How to think of the mother-in-law square dancing does not help the daughter-in-law to look after the child?

In fact, every family has a difficult experience, especially the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship problems, I believe that most families will have experienced. Although our current thinking is no longer as feudal as before, and we all look more open, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to have been getting along not so good.

In fact, this is not to blame, I think the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship can be kept on the surface to get by on it. Although we will always call our mother-in-law a mom, but in our heart, there is no way to compare her with our real mother. The reason why we call her mom is solely because of our own husbands.

Likewise, you won't treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, and your mother-in-law won't treat you as her daughter, after all, we really don't have any blood relationship, and we didn't grow up in the same environment, so the feelings are definitely not very deep. The reason why two people can get along together is entirely because of the man's reasons, so we do not need to ask too much of each other, as long as we can get by on face, not to conflict on it.

So, the mother-in-law to do what things do daughter-in-law do not too much involvement,after all, no matter how to say that people are elders, as long as the two did not have conflicts, everything is good. As said because the mother-in-law square dance not help daughter-in-law to see the child this thing, I think there is absolutely no need to say that because of this angry. Although it is reasonable to say that after the birth of a child, the mother-in-law should go to help take care of, but after all, the child is your own, people do not take care of there is nothing excessive.

And you can't limit your mother-in-law's behavior because of your child, so in fact, it's a bit too much, after all, the child is your own, people don't have that obligation to help you with your child, so don't let this kind of thing affect the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.