In our university just graduated, wearing a pretend mature professional suit, busy in the major recruitment site, she has been driving a pickup truck in the unit of the construction site scurrying, or the pickup truck to the city, to help colleagues to pay the phone bill, a little with something. A girl with long hair and surprisingly good driving skills on a dusty construction site. Once she drove me, driving a medium-sized transfer car for the unit, a group of young men in the compound to see the cab is a small girl, calling friends, watching the same, interested to see how she reversed in the narrow concrete road turn around, there are actually some people outside the coaxing: "Hey, sister, okay? The first time I've ever seen a car, I've never seen it again.
The guy really lived up to his reputation, after judging the position, a few skillful gears, one-handed fast direction, the gas pedal boom, the action is a one-two punch, it is very elegant, the car is dusty, I seem to see in the rear-view mirror that group of fast jaws off. I suddenly felt that sitting in the car is a special face of a thing. I then, the license has been held for three years, but still very wimpy, do not dare to drive in the city, for fear of being rushed by the old driver, for fear of being scolded by the owner of the car behind. Even in the suburbs, I was often scared to death by the cows and sheep that came out of the bushes, almost forgetting to honk the horn and then sticking my head out to yell at them to hurry up and drive. So, for the driving thing, my knees are up to her.
She is a very independent girl, as long as there is a vacation, she will pack up her things, look after the itinerary, book the hotels and restaurants, spend a long time to do a strategy, take everyone to eat and have fun, never with the group. Do not have to go to those arranged shopping points, only to go to the place we want to go, time to stay a little longer, everything spontaneous, leisurely. And for people like me who never worry, just die begging to be taken away.
Said a girl independent, if only economic independence, will make money, that is too superficial. Independence is a person can also live a good life, not dependent on anyone. The wallet has money, the cell phone has electricity, the car has oil, can go to the place they want to go, can do what they want to do. It doesn't mean that you need to change your own light bulbs or carry your own gas, but rather that you have the ability to have the money or the connections to solve any problem you come across. With her to know the past few years, never seen her have a discouragement sad time, she is like her name, like a small sun like a girl, her name is Zhao Yao.
There is also a girl in the department who has just been here for half a year and is already working on her own. I have been praising her for her talent, she smiled and said that in terms of IQ, we are all ordinary people, no special strengths, the only difference is hard work.
Once after work, everyone left, I was working overtime, and she didn't leave. I saw her doing the form alone, she said, next month's statement to do out, the leader did not say today, but she asked herself to be completed today. A form to modify, to do 9:00 pm, in my opinion has been completed, she is still saying, the content is not a problem, but want it to be a little more clear, at a glance, so that the leadership will be the first to see where the focus is. When she asked me again to help see if there are any loopholes, I think it is already very good, she felt that she should also do a little bit of statistics by category, so that you can compare horizontally, more convincing. I could not help but look at her, it is not really pretty, but the unpolished face suddenly had a light, so I think she has a very strong attraction, that is, persistence and seriousness. I said, just a statement, you are not tired ah, tomorrow and do the same ah? She said, I just came, not familiar with, want to take the work as soon as possible, to keep up with you seniors, we must use the fastest time to fill you earlier than me to these years and experience. When I was in college, often roommates are asleep, I am still learning to do PPT, to help the department teacher to do courseware, at first stupid ah, slow as a tortoise, but did not feel that this will waste my time, I feel that learned to hand are able to do. Slowly, I was able to finish my work quickly, and it didn't take me too long to rest. I've been able to get my work done quickly, without having to take a break, and it's been proven that each of these specialties has added to my career and my life.
I was a little touched and shocked, this hard work, for the first time, let me have a sense of urgency and crisis, but also full of appreciation. Put away their complaints, work hard, such a positive girl, who can not like it.
Some girls are beautiful, but that kind of empty beautiful, like flowery, gradually lost the power to attract people, while some girls are in your life all the time, like a small sun like light four light, they are independent and confident, to retain the spiritual territory of the self. Optimistic feelings, try to be different and challenging, whether crippled or perfect, why not a faith.
Some people used to say that an all-around girl should be "able to go to the hall, get down to the kitchen, kill the Trojan horse, turn over the wall, drive up a good car, buy a new house, fight over a little girl, fight over the hooligans." I love this bit of banter so much, but it's definitely not about the high expectations men place on us, but about our own ability to leave whoever we are to make ourselves live a strong and beautiful life.