Everyone wants to make a few more friends, but the "wine meets the friend of a thousand cups", and the confidant drink a thousand cups of wine are willing to, and usually we only drink a cup of wine, shows that everyone's confidant is very little, and it is not only you are so.
Everyone as long as there is a confidant is good, confidant friend is too difficult to find, especially the era we live, too many smart devices, we almost do not need to go out to live a good life, and other people's opportunity to communicate is even less, do not talk about how to find confidant friends not to make friends? Some people do not have a confidant in their life, not so over.
How do you know your friends? There are two main possibilities, one is to play since childhood friends, the most likely to become a confidant friend. The other is through the suffering and **** friends, in the friend of the difficult time of righteousness to help, it is possible to really become a close friend.
You sincerely treat people, but still did not meet friends, do not be discouraged, want to make friends first need to sincerely treat people, you have already done, however, also need to meet with your personality and hobbies of the people most likely to become friends. Then there is the degree of care between friends is mutual, attentiveness may be counterproductive, on the friends of the appropriate care can be.
In the beginning, treat your new friend with enthusiasm, if he doesn't reply to you enthusiastically, then he's just an ordinary friend, and you have to treat him as an ordinary friend.
Lastly, you need to relax your mind, it is difficult to find a friend, this is a lot of people encountered problems, some people do not have a friend for life, so do not produce too much burden on the heart. To have more friends, try to become a capable person, play a specialty in a certain area, become helpful to society and friends, and then your friends will appear.