Previously, an extended family lived together, with the elders living with their juniors***.
Now, more and more young people are choosing to move out after marriage and are no longer willing to live with the elderly.
This is the case because of the following reasons:
1, different life concepts.
The concept of life of young people is different from that of the elderly. ...... And they are very different from each other in this respect.
Because of this, young people are prone to conflicts if they live with the elderly.
Therefore, young people are reluctant to live with older people after marriage.
2, different living habits.
The living habits of young people are also different from those of the elderly.
For example, young people love to sleep in, while the elderly are willing to get up early.
For example, young people are more likely to spend money, while older people are more frugal.
These differences in living habits make young people reluctant to live with older people after they get married, lest conflicts arise.
3, there is a generation gap in communication.
Young people's thoughts are not the same as those of the elderly, and there is a big difference between the two. ...... Therefore, young people and the elderly have some difficulties in communicating with each other. ...... Short-term communication is fine, but it is easy to produce conflicts after a long time.
Therefore, young people are not willing to live with the elderly after marriage.
4, limited living space.
Nowadays, most people live in buildings with limited space. Therefore, if young people live with the elderly after marriage, the space will be narrow and they will feel uncomfortable.
Therefore, young people are more willing to move out after marriage and then come back to visit the elderly on a regular basis, which avoids conflicts and enables them to enjoy the happy time of family harmony.