The more supplies you have, the richer his expenses will be.
In other words, it is his business to fall in love with you, and it is your business to love you for how long.
No one can love you completely, just like no one can love you infinitely. When a person is willing to make a commitment to you and is determined to love you for a lifetime. You have every reason to believe that he is serious.
As for later you felt that he loved you less and less, it was largely because you did not give him enough love in response.
He fully fulfills his original promise to cook for you after get off work every day. He has fulfilled it before. However, this is completely consuming the love and energy he originally had reserved.
If he loves you deeply enough, this energy will probably be enough for a year or two. If he doesn't love you that deeply, it may wear out in a few months.
To put it more vividly, we can understand the energy of love as deposits. No matter how much savings he has, if he only spends them but does not make any money, sooner or later he will run out of them. It's just the difference between spending it all in a month and spending it all in a year.
The day you start ordering takeout is actually a sign that he is low on energy. It's not that he doesn't love you anymore, but that he doesn't have enough energy. His remaining energy is not enough to continue cooking for you, he is tired.
However, you naively think that it is a duty and obligation. If he agrees to you, he should keep his word and it is natural and right. You think he will never dry up. If he is exhausted and can't hold on anymore, it means he doesn't love you and he lied to you.
3. While enjoying being loved, never forget to reciprocate.
In fact, it is very easy to repay being loved. The so-called rewards may not be reciprocal. Because love is not a transaction, not an equal exchange. How can there be any fairness in what you want and what I want?
Reciprocal repayment can replenish the energy of loving you for him, while unequal repayment can also play a replenishing role, it is just a matter of more or less.
Let’s give an easy-to-understand example: if the reciprocal reward is that he cooks and you wash the dishes. The unequal reward is, after you finish eating, kiss him gently and tell him that today's meal was particularly delicious and I like it very much.
Assume that washing the dishes can replenish him with 100 energy. Then, kisses and compliments can also replenish 80% of his energy.
Although there is a difference between 100 and 80, this difference can be ignored. Since he is willing to cook for you, he will not care about washing the dishes.
But the gap between 100 and 0 cannot be made up. While he is cooking, you scroll through Douyin, and while he is washing the dishes, you post on Weibo. If you don't want to give him anything in return, don't complain that the takeaway is delicious.
To put it bluntly, the return of love is just to make the person who loves you feel that his love is worth it. It's easy to say, and equally easy to do.
It’s just that sometimes, we are spoiled like children. In the face of great happiness, it is easy for us to temporarily forget that we are adults, and innocently dream of fairy tales, immersed in the warm body, and are too lazy to move.
It’s better to do less dreams. We are all the same, born from sorrow and dying from sweet dreams. Adult love is very helpless and realistic sentences
Adult love is very helpless and realistic sentences Part 1
1. Loneliness means there is no one in your heart. Loneliness is when there is someone in your heart but not around you.
2. Starting from the day I left you, the left atrium gradually stopped beating.
3. Sometimes, even if you are separated, you still feel that he is by your side and watching you.
4. The most despicable thing is just emotion, and the most indifferent thing is just human heart.
5. She looks like your face, but she is not your face after all.
6. I love you stubbornly, deeply and crazily.
How many times have I struggled with contradictions and thought about leaving with you at all costs, letting my life burn the most passionately before the flame goes out.
7. Too bright sunlight is not suitable for heating because it is easy to get burned.
8. My answer is if, if she doesn’t love me, then I will convince myself that she loves me.
9. I have been very emotional recently and want to cherish everyone around me. In the end, I found that I should cherish myself! As I get older, my enthusiasm has faded. If you are cool with me, then I can only live my own life. I don’t have the energy or mind to be attached to anyone. I am an obedient child, but I only obey my own heart. . I hope that I can spend this winter vacation with my family and heal myself physically and mentally...
10. A dream comes to nothing and no matter how beautiful the vows are, they will wither one day.
11. Forgiveness is just a will. Regrets are quietly buried; forgetting is the most profound and thorough tolerance.
12. You have worked hard for ten years just for a car, but when you have a car, where will you be?
13. That faint melancholy appears inadvertently when I recall you.
14. The occurrence of love requires a suitable situation. If you are too familiar with each other and understand each other too well, without a sense of mystery, it will be difficult for love to happen. Of course, love cannot happen if they are too unfamiliar and estranged from each other. Love occurs between contact and unfamiliarity. It has a sense of mystery and intimacy. It can leave ample room for imagination and maximize attraction to the most satisfactory level.
15. Just once in your life, let’s fall in love with the purpose of getting married. No longer refuse to bow down because of willfulness, no longer break up lightly because of stubbornness. Believe in it for the last time and keep walking until you grow old. Just staying together like that, in the fleeting years of coming and going, the years are peaceful. I only hope that in this life, I can hold my son’s hand and grow old together with him!
16. People who are used to going to bed late should not get rid of the habit of staying up late.
17. Love is not a matter of life and death, but a habit. A woman is used to a man's snoring, from not adapting to getting used to it and then unable to sleep without his snoring. This is love; a man Getting used to a woman's willfulness, coquettishness, even making trouble without reason, this is love; a person will write Weibo and follow another person for another person, this is love.
18. If you close your eyes tightly, the tears from the corners of your eyes will not fall easily.
19. We look at each other from a distance through the rain and fog of tears, but we don’t have the courage to commit again. However, my dear, I still ask you not to cry. After all, tears can never water a rootless love.
20. There is a song hidden in your eyes, which only plays when you are lonely. Adult love is very helpless and realistic sentences Part 2
21. In the depths of time, there is always someone who is the warmth of your life. Don’t seek to stay together, just meet each other. Bright and sad, shallow collection. A touch of longing, a touch of sadness, beautiful and quiet time.
22. There is a disease that makes me unable to live without you.
23. How much I love you ended up being sorry. No matter how many times I'm sorry, it doesn't matter in the end. It doesn't matter how much, I finally said thank you.
24. Who are you, the pen-tip boy who thinks about you day and night, turning into songs in the deserted roads of the city.
25. Without you, even if you give me the world, I still have nothing.
26. The acacia tree, passing through the years, is mistaken for no reason by the west wind.
27. In an era when everything is uncertain, we always love too early, give up too quickly, make promises easily, and don’t want to wait for the results.
28. Time never stops its pace, even if we hide in a paradise without disturbance. We still have to look at the spring flowers and autumn moon, and we still have to experience birth, old age, illness and death.
29. I don’t know what will happen in the future, I only know that today, I love you.
30. Without air, there is a feeling of suffocation.
31. When we love someone, we have made an exchange of our hearts with the other person. Even if one party regrets it later and wants to take it back again, it is impossible.
32. I wish I were still a child. No broken hearts, no painful tears.
33. I feel longing by pressing my fingers, and sadness slowly emerges from my eyes. Your dependence suddenly becomes an unbearable sky. Are you willing to accept my weight, day and night in the future? Will you carry the weight of love with me at night?
34. The flowing water is the shadow of the white clouds, the moon is the shadow of the sun, the night is the shadow of the day, the pain is the shadow of love, I don’t ask you to be my shadow, I am willing to be your shadow, fate is ruthless , pushed you and me to the extremes. A hundred years of tears can only flow into my heart slowly. I took the wrong train in this life, and I am destined not to be able to depend on you. I heard a dream within a dream, my you, chasing you forever.
35. We are all still the same as we were when we were young, standing where we were in the old days, never far away.
36. I once fell into the darkness of fog and struggled to extricate myself.
37. It’s just that she doesn’t love me, so I can’t feel the love of others.
38. We used to be close friends, but now we are strangers.
39. To make love simple, it is best to choose a partner that suits you. A person who is truly worthy of love and knows how to love back will naturally make love easier. There is no need to guess the feelings between the two people, no need to worry about the whereabouts; no fear of being irritated unintentionally, no doubt about the motives of doing anything. There is a little care between two people, but they won't get entangled; there is a little longing between two people, but they won't be sad.
40. A grievance that can be expressed is not a grievance if it is cheap; a lover who can be snatched away is not a lover. ——Xuan Yi’s sentence sharing about love in the adult world being too humble
Sentences about love in the adult world being too humble (Part 1)
1. To meet someone, all you need to do is It only takes one minute; it only takes one sentence to like someone; it only takes one day to fall in love with someone; but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
2. When you are troubled, embrace your joy, happiness, and happiness, and a wonderful life will kiss you; when you are tired, let yourself relax, and gather good luck, peace, and good fortune, and a wonderful life will kiss you; 14 kisses on Valentine’s Day, wishing you a happy and wonderful life.
3. Love cannot be perfect, the important thing is to learn to cherish it. What is marriage? Two lonely birds built a nest to hide from the wind and rain. If one party is not careful, the wind and rain will come particularly violently. Throughout life, whether happiness or pain, it is brought by those who love us. Maturity, responsibility, betrayal, marriage contains too much content. Where can the word love be exhausted?
4. In the depths of time, there is always someone who is the warmth of your life. Don’t seek to stay together, just meet each other. Bright and sad, shallow collection. A touch of longing, a touch of sadness, beautiful and quiet time.
5. The world is too big and I still meet you; the world is too small and I still miss you.
6. Boss, I want to say that you have given me the best love. What I have is enough. I am not afraid of death, but I am afraid of living in a dilemma between the two of you who love me the most...
7. The only thing that can wash away everything except tears is time. Time moves feelings forward. The longer the time, the weaker the conflict, like tea that is constantly diluted.
8. We are all still the same as we were when we were young, standing where we were in the old days, never far away.
9. You fell into my drama, and I fell into yours. After that, war broke out, and finally there was no news of my return.
10. The one who never lets go is called true love. Imperfection is what life is.
11. It’s not that you can’t live without someone, but you can’t let go of someone.
12. The person in the memory lives in the old city. He is a few inches farther away and a few minutes older.
13.320 I want to love you and be devoted to you. Just like the clothes on my body, they are inseparable. Just like the soju I drink, they blend into one. Just like the pillow I sleep on, we are always together. Together, let my love bless you and wish you happiness!
14. Liking someone is a feeling, but not liking someone is a fact. Facts are easy to explain, but feelings are hard to describe. The difference between "love" and "like" is simple. If you love a flower, you will water it. If you like it, you will pick it!
15. Happiness should be accompanied by sadness, and the sky should be sunny after the rain. If it's still rain after rain, if it's still sad after sadness. Please allow us to face the separation calmly. Smile and look for an impossible you!
16. There are some barriers. I thought they would be diluted by time, but after working hard for a long time, really for a long time, I discovered that two people are still two parallel lines that will never intersect at the end. So I feel tired, and even though I am tied by my children, I still want to let go.
17. If you love me, why do you let me misunderstand you so deeply and truly.
18. She looks like your face, but she is not your face after all.
19. It’s strange that in my thin youth, I had nothing to do. The frivolous peach blossoms charmed my eyes, and the green water of your clothes filled my eyes. ——An Yiru "There is a Peach Blossom in the World"
20. Security is that I have a knife, and love is that I gave the knife to you. Sentences about love being too humble in the adult world (Part 2)
21. Yes, please give me a distance. Only with distance can there be attraction. But don’t go too far! When I sink in pain or confusion, don't let me fail to hold your hand!
22. I run like a child, a child who bursts into tears looking at the sky.
23. I am carefree because I have been looking for the right person for me.
24. Just listen to you telling your story quietly, and then smile.
25. When love goes bad, please give up as soon as possible, because bad love is not love.
26. Just once in your life, let’s fall in love with the purpose of getting married. No longer refuse to bow down because of willfulness, no longer break up lightly because of stubbornness. Believe in it for the last time and keep walking until you grow old. Just staying together like that, in the fleeting years of coming and going, the years are peaceful. I only hope that in this life, I can hold my son’s hand and grow old together with him!
27. When you truly love something, you will find how fragile and powerless language is.
28. Let the past go, okay? Let us forget what is not worth remembering, and let us keep what is worth remembering in our hearts forever, the eternal secret of two people!
29. If you fall in love with someone, please, please treat him tenderly. No matter how long or short the time you love each other is, if you can always treat each other tenderly , then, all moments will be a kind of flawless beauty.
30. If it weren’t for you, I could laugh at love unscrupulously; but things have changed a long time ago, and I have been holding on to the memories...
31. No matter what era or place , no matter what the environment, love seems to be the eternal theme. Regarding love, there are always a lot of tender words that are often on our lips, but we hesitate to say them. The spring water is born, the spring forest is blooming, and the spring breeze is not as beautiful as your smile.
32. A person's world is very quiet, so quiet that you can hear your own breathing and heartbeat.
33. There is a kind of encounter, but we have never embraced each other, but love is like a surge; there is also a kind of heartbeat, which is not predicted, but the love is as deep as the sea. Such encounters, such heartbeats, I know that they will never happen again in the world of mortals, and they will never meet again in the purple road in the future. Therefore, in the days to come, I promise myself in my heart: Don't waste time, don't waste time. If you miss meeting, don't miss love.
34. Love is not a kind of vanity, which should be shown off in front of everyone; love is not a beautiful dress, which should be worn outside for everyone to appreciate; love is not a task, which should be respected by relatives and friends. An explanation.
35. Pray that heaven and earth will let go of a pair of lovers, and that what you are afraid of will never happen.
36. I hide in the sea of ??love, and my tears travel thousands of miles just for you. The sea of ??love is filled with my confession to you, and your past is hidden in my heart during the journey of thousands of miles, just for your smile. , but let me wait in this life, the deep affection circulates in the dream, the love and hate are in the vicissitudes of life, I can speak my words, but you can't hear the tears in my heart.
37. Holding hands and breaking up come from the same hands.
38. Dogs cannot be fed too well and humans cannot treat them too well. Those who cannot be retained will not be sent away slowly.
39. Sometimes, when we are willing to forgive a person, it is not that we are really willing to forgive him, but that we are unwilling to lose him. I don't want to lose him, so I can only pretend to forgive him.
40. We look at each other from a distance through the rain and fog of tears, but we don’t have the courage to commit again. However, my dear, I still ask you not to cry. After all, tears can never water a rootless love. Is adult love always difficult? My dreams are all about your love.
Love quotes for adults. When people grow up, love is no longer pure. Difficult love quotes.
1. Why walk alone outside the umbrella, my arms are the same as my own
2. I said I forgot you but you appeared in my dream when I had a nightmare What makes me feel so at ease?
3. Jumping around, laughing and having fun, life is good
4. It’s not that it’s difficult for adults to fall in love, it’s that adults do it Everything is difficult; of course, if you want to follow the trend and find someone to spend the rest of your life with, someone has to take over.
5. His treatment of relationships is very different from his treatment of himself. He loves to be alone and lonely, but he prefers to give to you. Everything is blooming, he can let himself be trapped in uneasiness silently, but he will definitely give you stability and solidity. He can fester in the ridicule and misunderstanding of others and do nothing, but he will not tolerate others saying a bad word about you. .
6. There is such a person in the world. He is lonely and wants to hug you.
7. It is not that it is difficult for adults to fall in love, but it is difficult for adults to do anything.
8. Finally, at a certain moment, I determined my ideal, worked hard, sometimes smiled and sometimes shed tears, Spend most of your life flowing into a river of unknown depth. Be cautiously content or flustered.
9. No matter how beautiful the virtual world is, you still have to manage the present with your heart. It turns out that I love you more than I thought.
10. You are not who you were before, and I am not who I was before.
11. If you hate something and feel heartbroken but still think that something is beautiful, you must be content and making trouble. Bundle. You can be careless at this time.
12. Sometimes, just reading a book or reading a story can make people feel as if they have aged thousands of years in an instant. The same is true for tomb robbing, anyone can play it, and everyone in the world is not him. We like him but not him. After all, he is just a person in our own hearts.
13. Your chance only exists when others are playing and you are working hard. When others work hard, you work harder.
14. I have never drank the strongest wine, but I have held hands that I will never change.
15. Loneliness is a course you must learn by yourself before meeting the right person.