In today's society, people who get a monthly salary of three to four thousand are either cleaners, low-educated people aged forty-five or above, ordinary factory employees, or mostly women. If a young man earns three to four thousand dollars a month, he may even have difficulty in supporting himself, how else can he support another person? Marrying such a man would be a life of misery.
Although everyone emphasizes the equality of men and women, due to thousands of years of traditional concepts, the Chinese people always still think that a family should be the strongest man and the weakest woman. And when you get married, it's usually the woman who gets married to the man, with the man as the backbone of the family. To support a family, the man's income greatly determines the family, as well as what kind of standard of living the woman married to him can have. If you accidentally marry a man who only earns three or four thousand dollars a month, how in the world is the woman going to live her life, and what embarrassing things will she encounter?
The first point: you may be required to work your ass off to subsidize the household.
After two people get married, a family's expenses are very large, in addition to the usual daily life between husband and wife, as well as both parents, as well as friends and relatives of human contacts. If the husband only three or four thousand monthly salary, then in order to be able to make their own small home to get a good functioning, as the hostess of you, you have to get up the spirit of serious work, desperate to make money. Only you also have not low income, it is possible to maintain the family expenses, not even the firewood, rice, oil and salt such necessities can not afford to buy.
The second point: cosmetics, beautiful clothes and bags may have to be insulated from you.
Before you got married, you were alone, regardless of your salary, just enough to eat and drink. A set of cosmetics a few hundred, a bag a few thousand, what does it matter? Anyway, they bought their own happy. But after marriage, looking at the husband's salary is sometimes not enough for you to a bag of money, how can you still be willing to shell out money to buy those luxury goods that do not look good? Sometimes even buy a piece of clothing more than two hundred, have to think for a long time, thinking about this two hundred expenditure, will not affect the family budget this month?
The third point is that you will have fewer and fewer friends and will go out less and less.
Friendships are almost always maintained by eating together, shopping, and buying things. But going out means spending money, whether it's for dinner, shopping, or a movie, which doesn't cost money? This time a hundred, the next two hundred, about seven or eight times a month, your husband's poor salary was spent, the family will have to wait to drink the northwest wind it. In order to save some money, you will naturally reduce the number of dates with friends, meet less often, the relationship between friends is also slowly alienated, which is not less and less friends.
Fourth point: you will slowly become a catty, anxious mercenary woman.
Those women who can dress themselves elegantly every day, with a coffee in one hand, a book in the other, and possibly a puppy in the lead, try replacing their husbands with men earning three or four thousand dollars a month. See if they can still be so calm and elegant. In fact, because the income is so low, you will be in order to live every day, and even become anxious because of the lack of money. Over time, for a dime, a scallion also have to fight half a day in the vegetable market yellow face is bound to be you.
The fifth point: the pattern will be affected, may be a lifetime of nothing.
If you marry this monthly income of three or four thousand men are just joining the workforce, and his industry is the sunrise industry, and he has a clear work plan, and very hard to get ahead. Then you and stay up, with him together with progress and struggle, the good times will not be far away from you. However, if your husband is an ordinary wage earner, and is very satisfied with the status quo, do not feel that their wages are too low, and never even thought about what efforts to make for the future, then this person must be a pattern is very small, there is no insights and motivation of the people.
You and such a person form a family and may be together for a lifetime, if your own influence is not superb, then you are ready to slowly also become his such a person. Working for decades on a dead-end salary with no pain in the ass, chances are you won't even be able to afford a house and end up obliterated. Although most people end up being ordinary, there is a distinction to be made between the state of being thoughtful, having something to look forward to and getting by.
In fact, if their husbands really only three or four thousand a month, the woman's day is almost very difficult to happiness, every day is a variety of bad things out. There is no child okay, if there is a child, the child is not even dare to give birth to the disease, or minutes may not be able to pay the hospital fees. But women, should ultimately rely on their own, do not care to marry a man is a monthly income of 3,000, or 30,000, as long as you can ensure that their own is a monthly income of 30,000 or even more, then also need to worry about what it?