5:40am-7:20am? Appointment counselor? Afternoon 2:00_3:50 appointment observer
Harvest:
1. confiding is healing. The visitor belongs to the confiding type, for the topic of how to read better, in the counselor's complete acceptance, careful listening, timely **** feelings, timely detection of positive, affirmative reinforcement. Close to the visitor, so that the visitor feels very comfortable and warm. From the process of my confidences, there are new thoughts and discoveries. When I was a student, I was poor in material and had a single spiritual life, so when I saw a book, I read it as if it were a treasure, and I read it in one breath. In addition, some books are borrowed, books can not be read without borrowing. So we scrambled to read it, and returned it in time after reading it. At that time, people's life is relatively single, the idea is relatively pure, get a book, can be very engaged, hungry to read. Now there is a cell phone, there is a TV, games on the phone, short videos, jitterbugs short videos, etc., I make it very easy to get happy, without realizing it, an hour has passed quietly. In addition, more than forty years old, physical health should be put in the first place, insist on exercise, practice yoga ah, learn Chinese dance, learn square dance, etc. should also account for some time, and now write to share, learn hypnosis course, learn to build a class course, etc. accounted for most of the time, and finally figured out that before the lunch break at noon can be read every day for about 20 minutes. In order to be able to adhere to, you can do the following: first of all, put the book to be read on the bedside at any time you can get, and secondly, you can make a weekly plan, a monthly plan, a week to read how much? How much to read in January? How much to read a year, so that you can do a clear goal. Third, you can also establish a WeChat reading group, there is a team force to promote the forward. 4, the daily goal is not too big, can easily adhere to the best. The most important thing is to stick to it. Do not seek to read to remember, read read, some of the content to remember, internalized in the heart.
2. Listening to the white space, can urge the visitor to have more thinking, promote the visitor to go forward. The counselor is very stable, in the visitor's silence, not rushing to answer, not interrupt the visitor's thinking, prompting the visitor to have more thinking, the interviewer will have new insights and discoveries, verifying that the visitor is the expert of their own problems. Appropriate white space is very necessary, can not be more anxious than the visitor, when the visitor stops for a moment, the counselor to wait a moment, warm companionship, patience, listening, fully do shine to respect, appreciation, **** love, visitors in the process of confiding in the process of their own search for the answer.
3. Counselor in the listening time, to be fully engaged, keen to capture the visitors care about the place, value the place. The visitor cares about the place, valued place to adopt the specific. What makes you feel more internalized? What do you want the state to be like? How did you come up with the idea of talking to your child about his or her thoughts? How do you think talking to your child will help him better? And so on in the process of fleshing out more information will come out.
4. To speak a good public service class. First of all, we need to understand the audience, understand their needs, according to the demand to determine the relevant topics, the front-line teachers in the complicated work, sometimes feel the energy, physical overdraft, in addition to some of the children's parents, teachers, parents of the dual identity, how to reduce pressure on themselves, how to educate the children may also be interested in the topic. The opening of the icebreaker, how to interact with the lecture to attract listeners, so that listeners in the feeling of learning, involving some small exercises, or interaction between students, so that the classroom is interesting, but also deepen the audience's feelings, the harvest may be greater. The final conclusion to set the suspense, or let the audience aftertaste.