In some places, after the death of the elderly, family members and children need to change the couplets at home into purple and stick them for one or three years. But in recent years, many people don't care about these external ceremonies and only maintain the most basic worship. In fact, the so-called third anniversary, first anniversary, tenth anniversary, etc. are just the thoughts of the living on their dead relatives.
There are many people who are still worried about their loved ones after their death and have been unable to leave. This kind of caring mood will affect a person's mood and physical health for a long time. At this time, it is necessary to release the accumulated emotions in the heart, so people treat some more memorable dates with special dignity.
This so-called? Commemorative date? For people who have passed away, there is no difference. If you really want to be nice to a dead person, the best way is to miss him more. A famous person once said that the last trace of a person in the world exists in people's hearts, and when the last person who remembers him forgets him, this is the real death. Therefore, it is the best memorial to the dead relatives to let them live in their hearts forever.
As for those external forms, they are actually for the living. People need to express their feelings through these external forms, to express their inner savings, to prove their own? Love? .
Generally speaking, there is not much pressure on the third anniversary of the death of a loved one. As long as you don't forget the past of your loved one in your heart, you can worship seriously.