After listening to a violin concert at the Zhongshan Concert Hall, I chatted with my little brother on the subway and talked about his recent misery and confusion, saying that he had "no energy to fight". Of course, I know the source of his frustration, and I understand his worries about having no money, no good job and no girlfriend, but at the same time, I think it's a pity that such a young man is so depressed.
I pointed to a brightly dressed girl on the subway and asked if he dared to say hello and have a few words with her. I then asked, tonight at the recital, the best performance, elegant, with long legs of the orchestra chief girl, do you think you deserve her? My little brother said he was not confident. I said, brother, the struggle is from here.
It's no coincidence that a girl in the second year of study asked me what to do if she didn't have the energy for research. I suggested that she go buy buy buy. When you see a wide range of bags and empty wallets, overdrawn credit cards, will naturally want to make the last two years of graduate school to make full use of, in order to find a good job, in order to the future of the workplace more smoothly, in order to see the favorite bag again can be elegant in the bag.
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Men like beautiful girls, show color; women love to buy buy, cure all diseases. This is not vulgar. The famous psychologist Freud believed that "Libido" (Libido, sexual instinct) is the origin of human vitality. This instinct, the instinctive desire of the organism to survive, to seek pleasure and to escape pain, is the motivating force to obtain pleasure in the body organs. Beauty fashion, on the embodiment of men and women primitive desire, this inner desire is with great explosive power. Bronze Bird spring deep lock two Qiao, rushed to the red face, twilight sky, no one knows is Lychee to. This is the love, for this to go through fire, in no way.
Of course, everyone is not only the original desire. Compared with Freud, Jung, another giant of the early psychoanalytic movement, emphasized that the human spirit has lofty ambitions, a desire for achievement, superiority and self-confidence, etc., a desire for fame, dominance, and appreciation. People with a strong sense of achievement aspire to do things faster and better, to achieve greater success, and to pursue the pleasure of overcoming difficulties, solving problems, and striving hard in the process of striving for success, as well as the sense of personal fulfillment that comes with success. In order to repay the pouring city with the Taishou, think of the years of jingo and iron horse, a man's heart is like iron until he dies, a piece of ice heart in a jade pot. This is the responsibility to cultivate the body and the family, the country and the world.
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When love dominates everything, responsibility does not exist; when responsibility dominates everything, love disappears. Throughout history, only a very few souls have possessed the serenity of mind to penetrate their darkness. The vastness of life not through the trials and tribulations how can feel, life's sparkle not stick to the end how to see, since the fate it can not let us kneel and beg for forgiveness, then instead of lingering rather than indulge in burning.
Everyone has their own spirit and emotions, all want to express and express, all want to get **** song. Artists through the creation to express and convey their aesthetic feelings and aesthetic ideals, admirers through the art of appreciation to obtain a sense of beauty, and to meet their own aesthetic needs, caused by the profound changes in thoughts and feelings, attitudes, values. Especially in today's great development of art forms, the melodious rhythm of music, delicate lines and colors, and beautiful words often blend together to show the unique charm of cross-border art, which is a good medicine for healing psychological trauma and stimulating psychological motivation.
Therefore, when there is bitterness, worry and confusion, why not go to listen to concerts, see art exhibitions, dance in the square, visit museums, where the answers you want will appear.