1. When a man no longer loves you, he is all kinds of dislike for you, because he has a comparison in mind. You breathe is wrong, walk is wrong, in short, no matter what you do is wrong. Women, do not always review where you do not do well, really think so you are wrong. Your good or bad has really nothing to do with whether he is looking for a dog or not, it is in their nature to look for a dog, depending on whether there is a chance or not.
2. With a new favorite, he will focus on his appearance, all kinds of dress. In order to give the sweetheart a good impression.
3. Breaking the usual routine, suddenly obsessed with a hobby
4. Increased spending, dinner and open house to buy gifts are to use money.
5. Occasionally, the conscience will make him very good to you, this is, suddenly attentive, not adultery is theft.
6. There is also a kind of love scene veteran is as always very good to you, so that you feel all the men under the sky derailment he will not, this is the most vicious kind.
6. Your body is no longer interested, the body is the most telling.
The greatest sorrow of women is to dwell on is not where they do not do well, is not really as good as the one outside. Personal opinion that these are really not your problem, Tong Liya beauty, Ma Yili beauty, Xie Xingfang beauty, which of them is not beautiful as a flower can also support the family, so what. Oh, sisters, or to love yourself, in a way the man cheating as a kind of low-level animal behavior, you are not so sad. You'll be less upset if you have money and a house than if you rely on a man. But still want to warn those men, don't think steal someone else's you take advantage as if, most of the time is when you are walking on the way to steal flowers, your family's melon has long been picked, hahaha! Sisters, be merry. All the repression and anger will turn into bad elements sneaking into your body and make them turn into tumors to be given to you. Loss of health or loss of life only their loved ones will be sad, that betrayed you will not feel guilty, from the moment the betrayal of you began you in his eyes is nothing, so many beautiful things in the world you do not go to appreciate, why for a rotten person to torture themselves? Is it worth it? Is it stupid?
A man having an affair, he will be very cautious, careless woman is not easy to notice. Even if you realize that there is something abnormal about men, you will not think much about it. If the woman expressed doubt, the man will be a variety of reasons for their own defense, the woman is often half-hearted. There is no conclusive evidence, the woman can do nothing.
Generally speaking, men cheat, there will be the following kinds of abnormal performance:
A, more than before to pay attention to grooming instrument. Especially in the evening, when going out on a double day off, hair combed shiny, but also more than once to look in the mirror. Especially on the way out of the door also have to take a hasty glance in the mirror. He went on a date oh!
B, the phone is locked and often change the password, often lying on the couch to brush the phone, the wife is close to the phone screen immediately changed.
His cell phone is seldom away from his body, and it is more unlikely that he will let his wife look at it. If the wife must review, he will in turn accuse his wife of not trusting him; or refused at the time, and then the phone will be deleted from the secrets of the clean, intentionally placed in the wife easy to find places: look at it, look at a enough!
C, to the wife do not see eye to eye. The new man's mind is on the new man, and it is natural to compare the two women, so he feels that his wife is all wrong, and he can't look at her anywhere.
It's not easy to see how the wife can be so unattractive to you, but it's a good thing that you're so happy with your wife. The wife to do the meal, not as good as before, the wife to talk to him simply do not have the patience to listen to, the wife walking posture are looking uncomfortable. Some men will show these disgust, some are more hidden.
D. Expenses suddenly increased. Dating, rooming, eating, buying gifts are a lot of expenditure. Conditions of superiority, economic freedom of men, the wife may be difficult to find this change; ordinary family men, will find ways to hide private money, or to various excuses to ask for money from their wives.
E, out of the activities increased, the time at home to reduce. Previously accustomed to go out to greet the man, the reason to go out began to more, and slowly go out without greeting. Back to the wife interrogation, they stalled, and even in turn accused the wife of too much control, annoying which!
F, suddenly attentive to his wife. Derailment of men to women attentive, not necessarily due to the heart feel guilty, but to confuse the wife, to cover themselves. The psychological logic is: look, I'm so good to you, how can there be outside the heart! This is actually a sign of weakness.
G, the house is reduced, the wife's body to lose interest. There are also routines to comfort your wife and cover yourself.
On derailment, would like to say more.
First, once the cheating behavior is exposed, the consequences are often very serious. If the spouse to forgive, although it will not make the family disintegration, but the shadow of a long time difficult to eliminate, husband and wife relationship cracks. If cheating leads to divorce, the wife is separated, harmful to themselves, but also involved in the child, the cost is expensive.
Second, people scolded the man philandering, in fact, some wrongdoing. Theoretically, derailment is generally a one-to-one, there is a man derailed, there is a woman out of the wall, therefore, light accusations of men is unfair.
Third, men derailment and women derailment consequences are different. Most men cheat because of sexual stimulation, and women cheat mostly because of feelings. So most men can do body and spirit together home, women can not. A woman's body can come back, the spirit is not easy to come home.
Fourth, derailment is a moral issue, but it is due to human nature. Most men do not want to cheat, but there is no opportunity. In view of the natural weakness of human nature, should have a moderate tolerance for derailment.
Typically, men cheat because of disgust and fear of intimacy, while women cheat because of loneliness and desire for intimacy.
So what are the signs of a man with a new love? In fact, it is very simple, she can identify from the details of his behavior. And look at the book gentleman analysis:
A, changed his face
He used to hate dancing, but recently became obsessed with practicing dance steps; he used to be big and bold, and suddenly became delicate, sending gifts to her.
In short, the things he used to be reluctant to do he now very much enjoys doing, like he's had a makeover.
This is especially evident in his appearance.
This is how Lily's cheating ex behaved. Someone who was a slob suddenly became a neat freak. Every day shoes polished, especially like to look in the mirror. One day, Lily really can not bear to ask him: are you outside someone? He was surprised, and quickly calm: we broke up.
Two, do not love to go home
From one day, he began to be unusually busy.
Either you need to work overtime today, or you need to socialize tomorrow, and even the day after that is filled with meetings and studies.
Time was erased from the calendar by his busyness. It didn't matter whether he was really busy or not, what mattered was that he would never be busy around her again. So, it was a regular thing for him to come home late, and an occasional thing for him not to.
When she uses his cell phone, he looks unnatural and has many new apps on his phone.
He often puts on a bitter show in front of her, for example, he will say that he is working very hard, working overtime day and night, etc. for a sad cover-up. Often in the TV series to see such a scene:
"Wife, I have something to go back late tonight. Or I'm working all night tonight, you go to sleep first." He deserves to be an actor, one minute he calls her pathetically, the next second he goes to a rendezvous with his new lover with gusto.
He finally came home, and she was still waiting for him, asking him if he was hungry. Already drunk and full, he excused himself and said he was too tired not to eat.
Three, the temper has become bigger
Before he, certainly not easy to anger, even if she made a not so small mistake, he will pity touch her head called a small naughty.
If he changed his mind, any little mistake she made would be the reason for his anger. And the original him, judged as two people.
In fact, at this point there is nothing that can make him not angry.
Even a minuscule little thing would make him dislike it for half a day.
The porridge is too thin, the food is too salty, as long as she handled it, he eggs pick bones, nothing to see.
Even, often will take a certain female directly or indirectly with her to compare.
Jiang quit her job and stayed home with her children. She was a woman, a man, and a woman, and she lived a happy life. But one day, her husband's temperament changed drastically and he started to find fault with her.
Since then, there has been no peace and quiet in the house, and the two of them have had a small fight every day and a big fight in three days. Until Jiang saw her husband and a strange woman shopping, she realized.
Four, less physical contact
Favored the new love, forget her. Food is limited, given to others, their own naturally not much. He never took the initiative to have intimate gestures to her, and she to his own intimate gestures, began to loathe or simply proposed to sleep separately.
He became a bit of a stranger to her, and physical contact became noticeably less frequent; he wouldn't touch her for a month or two. Even when there was physical contact, it was dealt with and ended hastily.
Shao Feng said in the skit that if a man has a woman outside, the situation is like this: first, he doesn't like to talk when he comes home.
Why?
Why? Because he was afraid to say more than he wanted to; secondly, he came home downcast, why?
The first is that he doesn't like to talk when he gets home.
Fifth, the spending has become bigger
With a new love is naturally a non-negligible expenditure. When he complained about not having enough money to spend or simply no longer pay her salary, the spending suddenly became bigger, so be careful.
He never used to use shopping and takeaway apps, but now has a track record of purchases, and these items have never even been in the house.
His popularity suddenly got better, and his friends always gave him more and more gifts, clothes, belts, and other various gifts.
She asked him, and he answered with a stammering, unclear answer. Or in the sofa a paralyzed, what words are not a word on the word tired.
He was so tired of being in the middle of her and her new love, it's a true story.
Love is great, love is able to accommodate everything. When there is love between two people, there is every possibility of happiness. Just when he no longer love her, all the tolerance and forgiveness will disappear without a trace.
He will forget her rights for his own benefit, and he will work hard to do everything just to fulfill his own selfish desires.
About cheating, there is a book gentleman has something to say:
Couples of men and women, if love, please love y.
If you do not love, please let go. Letting go of others is letting go of yourself, cheating is only a momentary stimulus for people, but it leaves a lifetime of pain.
Color word on a knife, out of the mixed are to return. Feet in two boats sooner or later will fall into the water, and have a new love is not an easy thing, time-consuming, laborious, money, but also damage to the reputation, it really does not pay. So, let's do it and cherish it.
Men have a new love, there will generally be two ideas, one is to find ways to abandon the old love, consider how to get together with the new love of the name; one is to do everything possible to hide the old love, to do outside the colorful flags flying, the home red flag does not fall.
Regardless of which, once the heart of another woman occupied a seat, and then how to pretend, and then how to cover up, can not hide the woman's unique intuition and sensitivity.
You will feel that he began to perfume you, should be concerned about things become not so much care, to find a variety of excuses for you to play on the side to go, this time the silly woman is still thinking I want to consider more for him, he is very busy lately, very tired, I should know a little bit more for him to share some of the;
You will feel that he began to dislike you because of the heart of the contrast, how do you not make up today? I don't know what to do. What kind of clothes are you wearing? You have a lot of meat on your waist recently ah, how do you spend money again? The woman is very aggrieved, feel that is not really good enough to do their own, began to reflect on their own, try to dress up, desperately beautiful, but his heart is no longer in your body, you do more will not help, this time the man on the woman's lethality is horrific, he can easily destroy that love his woman's self-confidence, this is their abhorrent place.
There is another kind, do not want to love but pretend to have no choice but to posture the most ugly, such a man is the most hypocritical, obviously made a mistake, but can act so innocent, and even as always, the way you are very good, just compelling reasons, silly woman was how to sell all do not know.
Regardless of which one, the injury is destined to be the woman who is infatuated, so, see clearly, early relief, do not bitterly retain a heart is not in your body, no one can not be separated from who, turn around with dignity, is the salvation of their own.
It can be said that the vast majority of men are still more loyal to their families, loyal to their wives. But there are very few men who always feel that their wives are not as good as others. These men, on many occasions, are able to show very obvious, for example, in the street, he saw a beautiful woman, will keep looking back, sometimes he also deliberately go to whistle, in order to attract the attention of the beautiful woman. There are even some men who take pictures of beautiful women. There are also some men whose cell phones are full of pictures of beautiful women and whose screen savers are also pictures of beautiful women. So the question in the title is not too difficult to answer. If a man has a new love, he will definitely show it in many aspects and details, and a careful woman will definitely be able to find and feel it.
The most important one is that a man with a new love is not willing to give his wife a hug. A lot of times is to lie down on the bed by himself and go to sleep. To his wife lovingly, some times it is clear that they do not do the right thing, but also pick his wife's reason. In other words, when he does not love you, there are always various reasons to come home late.
When a man has his favorite woman, he pays great attention to his words, especially the clothes he wears. It's not likely that the clothes he is wearing are the ones that someone else bought for him! So that careful daughter-in-law, must pay more attention to their husband on the clothes is not their own to buy. Some men like to buy their own clothes, some men are by their wives to buy clothes, especially the wife to buy clothes for this kind of men, when you found their own men wearing clothes is not their own to buy when you must pay attention!
And very often, people's sixth sense is very sensitive, to put it bluntly is very accurate. In fact, the sixth sense of quasi is normal, you think about and you have certain changes in the same bed **** pillow, you will certainly have a premonition and found. Many times when found that it is too late, premonition is very important, when you have a feeling that something is going to happen, it must be prevented, for example, you can double the care of their husbands, in some details to go to care and love him, and sometimes also be able to salvage their own marriages.
Another point is that when you sixth feeling he has someone in the case, do not blindly go to blame or blame each other. Because in this case, you don't have any evidence, and often make a mistake. If there is no problem, on the contrary, will make their own marriage has a crack ......
1 cell phone screen began to password lock or direct his own fingerprints
2 go home to mute or vibrate
3 when you walk past him he will WeChat chat dialog box quickly return to the desktop
4 Temper tantrums to pick on you
5 Obviously your sixth sense is very accurate, he will bite you back for not trusting him
6 Outside the nodding to other people ha ha ha ha smiled to go home to the gloomy face of the temper
7 to the room is not interested in the affair or perfunctory or even directly sleep in a separate room
8 cell phone is not far away from the hands of the toilet to bring, and the screen is facing down
9 do not allow you to go to pick him up off-duty not in the circle of friends sun you
10 to answer the phone closed or very nervous
11 men once you set up a defense, women are not fools, he thought we did not know about him, the actual teacher stood at the podium to see the students cheating is the same
12 the phone is often occupied
13 no longer take the initiative to send information and call you and say that you are busy, and even less with the
14 talk about his derailment of female colleagues he will be laughing
15 clearly derailed himself is not allowed to say also hit people
What signs of a man outside a new love, let me share it with you from a personal point of view!
I'm in love, we just need to be a little more careful, a little more attentive, can easily see the other changes, regardless of the party, there is a new love or a spare tire, there will always be a change in behavior and conversation!
Not so willing to hold your hand.
If a man has a new favorite, you will be more cold talk, not willing to talk to you more, not willing to find a topic for you, and even think you are very annoying, not too much love to take care of you, go out to play outside, will intentionally avoid you, or not hold your hand, all the way to the very unlovely and you talk.
A man with a new love, can not remember a day, do not contact you, not a greeting, not a word, ask him how the day did not pay attention to my time, he would say; I am busy, no time, etc., a series of excuses to stall you.
There is a new love, there is a spare tire of people, originally is every day will look for you to chat, look for you to talk, look for you to say the heart, look for you to say around the things that happen, there is a new love, these were originally a daily thing, slowly become no, this is the change, there will be a million kinds of excuses.
Changes in verbal communication.
In love, whether it is a relationship out of the problem or not, or who has a new love or not, in the language is going to be a big change, because he has put a better language, higher emotional intelligence spent on the new love. So, once a man has a new love, you ask him what, you want to know what, he will say; do not know, not willing to in for you to deliberately recall, to remember.
In the process of chatting and talking, but also always perfunctory you, the topic is always you are looking for, there is a change in your attitude to you, will feel that you really long-winded, really more nonsense. Occasionally, you will be shouting at you, bad temper, venting on you.
Relationship is a matter of two people, **** the same combination, and then need each other **** the same operation.
If your boyfriend or girlfriend, in the life and behavior of the slow change, and you feel, you should be a little more careful to observe each other, not because of the trust, and let it to you, to love, to do harm.
With a new favorite man, you are no longer the only one in his eyes, the sixth sense is obvious.
I think the obvious manifestations are as follows:
First, no longer everything to you as the center of gravity, but also less respect, care and smile. This person will be very negative, see you will show all kinds of dissatisfaction, that is, to find fault, what you do he is not good, left is not right, right is not, because there are comparisons.
Second, this person is no longer generous and bold, but catty, what trivial things are not happy face, small family.
Third, the person's phone will become less or no phone. When you miss it, you can't get in touch with them, and they say they are busy looking for reasons every day.
Fourth, he no longer remembers your birthday, anniversary and so on, as if the existence of air in general, you beauty or not, your joy and sadness, he is not at all on the heart.
Fifth, he will rarely accompany you to play, or take you out to dinner, because the heart is not in the right place, and will not buy you any gifts.
Six, avoid seeing all the friends and family, six relatives do not recognize.
Seventh, said falsehoods do not blush, today Travel, tomorrow business trip, more dare not tell you where to live on business trips and what people together?
Eighth, the phone are occupied line, and friends in the talk about things inconvenient to pick up into the norm.
Nine, no smile and loss of sense of humor, throw everything less than ideal to your head, meet such a person to manage their emotions, do not dance with each other or sad, to avoid being hurt.
Ten, call to close the door or go to the balcony, afraid of what you hear, very mysterious look.
Eleven, the major things no longer let you participate, you have everything outside the situation.
If a man has a new love, then the woman's intuition sixth sense, innate is very sensitive, that is, he looks at your eyes have been different! If he loves you when he looks at your eyes is absolutely deep love, affectionate thick as a ball of hot springs can not be melted! If he does not love you, he looked at your eyes are not the same, distracted, he will not put you in the heart, if a man loves you, he will pay for you to pay all the everything, your every bit and piece of him will be heartbroken, he cares about it, if a man does not love you, you are the occurrence of the sky is the problem, he will not care about it, and will not be for you and heartache!
This is the essence of the distinction between men love and do not love, a man loves you, he will be sad for you, for your pain, for you to sigh, for you to pay for all all! When a man does not love you, he will be your transparent, as did not see, he will live his dashing life, he will be when you do not exist in his life! From then on the road to the road, the bridge to the bridge, he has his wonderful, you have your future! So, between people, but that's all!
1, reduced skin to skin, before you love you, kiss you, hug you is no longer normal, with a new love after becoming less, or even no, occasionally for the distracted, to cope with you, you take the initiative to find a reason for him to stall or to cope with the matter, but like to eat health care products, especially to supplement the kidneys!
--- Fear of you find him sexual ability to lose suspect him.
2, do things cautiously. Previously, it was never a big grin, the phone does not lock the screen, chat records are not deleted, phone call records are not deleted, there is a new love, in order not to be found by you, lock the screen, call records, chat records deleted as you go, the phone becomes not away from the hand, and from time to time to open the phone to see the phone ringing, become very nervous, pick up the phone are um ah hi ah, or avoid you to answer the phone, listen to the phone.
--- Fear that you have found something intentionally or unintentionally, in order to prevent you.
3, the increase in the number of outings. More than before out of the time, out early and late, and are acting alone, looking for all kinds of reasons not to take you, ask him what to do, always stammering, working overtime today, tomorrow's friends party, the day after tomorrow, and come back very late, home when the body organized clean, extra attention to clothing.
----Fear that you will find traces of the destruction of all evidence.
4, the money is not enough to spend. Men have a new love, is certainly to increase spending, before they are turned in, the money is basically enough, now is not turned in or hide private money or borrow money with friends, and do not let you know.
--- Fear of you pursuing the money.
5, pay special attention to the image. Men have a new love, pay extra attention to the image, clean up their own Lili shivering, become fond of looking in the mirror, sometimes unconsciously sneer, clothes used to be you wash, and now become diligent, and you grabbed the wash.
---- New love passion period, destroy the evidence at the same time, psychological guilt!
The above five points, accounting for a new love rate of 60%, two to three new love rate of 100%, five accounted for all, basically ready for divorce!