For grandma to help wish their own daughter with children, because out of their daughter's some care, because grandma feel that they usually have nothing to do, their own help their daughter to bring down the child, but also appropriate to give their daughter simply some burden, grandma often with their own son life is together, can not be really happy that grandma did not go to help themselves to take care of the child. Whether it is a grandma or grandma, the love of grandchildren are very heavy.
I think it depends on the family situation.
Because in many families, after the child is born, more is the mother to take care of, that the care of the child's time than the mother's average time is much less than the mother's time, the mother to take care of the child, not all the time to take care of, because the mother he also has his own things to do, so when he is in the case of some have things to do, and too embarrassed to talk to grandma to let her take care of her own child, but she talked to her own child. her own children, but she is very good at talking to her own parents.
2. Fear of damaging their relationship with their mother-in-law.
Because nowadays many families are afraid of bringing up small children, because bringing up small children is not a very easy thing to do, when you are bringing up small children, your whole attention has to be on your little son for fear that your child will have any safety problems, because letting your mother-in-law bring up your own son will sometimes affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and you can't have a good opening, it is based on your own parents. The reason for this is that they have been raised by their own parents since they were young, and if they let their own children be brought up by their own parents, the parents will certainly be very happy to do so.
Because now many with children are mothers, their own time with their mothers-in-law is not very long, to a certain extent, many daughters-in-law do not dare to ask their mothers-in-law to help themselves to do some things, he was afraid of disputes with their mothers-in-law, affecting the harmony of the family, for their own parents, will not appear some of what the dispute of oral sex, destroying the harmony of the family, so it also leads to a lot of the current Mothers are called to take care of their own parents, rarely called grandma to help bring up the child.