Friends are the first of the five relationships: ruler, subject, father, son, husband, wife, brother, and friend. Some people wonder as if friends are irrelevant, but in fact they are very important. A person's heart pain and worry, sometimes on the parents can not say, the next bad to the spouse and children to open up, to a good friend to talk about anything can be vented. Life in the world, affection, friendship, love, one of the three can not do without the other, one of the three missing for regret; three of the three missing two for the unfortunate; all three are not, although the life is still dead. The family is determined by blood relations, is not optional, and make friends is based on personal good and bad, the friendship between the thin and thick rely on each other's cultivation. Friends are the need of life, friends are the need of spirit, friends are the need of society, friends are the most valuable wealth of life. When a friend suddenly and inexplicably alienates you there must be a reason, first figure out the reason and then treat it differently.
First, think about the reasons why your friend alienated himself. The first thing you need to know is whether your friend has misunderstood you, or whether you are trying to alienate yourself from your friend. If it is your own reasons. Since they are friends with each other, they need to take the first step and talk to their friend openly without feeling awkward.
Know the reason, look at this reason, you yourself whether you want to do to explain, if you want to, can find two or three close friends to get together, the table to talk about the day, you right not to know that the other side misunderstand you, consciously talk about the topic of misunderstanding point, inadvertently tell the truth, eliminate the barrier is not a difficult problem.
Friendship is hard to come by. As the saying goes, it is our destiny to meet each other, and since we can become friends, we should cherish each other and build this friendship properly. When cracks appear in friendship, we should remedy the situation in time, and it is best to talk face to face to clear up misunderstandings.
The important thing to get along with your friends is to learn to accept and tolerate them, only then will the feelings of the two of you be more on a higher level. Real friends will not laugh at you when you make a fool of yourself, will not stand idly by while you encounter difficulties, but can accompany you to cry with you to laugh with you to mature and grow up together. If you've got a bad friend, it's a good idea to leave. Don't be sad because of the alienation of friends, life is so long, there are many meaningful things waiting for us to do. Otherwise it's just mediocrity. Real friends, is to go through the test of time, mutual understanding, heart to heart. Real friends, may be a sentence of careless whining words, she can feel whether you recently smooth, indirectly see your photo, you can judge your face is not good to greet you. Real friends, will occasionally appear small misunderstandings ignore, time will slowly erase that a little unpleasant traces; real friends, even if a long time no contact, but also always think of each other, will not meet infrequently fade each other's friendship. It's not easy to get a real friend in life, so if you do, cherish each other, warm up to each other, and enjoy the fortunate encounters between good friends.
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