"If I use the money from raising children to retire, I will have an easy and happy life", what happened to those Dinks?

For those who are not very good at financial planning and saving for retirement, the name of Dink family is just a shibboleth that covers up a lot of self and family problems. They may be able to get by without the expense of children when they're young, but in their old age they face an awkward situation because they don't have enough savings, and on top of that these Dink parents face a long period of loneliness. But for those who have plenty of wealth and a rich inner world, life in old age is no different from other old men and women.

I, with the money to raise children in old age will live easily and happily

Nowadays, with the change of people's mindset as well as the gradual increase in the pressure of life, the Dink family is also more and more appearing in the daily life. In the past, the traditional thinking, unfiliality has three no after for big this sentence can be said to be y affected by millions of Chinese families, but nowadays do not want to have children of young people are countless. For this part of the young people, the great pressure of life makes these people are not willing to marry and have a baby of their own.

In fact, the idea of the Dinky family is quite understandable, as the expenses needed to raise a good child from the beginning of time can be quite large, whether it's for food and clothing when you're young or for education when you've grown up a little bit, etc. It requires a lot of money. In the opinion of these families, it would be better to spend the money directly on themselves rather than on a child they are not sure they can teach well. As the saying goes, if you use the money from raising a child to retire, you will have an easy and happy life, and this is one of the rules of life that the Dinks families uphold.

The key to happiness in old age is the ability to save for a rainy day

Frankly speaking, there is some truth to the idea of a Dinky family, where the majority of the family's income is used to improve their quality of life, rather than catering to the traditional idea of having a child. From a personal enjoyment point of view, it does make life easier and happier for themselves and their spouses.

But in the longer term, the difference between a Dink family and a normal family is mainly in the later years of life. After all, as people continue to age, the weakening of the body's functions makes the human body very fragile, and while the average family still has grown-up children to help give a hand, the Dink family is afraid that they will have to face all kinds of trivialities and troubles in their own lives. In this case, if you are used to spending too much money when you are young, you will be in a difficult situation because of the lack of a source of income.

Three, different lifestyle choices need to take into account certain realities

In fact, in a certain sense, having children and giving them nurturing is equivalent to a kind of investment in disguise, and waiting until later in life is the time to reap the rewards of investment. Although the choice of different lifestyles is personal freedom, but in the choice must have a long-term vision to look well into the future life, planning ahead in order to step into the next stage of life without slowing down.