The word good luck is a word of yearning in miserable families, and a word of humility in wealthy families. Some people say that a girl who smiles will not have bad luck. In addition to smiling, what other qualities can be given to a girl? What about people bringing good luck?
After research, it has been found that character determines destiny. This sentence is not true at all.
In fact, sometimes good luck is reflected in our ordinary small actions. If we are serious and humble, we will naturally not get into trouble. If we stay away from trouble, good luck will naturally come. For people with these three qualities, good luck will come to you soon.
1. Pay attention to equality when getting along with others
All people can be divided into superiors and subordinates, generational differences, closeness and distance, high and low abilities, and men and women. Young and old, but all people are equal, there is no distinction between superiority and inferiority.
So when we get along with everyone, we must treat everyone equally, and we must not be snobbish, let alone look down on others. You can't flatter others just because they are in a high position, and you can't look down on arrogance just because they are at the bottom of society.
Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi. People will not always be in despair, nor will they always be in power. If you are too discriminating, others will think that you are a snobby person who can act according to the wind. .
If a person is upright, treats everyone the same, and neither tries to win over nor offend others, then he will not leave any excuses for others, nor will he be punished for being too close to anyone. Even if a person is jealous, he will not be plotted against because he is too distant from someone.
2. Don’t care too much about gains and losses, and be indifferent to fame and fortune
If a person never cares about fame and fortune, he will give some fame and fortune to others, rush to the front in doing things, but fight for fame and fortune. You may suffer some losses by hiding behind when you are profitable, but you will win everyone's respect. Because everyone thinks that this person is very open-minded, does not like to make great achievements, and has no ambition. He is trustworthy and very easy to get along with.
Although such people are usually called stupid by others, in fact they are not really stupid, but are as wise as fools. Because they understand that those things outside the body, if they are not brought with them during life or taken with them after death, they are just in vain and of no benefit. It is better to give them to others.
The public’s eyes are sharp. Even if you give something to others, have you done a good job? Others can see it, so why bother worrying about the small profits in front of you?
Sometimes they even deliberately give up some fame and fortune to some juniors, give them some opportunities to show themselves, and provide them with some stages to show off, instead of keeping all the resources in their own hands. People only gain respect from others, so how can they cause trouble?
3. Be patient and not impatient when talking to others
Some people are very selfish and like to talk about everything around themselves. They are very impatient when talking about things that have nothing to do with themselves. , the same is true when talking to others. He is never indifferent to other people's affairs, and loses his temper without saying a few words. It is obvious that he has communication problems, but he often complains that it is other people's problems. Such a person will make people disgusted. Even holding a grudge.
On the contrary, there is a kind of person who is different. Anyone who talks to them will feel like a spring breeze. No matter what is said to them, they will be very patient and listen carefully, like a kind elder. It is also like a considerate friend. When you are with them, you will have a strong desire to talk, and you can't help but talk a lot more.
And after talking this time, you want to talk to him next time, because you feel that he understands you, is patient with you, is not bored with you, and does not think you are long-winded or naive. , when you are with him, your self-esteem will not be hurt a lot, but you will get a lot of pertinent advice. You only have respect, admiration, and admiration for him.
Such people are respected and liked by others, because they are good at being a good person, and they will make anyone who is close to them feel comfortable. This is also the principle of their life. Houji.
You will not feel any discrimination from him. Even if you are stronger than him, you will not look down on him. In fact, you are much weaker than him, and you will not feel inferior. Such a person is a real person. Good people, people who are truly worth dating, usually have a good reputation, and naturally their luck is not that bad.