The stage is as big as the heart. Every person from the birth of this world, will be in a certain social environment to grow, accept a variety of education, received a variety of things, things, people's influence. Especially the cognition of thought, from ignorance to knowledge, this gradual development process, so that we gradually form and have their own worldview, values, outlook on life. The worldview, values, and outlook on life are different for each person due to the different stages of history, the environment in which they grew up, the level of education they received, and the economic status they have.
Worldview determines people's way of thinking, and different worldviews naturally have different ways of thinking, and different thinking determines different ideas, so that people use different ways of analyzing and dealing with problems. Worldview also determines people's values. People's good or bad for certain things, phenomena, reflecting the choice and tendency in the issue of value, worldview provides a theoretical basis for people in the cognitive things or phenomena and methodological principles. Therefore, it can be said that values are the embodiment of worldview, what kind of worldview a person has, there will be what kind of way of thinking, thus determining the attitude of life and value orientation. Worldview in turn determines people's outlook on life. How to be a human being? How to walk the road of life? In the face of these problems, the worldview provides a fundamental view of the relationship between man and nature, man and society, man and man, and provides a fundamental point of view to determine the attitude of the purpose of life.
In the final analysis, one's behavior is determined by thought. Behavior, in turn, becomes habit and thus character. When thoughts change, attitudes change, and behaviors change; when behaviors change, habits change; when habits change, character changes.
Habit is a function of the subconscious mind. We learn all kinds of knowledge, accept all kinds of things, is under the guidance of the consciousness of the repeated actions, until in the subconscious mind left a deep "brand" so far. The subconscious mind produces automatic habitual actions for people. So the habit is also known as second nature, it is the subconscious mind on the words and deeds of the automatic response.
In other words, habits are the result of conscious choice. You choose to do something and repeat it over and over again, and your subconscious mind thinks you want to do that thing, which then becomes your habit. In the same way, any kind of thought, if repeated over and over again, will also become a habit and influence people's behavior unconsciously. Therefore, it is said that with good thoughts come good habits and good behavior; conversely, bad habits will be formed, which will then evolve into bad behavior. Since the formation of habits is the result of conscious choice, we can change some of our own bad habits through conscious choice. Anyone has the freedom to choose good or bad habits. Our habits are simply our choices. If we can turn good ways of thinking, good behaviors, into our habits, we will easily achieve success and happiness in life and form an optimistic character.
Psychology generally defines character as a stable attitude toward reality formed in the course of life and a habitual way of behaving that corresponds to it. The character of each of us is formed through the accumulation of time, no one's character is born. Roman? Roland said: "A man's character determines his encounters. If you like to keep your character, then you have no right to refuse your encounters." Character determines destiny. A person's success cannot be achieved without a good character. And the development and change of good character is a gradual process that cannot be rushed. From the details of behavior to develop good habits, from the habit of consolidating a good character. As Roman? Roland believes that "without great character, there is no great man, not even a great artist, a great actor."
Character is a relatively stable psychological trait expressed in human attitudes and behaviors, and is an important part of personality. Character not only affects a person's living conditions, marriage and family, but also affects a person's interpersonal communication, career advancement, business activities, career development, management and finance. In short, character determines a person's success or failure, determines a person's future destiny. Good character allows people, whether in good times or bad, can be frank and positive face, and unremitting efforts to achieve success; bad character will allow people to go all the way, suffered a lot of frustration, and even at the critical moment ruined life, resulting in a tragic end.
The source of people's character is thought. So it is said that changing thoughts is changing destiny, and having good thoughts will lead to a good destiny.