this.
One, the old man is suffering from a disease, may be delirious, or personality is a bit grumpy, so, under the disease, the original good old man is a bit confused, only to stretch out his feet to take the initiative to trip over the child who is riding a scooter.
The second is that the bad guy got old, which is probably the last thing we want to see in this situation, and she just wasn't being kind, and she did it on purpose.
This reminds me of a mother-in-law in my hometown whose grandson was a bit autistic and didn't get good treatment, so when he grew up to be a teenager, he was basically a little goofy kid.
But this child is very kind and not bad, usually just playing in circles by himself, seldom talking to people, and looking at people with somewhat hard eyes.
The grandmother took the child, and both parents went out to work.
What is unacceptable is that the child has no concept, always thinking of eating, into the store or roadside stalls will take things directly, do not know to pay.
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The child's grandmother didn't stop it, and even indulged it a bit, gloating over some of the little things the child took back. Her explanation was that the children in our family are so poor, take some of your food, just take some.
To be honest, this is a small thing, but, as parents, in the face of a disabled child, the last thing we want to consume is this child's dementia.
Nor do we want our children to develop bad habits as a result. If the child is already a disabled child and then becomes a thief in the eyes of others, will the child not be even more pitiful.
But Grandma didn't think so.
I don't dare to say that she is a bad person, because we didn't go through her difficult life, but we prefer to see, even in the gutter, but the heart is still full of sunshine.
Some things can't be done, some principles can't be broken.
Old and old, young and young, treat the elderly, is a sign of progress in this society, a symbol of civilization, but we also have to admit that the society is bad, bad people have become old, and, relying on their own aging, for the evil deeds added a protective umbrella.
03
In "Settling Down," the old couple, whom Fanshijin took to see a two-story villa, were the ones whose son wanted to buy a house for them.
When the old man found out that Fanxi Jin would get a 2% commission, he immediately clamored, "You're a money grabber, you're making so much money just by showing them a house, tsk, tsk.
When she went to see the house, Fang Xijin prepared water, a brand she couldn't afford to drink herself, but the old man said, "I want to drink hot water". Room Xi Jin ran to the coffee shop to buy hot water, and then ran back, the old man said, what did you do, so long, let us wait so long in the sun.
Going to do the formalities, Grandpa got off the car, casually closed the door, the room like Jin's finger directly shot on the card to. The seller said, I look quite serious, do you want to go to the hospital to see.
Grandma immediately said, how can that be, we have to go abroad, relatives and friends to invite dinner, today must do the formalities.
Just like what Fang Xi Jin said, they don't even take the intermediary as flesh and blood, although they are already old, however, there is still no kind expression on their faces, meanness is afraid that they are labeled for life.
04
Remember Auntie Tai Cousin in Anjia? Back then, she was widowed and brought her two sons to join a distant relative, the Gong family, who built them a house in the courtyard and supported them for decades.
The two sons of my cousin's aunt went to school, and the Gong family paid for them to buy a house and get married. The Gong family has been rich for three generations, and is all about being good to people and being decent to family and friends.
But when it came to Gong Jun's generation, when it was necessary to sell the old house for the company's working capital, the too-cousin aunt with her children and grandchildren, a family of more than a dozen people, every day like going to work in this yard.
No 50 million, you will not be allowed to sell the house.
The Gong family was willing to give them compensation, but Auntie Tai Cousin insisted on a lion's share of the money, or else she would throw her weight around and cry.
What's even more frightening is that this incident is archetypal, not something the writers imagined out of thin air.
This world, there is just a kind of horror, called the bad guy got old. The years pass, and their faces are full of wrinkles, but greed, selfishness, and even sinisterness are not left to the past years.
I believe that more people in this world, young and old, are kind, and I am willing to forgive others with the greatest sincerity for their unintentional mistakes, but also have to admit that the old people are not all good.