When I first saw them taking their children to school, I thought their brothers and sisters couldn't take care of them, so I took them to school, but when I saw those pregnant students, I changed my mind.
After understanding, the children with them are all born by themselves, and many don't even know who their fathers are. Nigeria is a relatively open country. They can fall in love freely. Even at school, they can fall in love aboveboard. The teacher doesn't care about this. When they have children, they are not aborted but born, and the woman takes them with her. This is why Nigeria can often see single mothers. Their children don't need much education, as long as they have enough food and clothing.
After working in Nigeria for many years, there are two main factors contributing to the number of young single mothers in Nigeria.
Most men in Nigeria are lazy and irresponsible. When they see beautiful girls, they will take the initiative to pursue them, full of confidence, and will never give up until they reach their goals. Moreover, he is very skilled in picking up girls and all kinds of sweet words, but many African girls are obsessed with him.
One of my Nigerian workmates told me that he talked about seven or eight girlfriends back and forth, but they didn't get together in the end. There are two or three children born to him, all brought by girls themselves, and he has never seen them.
Many African men are irresponsible. After giving birth, they are not responsible for raising children, and women raise children alone. Foreign media reported that many children in Africa grew up with their mothers, and many children never knew who their father was.
② Puppy love is also the reason why there are many young single mothers in Africa. Many of them began to fall in love in their teens. They will not avoid their parents and teachers, but enjoy youth and love freely.
In some middle and high schools in African countries, there are not a few girls who attend classes with big bellies. When they give birth, they can ask for leave and go back to school after giving birth. Some girls even take their children to school. These situations are not allowed in China, but they don't think so. African girls can face pregnancy normally. When they are pregnant, they will give birth to children. Whether to get married or not is what they call it.
In addition to the above two points, many African girls are victims of sexual violence or forced to marry men they don't like. This is why there are many young single mothers in Africa.
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As an ocean-going sailor, I have been to Africa. Due to the backward loading and unloading equipment in the local port, I have enough time to understand the local customs. In fact, there are few single mothers in poor areas of the African continent, and most women are still relatively feudal and conservative. But there are many single mothers in the relatively rich coastal areas.
In 20 18, our ship has been on the China-Africa route. Frequent trips between China and Africa. After arriving in Africa, the local dockers loaded the goods for us, and we had time to go shopping and play. I have seen single mothers carry water in plastic buckets over their heads, and I have also seen single mothers selling green bananas and other fruits on the roadside. What impressed me the most was a single mother begging on the roadside with her child in her arms, speaking unclear Chinese. The child was dumped by this young single mother! Is sitting on the hipbone of a single mother's side, stopping China people's cars on the side of the road for money. Later, I learned that the father of the child was from China.
First: I don't know how many people know about the profession of seafarers. Sailors have been drifting at sea for a long time, separated from their wives. After arriving in Africa, many crew members will find local women to spend money to indulge in order to meet their physiological needs. Especially in African port cities, they live with local women for their own needs. Africans are pregnant because of their backward medical level and lack of a certain sense of security. Once sailors leave Africa, when they will come next time is basically unknown. This has also led many African women to become single mothers. In fact, quite a few African women are even close to giving birth and don't know they are pregnant! They don't have much idea about pregnancy. I don't know how to go to the hospital for abortion, which is one of the main reasons why there are many single mothers in Africa.
Second, international assistance to African countries in recent years encourages other countries to invest and build factories in Africa! China, in particular, has made considerable investments in Africa in recent years. This also requires more workers to develop in Africa. Many young and strong men bid farewell to their hometown and came to Africa, and began to fall in love with local girls. Especially in recent years, the imbalance between men and women in China has caused many boys to find no partners at home, so they turned their attention to transnational marriage. So many people choose to live with African girls. After a long time, you will naturally get pregnant. However, in many parts of Africa, it is not necessary to get a marriage certificate. Although young people live together, they are not husband and wife. After a long time, due to cultural differences, the problems of these African girls were exposed, and men chose to break up. Even a man quietly returned to China, leaving this woman alone with her children and becoming a so-called single mother.
Third: There are still some barbarians in Africa, and there are not a few cases in which women are pregnant when they see beautiful women having forced sex. Women, on the other hand, lack basic physiological knowledge and have no money for abortion, so they can only support themselves in the end. In Africa, single mothers are especially looked down upon. Especially unmarried pregnant women, even their own biological parents will be disgusted. No local man wants to marry these single mothers, and their final fate can only be to die alone with their children. In addition, children in Africa have few opportunities to receive education, and their parents will not give them some basic knowledge of physiological science. Many girls who have just grown up don't even know what pregnancy is, which also leads to the relationship between local young people who like each other. Finally, the girl gets pregnant, and the boy chooses to abandon the object for fear. Finally, the girl became a single mother.
In relatively poor parts of Africa, single mothers rarely appear. Because many girls here have never even traveled far in their lives, nor have they come into contact with outsiders. Get married and have children when you grow up. The divorce rate in Africa is very low. Even if a man has no feelings for his wife, he will not choose to divorce, but marry another one. Surprisingly, no matter how many wives a man marries, these women get along well. Sometimes everyone lives together and even sleeps in the same bed at the same time. Perhaps this is their unique national culture!
The marriage customs of African aborigines are also interesting. They don't need a bride price. If a man is infatuated with a woman, bring a bottle of beer and some bread. If conditions are good, bring a second-hand dress. If the woman agrees, the man will be allowed to stay in their house for a few days. If not, those who leave things will be driven away. If African boys can have a bicycle made in China, there is basically no need to go to the door to ask for relatives, and girls will also take the initiative to show their love. There will even be girls sneaking into your house at night. If boys agree, they can get married directly!
Relatively backward culture and relatively poor areas also breed many diseases in Africa. Many girls didn't even take a shower before they got married! Longing for a rich life, she finally became a single mother, and finally she could only be alone until she was old. Therefore, I also hope that the employees of multinational enterprises in various countries and the crew brothers who drive seagoing ships will respect the culture of other countries and be responsible people. Indulgence requires caution and measures must be taken in advance.
There is a strange phenomenon in Africa. There are many girls who are pregnant before marriage, and there are also many single mothers with children. Why is this happening? Let's discuss this puzzling problem for the following reasons.
China men are honest and dutiful, while African brothers are warm and open. Many African brothers are eloquent at a young age. Some African brothers are quite sweet-mouthed, and they are good at making girls happy.
African brothers will take the initiative to pursue beautiful girls. They are often full of confidence and have the courage to never give up until they reach their goals. Pick up hot chicks, my little brother from Africa, is very skillful and sweet-talking.
It is easy to get the girl's favor, and the two young people slowly fall in love. African brothers are enthusiastic, open and talkative, and African girls can't help but taste the forbidden fruit of love, which leads to unmarried pregnancies among African girls.
If a woman refuses, a man will never have a chance. In some parts of Africa, it is common for single mothers to get pregnant before marriage. There is nothing to make a fuss about.
This phenomenon rarely happens in China, because people in China are more conservative and will not happen before marriage. Unmarried pregnancy has become a common thing in Africa. When it becomes common, it will definitely affect some girls around you in words, deeds and thoughts.
What these African girls hear will affect her words and deeds and judgment, thus making similar actions to unmarried women in thought and producing imitation effect. Under the skillful skills of picking up girls and the sweet words of African brother, girls are easy to submit.
Africa is very backward. In some places, there is not enough food and clothes are not warm. Every year, food is allocated from all over the world for disaster relief assistance. The families of some African girls are very difficult. When they are sick, they have no money to see a doctor and take medicine. They found that even if they want to have an abortion after pregnancy, they can't afford it. There is no choice but to have children. After all, the child is innocent.
There are many people discussing this problem online. Some people say that African men are irresponsible and girls abandon their girls after giving birth. This kind of thing is rare. It is human nature to like the new and hate the old. There are such people in any country in the world, but a few can't represent the majority, just a special case.
In fact, most men in Africa are quite family-oriented, but due to the backward economic conditions in Africa, the birth of children after marriage and the increase of family expenses, African men have taken on the responsibility of supporting their families. Just like in our country, in order to support the family, men leave home to work in other places, leaving their wives and children at home, becoming left-behind children of left-behind women, and mother and daughter (children) live alone.
What you see in Africa is only superficial. In fact, most women in Africa have husbands, but what you see is what they look like at home. Their husbands, like men in our country, are wandering outside and working to support their families. I can only wait until the holidays to go home and reunite with my family, wife and children, just like the situation in China.
In Africa, if couples break up and divorce, men usually choose to clean up their homes and leave their houses and children to women. Many women live alone with their children. This is the main reason for single mothers in Africa.
Because African girls have little cultural knowledge and low self-esteem, they lose the most precious thing and finally eat their own bitter fruit because they are soft-hearted by the sweet words and small favors of their African brothers.
In real life, many people will complain about their poor birth and unhappy life. When you are complaining, have you ever thought that your parents are still worrying about you, taking care of your children, trying to earn more money, helping you solve the difficulties in your life, solving your worries and sharing for you?
People living in Africa are worse than you in living environment, food, clothing, housing and transportation. Now let's look at how African mothers feed their children.
In some parts of Africa, children as young as a few months eat rice paste. Why don't children eat breast milk? Because of poverty, the child's mother is malnourished and cannot secrete milk at all. Where can milk come from? The child can't survive by eating rice paste.
In some dry and water-deficient places, the mother's lips are chapped, so she uses a little water saved for her children to drink. Africa is dry and rainy, and every grain is precious. The child can finally have a meal, and the mother feeds it bit by bit for fear of wasting a grain of rice.
It's hard for a single mother to know no boundaries. There are too many people in need of help in this world, and they are willing but unable to do so. When we feel that our fate is unfair, our life is unsatisfactory and we complain everywhere, there are still many people in Africa who want to eat a hearty meal, which is a luxury.
Compared with single mothers in Africa, we are really lucky. We live in a big socialist family and don't worry about food and clothing. When you complain, imagine a single mother in Africa, and you should be satisfied, so you must learn to be grateful for a better life.
There are many single mothers in Africa, and there are more than one child, and there are several. Even the fathers of these children are different.
The woman who cleans our dormitory is a single mother with six children. With two or three children, she can't even say that about her own father. The custom in Africa is that the father of the child ignores the child and the mother raises the child after giving birth.
1. Life in Africa is very chaotic. Even junior high school girls are pregnant. Africans are unrestrained, African men are talkative and African dance has a strong sense of rhythm. African men go out drinking, dancing and hitting on women when they have money. So African men are more exposed, especially those who cheat with sweet words. Picking up girls is the most skilled African man. It's easy to talk to women.
But African men generally have a weak sense of responsibility and no family responsibilities. And it doesn't save money. Basically, you make money, and you won't spend it on your wife and children. Men are lazy. Women work to support men and children. But as a result, African men often leave with women after a while. Looking for the next woman.
African men are good at telling lies. Black people are very good at deceiving women. In Africa, China businessmen were cheated one after another. Even if you search online encyclopedia, there are Nigerian scams or Nigerian traps. Black swindlers are especially common in Africa. And these liars have high IQ. These black people can easily cheat their women. After studying in China, they cheated many inexperienced female college students in China.
These black students call themselves chiefs, and the son of the African minister cheated. And so-called black Americans. However, our society only pays attention to the study of what knowledge is in textbooks, ignoring the education and cultivation of ideological and moral character. Also lack of social discrimination. These girls are spoiled by their parents and society, and they lack morality. Enjoy it. So many people have been cheated by black people.
3。 Religion does not allow abortion. Abortion is illegal. So I gave birth when I was pregnant. African men brought up by my mother are rarely responsible for their families and children. He occasionally leaves without saying goodbye.
4。 The cost of living in Africa is very low. There is no need to wear more clothes in the tropics, as long as you can cover yourself. Shoes are slippers made of old tires. Can also feed. I often see single mothers leading a group of children. African staple food corn paste. Corn is ground into powder, poured into water, stirred and poured into it, and finally corn paste is formed, which is the staple food of Africans.
Africans, on the other hand, basically eat one meal a day and still have physical strength. We are not as strong as black people after three meals. China people can't carry many heavy things in the factory, and black people who haven't eaten can easily carry them.
5。 Diseases are prevalent in Africa, and the medical level is not good. Most poor people also look down on illness, so many children die young. Raise many children.
So in Africa, you will see many single mothers who were brought up by their mothers alone. More than one child, there are several. Even the fathers of these children are different.
Why are there so many young single mothers in Africa? There is a lot of discussion on this issue on the Internet. Is it because African men are too popular with women or women are too open?
Today, let's see why there are so many young single mothers in Africa.
Africans' tolerance for puppy love and unmarried pregnancy far exceeds imagination. In Africa, many students begin to fall in love when they are teenagers. Parents and schools do not explicitly prohibit students from puppy love, nor do they provide students with good sex education. Many student couples often get pregnant after having sex because they don't take effective contraceptive measures.
Because of poverty and backward medical conditions, many pregnant students choose to have children instead of abortion, and whether they get married or not is not important to them. In their concept of parenting, they think that it is good to have enough to eat and wear warm clothes when a child is born, and they don't pursue how good education the child can achieve. This concept has led many girls to become single mothers.
Therefore, in the campus of Africa, you will see a scene that surprises you: some girls go to school with big bellies, and some girls take their children to school. Such a scene is unimaginable and unacceptable in China.
Some African men are sentimental and irresponsible. On the Internet, we can often see the scene of Africans working. Their lazy and negligent working attitude was quickly attacked and laughed at by everyone.
African men are good at pleasing women, and African women also enjoy being surrounded by men's sweet words. However, many African men are lazy and irresponsible. They will take the initiative when they see the girl they like, and will not stop until they catch up with them.
If you get pregnant unexpectedly, the man is unwilling to bear the responsibility of raising the child after birth. They often leave quietly when they know that their girlfriends are pregnant, and some men even talk about five or six girlfriends. Many of these girlfriends have given birth to children for him, but they didn't get married in the end.
In wild Africa, girls are vulnerable to illegal violations. In Africa, because of the low level of education, many people are ignorant and have no legal concept. There are endless cases of seeing beautiful women having forced sex, which leads to many women getting pregnant.
Because Africans lack adequate sex education, many women don't even have the most basic physiological knowledge, and some girls don't even know that having sex will lead to pregnancy! In addition, the poverty of families and the backwardness of medical conditions eventually led many women to choose not to have an abortion, but to give birth to children and raise them themselves.
Foreign men invaded, leaving chicken feathers everywhere. Africa is rich in natural resources, rich in products and increasingly developed in commercial activities. In some coastal areas of Africa, many commercial ships will stop to rest or load and unload goods. During this period, many lonely crew members will disembark for fun, and some will fall in love with local women or even live together! Many women get pregnant because they don't have a good sense of contraception. The life of the crew is uncertain. When it will come back or never come back, everything is unknown.
In addition, more and more multinational enterprises invest and build factories in Africa, and many workers choose to follow the enterprises to develop in Africa. Many people come to Africa and stay for several years, and some even stay for ten years.
Many people will gradually integrate into African life and culture, and fall in love, live together and even get married and have children with some local women. But this is a transnational marriage after all, and the cultural differences are too great, and the contradictions will gradually be exposed. Some people even choose to sneak back to China in order to escape marriage, leaving their wives and children to face life alone.
These reasons are just appearances, and the most fundamental ones are backward economy and culture, low medical and health level and lack of sex education.
Of course, just like many left-behind children in our country, some African men choose to go out to work because of poverty. They are not all lazy and have no choice to make a living.
I am a financial historian, and this is my answer. Thank you for reading.
I found that there are many young single mothers in Africa. Why? Because some men in Africa are not very responsible, they only care about their own happiness and life, but ignore the children born. This is very irresponsible, very casual and very immoral. It should be condemned by all aspects of the civilized world.
In short, contraceptive knowledge is backward and contraceptive measures are not matched.
From the data in the chart, the basic law is that the more developed the economy is, the lower the fertility rate of women in the 15- 19 age group is.
As for single mothers, I won't comment without data.
A few years ago, my cousin worked in Zambia, Africa. When he returned to China, he brought an African woman who was eight months pregnant. The woman said that she was still at school. After giving birth, she wants to take the baby to school. These are all allowed by the local government. She said that single mothers are very common in their local area.
After listening to it, I felt incredible. She said that there was no one to take the children, and she had to take them to school. In their school, many people go to school with big bellies or take their children to school together. I asked her why there are so many single mothers in Africa. I got the answer from her. The main reasons are:
1. The feudal idea that men are superior to women in Africa is very serious. Women have no social status. They have been serving the patriarchal society since they were born. Parents will cultivate girls' good qualities of hard work and housekeeping from an early age.
Therefore, most African girls are simple, kind and virtuous, which stems from the backward concepts instilled from childhood. Naturally, African men look down on women in their bones. Under the patriarchal values, men are not only lazy to do housework (because women have done it), but also have no responsibility. They don't respect women, just like toys, they leave them behind when they are finished. When African men see the girl they like, they will use sweet words to touch the girl in various ways. After they get it, they will get along for a while and have no novelty. They will throw away the pregnant girl and leave the girl to swallow the bitter fruit alone. They will continue to look for flowers.
2. The education system in Africa is not perfect. In class, teachers seldom tell students about sex education, publicize the dangers after pregnancy and the solutions, as well as contraceptive measures. Therefore, when African students fall in love, the school will let it go. Many girls are pregnant and don't know it.
3. I read a report, which is very heartbreaking. There is a story in Uganda's Daily Observer: China workers at Kaluma Hydropower Station abandoned women in Oyan District of Uganda, and now these women are struggling to raise their children. After the completion of the project, the biological father of the child disappeared back to China and never came back. Some children were born without even meeting their father.
African girls don't travel far. After their lover left, they didn't know where to look, so they had to take care of their children and make a living.
Now, more and more countries will invest and set up factories in Africa to provide economic assistance. After meeting and falling in love with local girls, working boys will live together and get pregnant. At this time, if a man finds himself unsuitable, or there are many contradictions in his life, he will leave directly and abandon the pregnant woman and the baby in his belly. And many places don't need to get a marriage certificate, so women naturally become single mothers.
4. Africa's economy is poor and its medical conditions are backward. People here have poor medical knowledge, and girls don't even know to go to the hospital when they are pregnant. Moreover, many local people can't even afford to see a doctor, let alone have an abortion.
5. Africans generally have sex earlier and have more open sex. Therefore, Africans' attitude towards sex is bold and open. They are not sexually depressed, but love to play crazy, because it is allowed in the big environment.
6. African girls will also become single mothers if they encounter sexual violence or people who don't love each other. The impulse brought by this hormone is very short-lived, and after the passion, it will leave a lot of helplessness for girls.
7. Due to the historical reasons that Africa was once a colony, its development was slow and its economy was backward. Men are the main labor force at home, but in order to support their families, they will also go to other places to work, leaving women and children to live alone. Only on holidays will they go home and have a short reunion with their wives and children and enjoy happiness. Even a woman with a husband will become a special single mother because of her life.
Single mothers, whether in Africa or elsewhere, always feel powerless every time they see it. After African women become single mothers, life will be very difficult. Most of them beg with their children to make a living.
What other reasons do you know?
African men are responsible for a large number of single mothers in Africa. Laziness is the label of African men. They hardly work. It is women who come out to work to earn money and raise children.
Finally, I would like to appeal to my female compatriots. African men really can't find it, and there is no result. Because there is no responsibility in African men's genes! Children are just by-products of these African men's enjoyment!
Not just in Africa. Every year in the NBA draft in the United States, a group of single mothers bring their sons. Once I am chosen, I will jump and jump. The annual salary is 500,000 dollars!