Once I heard someone say, "In college, people who spend time with each other every day may not necessarily be true friends. Although the university is not as good as the society, but it is also a small society, here is full of hypocrisy and the world, and "the survival of the fittest" of the unchanging truth, so that people lose faith in the belief of friendship. In college, we call friends, the first seems to depend on the first time with whom the most contact, you can go out to play together, eat together, study together, in the pile of strangers with no friends and relatives, he will be attributed to the ranks of friends, so that they are not alone, perhaps the friendship of the university, is limited to mutual companionship. The distance between two hearts is not something that can be shrunk by holding hands.
People always live in certain social relations, whether it is material life or spiritual life, can not be isolated, must be interdependent, mutual interaction. So in the objective will produce this need to interact with each other, life without friendship is inconceivable.
The most important thing between friends is respect. If your friend confides in you a secret, you must keep it secret and not tell anyone about it. Perhaps your friend has also revealed this secret to others, you still have to treat it as if you alone know it, and not let the secret be spread by you. You must be there when your friend needs you most. But this is no reason to think that this gives you the right to appear before him at any time. Even to your best friend you do not have this right. It is a sign of respect and upbringing to know how to be silent and not to disturb your friend when he is in the midst of great happiness or great sorrow.
In contemporary university life, the development and diffusion of the network world has deprived or occupied the time and attention of many college students; it makes many of them fail to establish good real social relationships, thus feeling more and more lonely. And, there are also some people who also have misunderstanding about friendship, or don't know how to get friendship, or don't know how to build social relationship effectively.
Then again, the serious phenomenon of "involution" in college life makes many college students have to spend more time to learn and grow, and increase the competitiveness for their future career; therefore, they have no time or energy, or even more likely due to the brutal competition among each other, which leads to the situation of not being able to establish and obtain a benign social relationship. Therefore, they do not have the time or energy, or more likely due to the brutal competition among themselves, resulting in the inability to establish and obtain healthy social relationships. More often than not, they are alone in real life; doing a lot of things alone: attending classes alone, eating alone, studying alone, being sad, anxious, and going to sports alone ......
For the friendship of the university, some people say: false some say: Shallow traffic to stop more people say: pure utilization of the relationship between different people different life more have not the same answer so do good to themselves is the most important.