Whether rich or poor, poor or rich, people must live with dignity in front of their children when they are old, and not be able to be lowly, even the children look down on them, as long as they have normal intelligence and good health, they can all be dignified.
We have an old man here who is over 70 years old, but he works for his children every day like a slave, and he has to suffer from his daughter-in-law's stares and even abuse, who thinks she is dirty, lazy, and steals food. In the past, the old man worked for his daughter-in-law and son every day, cleaning, cooking, doing housework, taking care of his grandchildren, but now he is old, his mind is not working well, his forgetfulness is big, he can't do more work, and he is slow in doing things, so he is disliked by his children and is a useless piece of trash.
But when her mother-in-law was young, the couple bought a house for their children and married a daughter-in-law, contributing and dedicating everything they had, but leaving no money for old age, and now, unable to do anything about it, relying on their children but being disliked by them. People must leave old age money, can not give everything to the children parents for the son for the grandchildren, without complaint and without regret to contribute to the whole life, if you meet with filial piety and understanding of the child, in the old age is happy, but also dignified. Encounter unfilial children do not know how to filial piety and respect for the elderly, then his old age is painful, so the elderly must prepare their own old age money, when they have money in hand, the heart does not panic, children do not filial piety do not have to be afraid.
People old, must know how to cherish, maintain the body, quit all bad habits. The elderly to live with quality and dignity, must have a healthy body, the mind must be healthy and correct, do not do the wrong thing, for the old, do not respect, make damage to morality, damage to public morality, damage to the image of things, ruined the old man a life of fame, be looked down upon by others and even jokes. Maintain a healthy lifestyle, do not pursue excitement, do not make the wrong things, do not stay up late, less smoking and drinking, know how to take care of the body, remember to check the body every year, so that we can be prepared for any problems, the body is healthy, in order to live longer, live a more dignified life.
Live to learn old, find their own health interested in things. People can't do nothing every day in the old age, there is no little pursuit, every day boring days, but should have their own interest in things to do, such as getting flowers and planting grass, raising small pets and small animals, or fishing or chess, or reading or learning, or playing the piano or singing, in short, there is a hobby they like, will be happy to live a good life in old age.
Don't worry about your children, don't worry about society. Children are older, have their own ideas and views, do not be everywhere and children, this is not accustomed to, that also does not make sense, no matter what to do, different views, you can reserve the views, can not conflict with others, forcing others to accept their own point of view, or to the community of things to look at the wrong, roar angry, that is very bad for the health of older people to have an old man's appearance, do not do anything with themselves, and also with others The elderly should be like the elderly, do not everything with themselves, but also with other people that is not good.
In short, in order to let the children honor themselves, they have to set an example, take the lead, teach by example, respect the opinions of others, and others respect you. Be physically healthy, be financially independent, do what you can, don't divulge or share your property or pension money with your children in advance, that's not going to work. However, to the children's difficulties can help, do their best, do not become a penny iron rooster, love, enthusiasm, the elderly can live with dignity and value.