In the traditional concept, brothers and sisters should give way to their younger brothers and sisters, otherwise it is a sign of ignorance.
"Let" is just an act, and what should stand behind it is "love and respect". This kind of comity behavior, if not handled well, can easily destroy the relationship between children and parent-child relationship.
Therefore, I think it is inappropriate to educate children's brothers and sisters from an early age, and it is also unfavorable for their future growth.
This kind of education will cause "I fell out of favor because I gave birth to this child" to my brothers and sisters, and some will even be psychologically unbalanced and bully them secretly. This will make Dabao feel resistant to Bao Xiao and think that Bao Xiao is an "intruder" in his life. It will make Dabao feel that parents prefer their younger brothers and sisters and are not optimistic, which will cause great psychological harm to Dabao. Children who grow up in this environment will inevitably increase the gap with their parents, and children will think that their parents don't care about themselves and bring more insecurity to their children.
On the other hand, if parents often educate their children in this way, their younger brothers and sisters will feel that their older brothers and sisters let them take it for granted, so that over time there will be doting and excessive connivance, which is extremely unfavorable to the growth of children.
In fact, whether brothers and sisters let their brothers and sisters have certain principles and bottom lines, and both brothers and sisters should abide by them. All men are created equal.
Parents should let their brothers and sisters know that you are brothers and sisters when you come to this world first. You are equal with your brothers and sisters, and you are also loved by your parents. When Dabao has positive behavior, parents must give praise and affirmation, so that Dabao knows that he still loves him in his parents' hearts. Create an atmosphere of respecting the old and loving the young in the family, so that my brothers and sisters naturally think that I have the responsibility to protect my brothers and sisters. Brothers and sisters should also know that this is the kindness of brothers and sisters, and they should learn to be grateful and respectful.