After retirement, has been living alone, although the dress especially beautiful, eat and drink especially simple, and then the old, can not take care of themselves, hired a nanny, no one close to the nanny service is not dedicated, the nanny often put her alone in the house out to play, and finally a few days of serious illness, the nephew of the mother's family came to say that it is coming to the division of the family's assets, the old girl has a building and a million deposits, his nephew was afraid of the death of the old girl to the family, the nephew was sent to the hospital for two days to die, the side did not have a family. Sent to the hospital for two days to die, no one close by can. Is not a tragic death, this is the story I saw with my own eyes.
I don't even have to think about it, do not get married, do not have their own children, wait until the end of the old must be very bad.
The most typical example is that there is a philanthropist named Li something, that is, when he was young, he met an old foreign woman, and he went abroad and got married, and after the old woman died, he inherited hundreds of millions of dollars of property of that man. After he returned to China, he never got married and donated all his money to charitable organizations. The first time I heard of this, I was told that I had Alzheimer's disease, and I didn't even have any relatives around me.
Don't ever think that I have the money to hire a nanny when I'm old, live in a nursing home, someone to wait on you, the nanny abused the elderly to beat the elderly thing too much, there are a lot of children in the home to install security cameras, can't prohibit this kind of thing happens, not to mention that you are a childless widowed old man, that is, you abused the death of your body stinks in the home, there is no one to come to ask about it.
It is said that raising children to prevent old age, although now we can not raise children to prevent old age, but at least in our old age, there is still a guardian in the guardian column signed by the person, and after the death of a hold urn of the person.
A relative of mine, a woman, more than 70 years old this year, speculated in the stock market all her life, and now the assets are said to be tens of millions of dollars, never married.
When I was young, I was out in the world, from a small rural area, all the way to Wuhan, where I bought a house, a car, and now several houses.
When I was young, I lived a life of wantonness, a person ate the whole family is not hungry, but also in order to work, do not want to have a trip, not to look for objects at all. The first thing you need to do is to find a way to get the best out of your life, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you.
This relative has a nephew, went to school in Wuhan, also found a job there, when she went to school, she gave her nephew to buy computers, buy clothes, let his nephew in their own home to eat and live, as their own children. After graduation, and out of part of the money to buy a house for nephew. The nephew is also like a son to take care of her, aunt long, aunt short, just like a mother and son filial piety scene.
This is the first time I've ever seen a person with a high degree of autonomy, and I've never seen a person with a low degree of autonomy. The nephew's body is also his own blood, so it's a good idea to keep it in the family.
But, after all, is not their own son, make up not so arbitrary, can only be the two sides of the respective look conscience.
This is a rich man, if replaced by no money, may not be so lucky to have a good nephew.
Even if you live in a nursing home, you need money, and if you don't have it, you're too poor. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some tea and water, do the washing and cooking, and take care of the poop and urine, and if you're not your own son or daughter, who's going to do all that?
So I think it's okay to have money if you're not married, but if you're not married and you don't have any money, then you're really pathetic.
It can't be very happy, can it? Are you looking for a theoretical basis for people who don't get married, or who can't afford it and don't have the opportunity to not be able to get married? Or you could say it's self-congratulation!
If people who don't get married are happy, then why do rich people have three wives and four concubines? Even if they are bound by the marriage law, they still have concubines and countless children, both explicitly and implicitly?
I heard that there was a rich man whose three sons were all out in business. When his eightieth birthday, said to his sons: I heard that you still have children outside, then all to bring home to let me see. As a result, the three families a **** brought home more than two dozen grandchildren.
In the very hard chaotic times, life is extremely unstable, some people go wherever, where women find, where the child born, a life of several wives, if it is not married to happiness, why do they want to be that suffering?
There is a five-guarantee household, the basic life also do not have to worry about, but all day long lamentation, lonely self-pity, away from the crowd. Never seen her face hang a smile, lonely lamp with widowed Buddha, in front of the crowd can not raise their heads, especially in the face of major illnesses and small disasters, you say she will be what mood?
Human beings are herd animals, the idea of reproduction of natural instincts accompanied by a person's life, tormenting every person's life, deep-rooted, and not because of the will to transfer. I heard that there used to be a pair of sisters in the village, beautiful and outstanding. But in that very era, due to the influence of their grandfather's landlord status, no one dared to marry, and they themselves chose not to marry. Than the usual people grow old fast, poor, more than forty years old people are full of wrinkles, 満头白发, not old first decline!
There are two burdens of thought in life: one is the burden of life, and the other is the burden of physiology. Physiological problems than life problems let a person burden heavier, the blue sea green sky night and day. Life is more prone to bald waste. Everyone wants to get married, regardless of gender, the mood is the same. Unless the conditions are limited, there is nothing to be done about it!
As for the people who do not get married to what will happen in their old age? Can not be unified. Each person's status is different, different value, natural treatment is different. Some people say old age to the nursing home, I see the nursing home is not heaven. If nursing homes are what old people rely on, then what is the point of men and women getting married and raising children in life? Is the history of the development of human civilization wrong, to be rewritten by modern people?
I am 65 years old this year, I have never been married, but looking for a lot of women, to Shenzhen to Guangzhou to Hangzhou to Wen to Fujian have gone to the marriage, the family also talked about love, urban and rural areas add up to more than 30, the last one did not become, the reason is that I did not look after themselves. People say the wrong sentence I think the other quality is poor, and now I think of myself than the other is even worse. Now old a person life really good regret, so afraid of the final result I do not know to what field of misery.
Not married people are their own wrong ideas, young people are not afraid to earn their own money to spend their own, lonely time to call a few friends to drink and talk, singing in the cabaret halls, touching the pull of laughter, lonely when the money is spent. Not married to a young man when he was living is very elegant, a person to eat the whole family is not hungry, live and do less, every day like a son, which is not married to the benefits of the people.
But not married people to the old life is as bitter as a yellow lotus, if the young time to accumulate a little money and a little better, if there is no savings, that is a dead end, the dog did not look at you a glance, you can not get up the bed water did not drink, the last life is really bad, you die at home do not know, the body of the body stinks do not know that some people found it.
But now not married people even if there is no money and then poor is not poor, good in the country will put you in a home, eating and drinking wearing someone to serve, but they are married and have children, at home relying on the children than in the old age of the old age of the home to be much happier, because it is their own pro-life children especially pro.
Those who are not married are great fools, those who are married love the country.
Should be, now would have been the only child, at home when there are no siblings, only parents, how can not feel what, the parents of the company, every day you can chat with your parents, the mother every day to do a good job of ready meals, they come back to eat, but the parents can not accompany the children for a lifetime, he or she will one day leave this world.
By the time your parents are gone, you'll be left alone, with no one to talk to, and no one to serve tea and water for a headache.
How to say when young, wait until the day of the old, no relatives, see people's children and grandchildren full of lively, their side of the cool, no one can accompany themselves, no one to lift their own loneliness, is very miserable.
If you get married at the right age, have your own lover, and then have your own lovely children after marriage, the family is happy, pulling the child is not easy, but the birth of the child, but also to the family brought countless laughter.
When the child grows up, participate in the work of the parents are not around, then there is the old partner, a little something can be said with the old partner, the two have a cozy nest, and then a little bit of the old bottom of each other to support than a better than the one over the much better.
At least you have a son or daughter, but also the hope of your old age, people to the old age of what is difficult to say to their children, is not always better than a person.
A person is alone is to have more money, will not be happy, and will also feel lonely and lonely, their own home passed away, no one knows, so, married than single strong.
It is said that even if the elderly into the nursing home, will also be divided into three, six, nine, those without children, no one will find trouble in the elderly, is the lowest, the caregivers are the most careless, those who have children have children of the elderly, the caregivers are still more attentive to some of them are afraid of the old man to the children to complain, the children will be looking for the hospital to trouble, so it is relatively much better. You may say, "Don't nursing homes have rules and regulations? Do they dare to underestimate the elderly? If you think so, then you in the face of the complexity of society, or a raw egg, do not know anything!
Those who don't marry and don't have children, when they are young and happy, when they are old and miserable, it is recommended to get married and have children, and raise a child with the same genes as their own, and watch him get bigger and bigger day by day, it is still a lot of fun, and this kind of fun can't be replaced by anything else, so you might as well give it a try!
Half of a man is a woman and half of a woman is a man. Don't ever be too picky, or else, in your later years, you'll really be too lonely! Come out and go in all day by yourself and be alone! Infinite loneliness!
In my neighborhood, there is a great aunt, called Tian Xiaoxiang, this year are eighty-two years old! When she was young, she fell in love with a classmate, and what happened! The classmate was cruel! He publicized her courtship letter and laughed at her! She was devastated and fell ill. From then on, she no longer believed in the sweetness of love! She made up her mind to be alone, to bear the storm of the years alone, and without complaint! She is an ordinary housewife, only to save for a rainy day. Early to prepare for their own pension money, pension house. Walking production team, the mouth to move belly save, there are not a few money! Scattered the production team, she went to Beijing as a nanny, and later, to see the world, immediately go into business, pouring clothing, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Wenzhou have been. She bought two houses in the East Third Ring Road of Beijing. Now, the people are old, the leaves return to their homes in Tangshan, Hebei. The hand has more than 10 million, and bought two suites in Tangshan, one is the bottom of the shop, the rent is 80,000 a year. A set of more than one hundred square meters to live by themselves. She has a leisurely life and won't worry in her old age! She is happier than those with children! No worries, no one to take care of her in her old age! A high-class nursing home, or hiring a live-in nanny, it's all fine! Anyway, the sun shines all the way under the heavy reward!
People old, no money, no son or daughter, no house, only a disease, will be very poor ah! Go to the old people's home, but also hurt! In short, must be responsible for themselves! The old nest, the old partner, the old bottom, the old friend, you can't have one without the other! You have to have a hand to hold on to! Otherwise, what to fight against the wind and rain!
In fact, not necessarily it, look at their own lives, they want to live into what kind of, I said a side of the example, I have a sister-in-law, more than 40 years old this year, has not been married, but she lived a wonderful life, their own favorite job, every year she will take a few months out of the time to go out to travel to the place that they want to go, and once and she talked to her, she said that she may not be married in this life. Married, she thinks she's fine on her own, she buys her own insurance, pension, work she likes, hobbies a lot, no one can constrain, very free. She's also planned what she's going to do when she's old, everyone's different I guess. But most people will choose to get married, after all, marriage will let the people around you think you are a normal person, get married and have children to form a family, which is the normal life of most people. In fact, there is nothing, meet their favorite people, want to marry, do not regret, can not meet their favorite people, do not get married, the key is to see how they treat themselves, how they look at it, live a wonderful life, sometimes a person is also quite wonderful, live a wonderful life, it can also be two people, the key to look at their own choices, the choice of the choice, do not regret it, choose the life they want!
"Do not get married in old age, no companion, married may not live in old age, do not work hard, no money for old age, work hard may not be able to use the old age"
"Do not get married in old age to send themselves to the nursing home, get married in old age to be sent to the nursing home by the children, the results are the same!
When I saw this question, I thought of these two bantering words.
You do a certain choice, you will naturally give up the good and bad of other choices, do people can not want, and want, but also; too greedy people generally have not been too happy.
Here I want to discuss the not married is not the kind of incapability to get married situation, but their own choice of not married.
My cousin, that is, my mother's aunt's daughter, this year 50 years old, married when young, less than three years on the divorce, because the man's temperament is bad, cheating was found, after the divorce, there are a lot of people to introduce the cousin aunt, the last cousin aunt is not willing to get married again, the cousin aunt's job is stable, in the bank to work, the salary is not low, the years have talked about a few objects (in the words of the aunt is not to get married without delaying the relationship), the cousin aunt is not a good choice. The first time I saw a woman in a car, I was in the middle of the car, and I was in the middle of the car, and I was in the middle of the car, and I was in the middle of the car, and I was in the middle of the car, and I was in the middle of the car.
My aunt's leisure time is to travel around, there are some like-minded girlfriends, will also spend a lot of time and money on skin care and beauty and dress, although this year's fifty years old, but look at the dress and face, my aunt looks like forty years old, and then some of my other relatives in their fifties, really look at it is more than fifty years old, and is basically at home with the grandchildren with the grandchildren, wait for the old, wait for the young, life is very difficult, but I do not know what to do, I do not know what to do.
I would like to say not to get married can, but must not be no money, if the marriage object is not the right person, then not only is not only lonely, more likely to be painful, if the vision is a little worse, after the marriage may be in the mountains, the river, the garbage cans, the sewers.
Recently, the Internet is very hot that the fifty-six-year-old drive self-driving aunt is not married over a very painful an example. There are a very large number of people who are like this aunty but don't have the courage to go out like her.