What to do if your in-laws don't give you a child
What to do if your in-laws don't give you a child
1: Separate your responsibilities, don't complain, it's your own responsibility and obligation to take care of the child, there is no law that stipulates that it's your in-laws'
2: Understand the difficulties of your in-laws, you are older and not in good health, so you should not complain, you can't do that. The actual fact is that they are not the best. Or the in-laws must earn money to support themselves?
3:More care, filial piety in-laws, sincere good to them they will naturally help us
4:Is it in-laws have concerns? They are worried about their children's health, and they are worried that they won't be able to get a good education.
5:Handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, and live in harmony. If the family is in harmony, the elderly will be happy to help with the child
6:In fact, their own children are more conducive to the growth of the child, the child's greatest happiness than the parents of the company!
Bringing up a child is your own responsibility and obligation. In-laws help is a favor, do not help is also this, feel as long as they live a healthy, happy on it. They are so old, they have their own ideas, feel free to live their own life, stretch, then go along with the old man. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it myself.
In fact, the elderly also have their own difficulties, young people must be sympathetic. After all, older, physically inconvenient, with children is not easy, a day down a lot of old people can not eat. If the old man has a disease, take the child is even more unsuitable.
There are also some old people who go out to work every day to support themselves in order not to add to the burden of young people. They don't have time to help take care of their children, and we should be sympathetic. Not and we want money to spend, do not add to our financial burden, can not give the old child is not a kind of fault.
Often more filial piety to the elderly, if you have any difficulties, they will generally help naturally. Don't just ask your in-laws, your in-laws don't look after your children, think about what you usually do? Doing filial piety and respect? The mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship must be good, get along with each other, mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is not good, no matter who's fault? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one.
There are also some old people who are afraid of not being able to look after their children, bumping into them for fear of upsetting the young people and blaming themselves; they are also worried that they are not highly educated and can't educate their children well; there are also some old people who are worried that the young people are too dirty to do what they want, and they are worried that they can't make the young people happy. These worries also make some old people are not willing to go to the children's home to see their grandchildren.
There are also some old people who are physically and economically fit and have plenty of time, but they just don't give up their children. Because they feel so old, hard work for a lifetime, want to live a good life in their old age. Want to go out for a walk, play a game, usually dance, play chess and so on. The young people are not to be blamed for this.
A person has a person's way of living, there is no absolute right or wrong in anything. Different ideas, different cultures, and even different views. Who can not go to force who, their own aggrieved point, tired point will be over, the child has no old man to bring, the same will grow up! The children who are brought up by themselves will be better off.
The old man's help is certainly better, and it's normal to bring up your own. There is no standard of reasoning in the family, the in-laws have the freedom not to bring up the child, and the daughter-in-law also has the right to complain. I'm not counting on anyone. You don't have to ask for anything. We can get by without anyone, and we'll try to get by better. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that, but I'm sure you're going to be able to do it.