? On 20 1 1 year, my Dabao was born. The arrival of Dabao brought infinite tension and surprise to the whole family. But after the summer vacation, faced with work, who will take care of the children has become a difficult problem for the whole family. This is a problem, because our family of three lives in three places. My husband works in Jinan and I am a teacher in Pingyuan. I was at Linyi's mother-in-law's house when the child was born. Resignation is unrealistic, so who will take care of the children? The child is only over 6 months old and too young to stay at home. Both mother-in-law and mother live in the countryside and are reluctant to leave their land. Finally, weigh the pros and cons, squeeze through the crowd, overcome all difficulties, and coordinate all aspects. My mother and I will go to the plain to take care of the children, but I am her own daughter.
? We didn't buy a car that year, and the road to the plain was full of twists and turns. First, my aunt who came to visit relatives in Laiwu drove me, my mother and my six-month-old daughter to her house for one night. The next day, my uncle drove me to Jinan bus station and my husband picked me up. The four of us went to the plain by bus. After arriving in the plain, the kind department director drove us to our residence, because it was the house he rented at that time, so I thanked him for doing the good deed to the end.
? After a simple solution, my husband went back to Jinan because he had to go to work the next day and support his family. My mother and I cooked a pot of noodles. My mother took a few bites and turned to see the children. My mother has shallow eyes. As soon as she turned around, she wiped her tears with her sleeve. She was afraid that I would see her. I know, there are too many concerns in these tears. I am worried that my daughter will leave her hometown, have no fixed place to live, and be alone in a strange place. I don't know when this day will end. I know there are complaints, complaining that I didn't listen to her at that time. If I had graduated and returned to Juxian as a teacher and was close to home, they would have come to see me from time to time, so it would be convenient to take care of the children.
? Silent for a night, but I have to continue during the day. For the sake of children, you should be patient.
? I'm busy with the graduating class of Grade Three. Go out early and come back late every day. After a long time, she is a stranger. She talks less and less, and she eats less and less. She only likes to eat pancakes that I don't want her to bring, but she insists on bringing them, but there is always a time to finish them. Fortunately, the happy time every day is to call my dad. Only when I called my dad did I show my rare excitement. I asked my parents, Li, whose dog ran away and couldn't be found, whose old sow gave birth, and when will the village build a house for the elderly? Every time I bring my daughter, I will hum: "A nest of gold and silver is not as good as my own nest of grass."
? Fortunately, the winter vacation is coming. She is looking forward to the winter vacation soon. She knows exactly what day it is. She counts the days with her fingers. Finally, until my winter vacation, we borrowed a colleague's car to drive home. She called my dad in advance to prepare her favorite tofu brain, pancakes and cakes. She also said a lot along the way, saying that we should change the status quo and not live in three places. This is not life. I nodded hard.
? When she got home, she closed her eyes and gulped in the air from her hometown, hoping to finish all the air she hadn't sucked for half a year. She feeds chickens, touches dogs, digs vegetables from the ground, mixes them into pickles and eats tofu, just like everyone else. When I woke up the next day, my father said that I didn't fall asleep last night because my mother snored too loudly. I see, sleeping at home is more practical.
? In 20 13, he was admitted to Changqing, became a teacher in Changqing District, bought a house in Changqing, and ended the separation of the three places.
? 20 17, the second child was born and the maternity leave ended. This time, it's her mother-in-law's turn to see Bauer. Her mother-in-law has a back pain, stomach pain and eye pain all the year round, and she is going to hire a nanny, but she won't let her. There are too many poisonous nannies, and she is not at ease. For the sake of the children, I can only bear it. My mother-in-law's family is also in the countryside. In my opinion, the living conditions are extremely poor. Houses and facilities stayed in the sixties and seventies, covering an area of 20 square meters. The walls are painted with very simple white lime, and the cement bricks inside are clearly visible. The sleeping bed is a shockproof bed specially built for earthquake prevention in the 1970s. There is an old cabinet made of red lacquer wood in the middle of the house, and a big jar for food on the right. There is also a table diagonally opposite, which smells like rotten wood. Next to the table are two slightly smaller ones for putting food. The cooking stove is made by my father-in-law himself and mud, and the firewood is corn platycodon grandiflorum and corn bones. The most unacceptable thing is the toilet, which is open-air and built by itself. Mother-in-law's family is not too poor to open a pot, but she feels used to life, so she still keeps it simple. They think frugality is a fine tradition.
? Speaking of which, my mother-in-law has come to look after the children. She was afraid to take the elevator for the first time. She held my husband's hand with her eyes closed and dared not take the elevator downstairs for several days. I'm not used to sleeping in our bed. I think our bed is too soft, which makes her back ache worse. I'm not used to taking a bath with a water heater. I like to use a bath. I think it's enough to pick up the washbasin and spray it from head to toe. I'm not used to using the toilet, and my life is disorderly. I don't defecate for seven or eight days. The food was hardly heated. Bauer is crying all day and night. She can't eat well or sleep well. She looks very thin. After weighing in a month, she lost more than ten kilograms. The mother-in-law is a typical chatterbox. No one can talk to her and feel uncomfortable. Usually when we go to work, as long as we get off work, my mother-in-law will always talk to us and say everything. Whether we like it or not, only in this way can we relieve boredom. Long-term depression is worse than imprisonment. Why don't we take you home? She is worried that the child will not be taken care of by a nanny, and she is distressed by the travel expenses. She said that she could endure the winter vacation.
? Two poisonings completely broke her insistence. When the heating dried up in winter, she felt uncomfortable all over, her voice smoked, she coughed at night, she couldn't sleep well, and she was listless the next day, and she had to find a way to look after the children. Poor diet leads to aggravation of stomach pain, fatigue in holding the baby, aggravation of low back pain, poor sleep, aggravation of eye pain, decreased resistance, followed by cold and fever, tinnitus and deafness. I went to the hospital and prescribed a lot of medicine. Seeing that she always coughs badly, I bought a bottle of propolis from my friend. I heard that treating cough worked wonders, but it almost killed her. After drinking, she turned her stomach upside down, and then ... After a few days, I gradually got better. I ate mung bean sprouts one night. It is estimated that there are too many pesticides in mung bean sprouts, and her mother-in-law is too weak and has food poisoning. My mother-in-law couldn't stand the toss, worried about giving us trouble, and offered to go home. My husband still wants her to observe for a few more days, fearing that the rural medical conditions are not good, and wants to wait until she is completely better before letting her go home. I advised her to go home for health, and she would be in a good mood.
? Back home, gradually get better through conditioning. Now I feed pigs, raise chickens, cook and dance square dance, and I am very happy every day. My mother-in-law started the chat mode again, and we were relieved.
? There is no sin you can't stand, but there are blessings you can't enjoy. Golden nests and silver nests are not as good as their own grass nests, but they are comfortable and comfortable.