In fact, every child in the process of growing up, almost all have been asked "what do you want to do when you grow up" type of question, and scientists, painters, engineers, doctors and teachers and other career aspirations, is often the answer to everyone's delight. If your child says, "I want to be an internet star when I grow up," how do you respond?
First of all, in the face of the "Netflix" ideal, parents should focus on listening and communication.
Nowadays, children want to be a Netflix star, just like the phenomenon of Netflix itself - existence is reasonable. Any dream that a child has is based on their understanding of the "ideal life" and "ideal world". Instead of obsessing over their choices, you should talk to your child about what they think behind their choices.
There are many ways to communicate, but listen without preconceived notions, without judging right or wrong, and listen wholeheartedly to your child express any questions, curiosity, confusion, or excitement he or she may have about Netflix, and only then.
Parents need to accept their children, the world of children is different from the world of parents, parents think reasonable may not be applicable to their world, for example, parents love to dance sorority dance, but the daughter likes modern dance, at this time, parents can not sway the daughter's preferences, because the dance is her.
Then, parents should guide their children to see the realization of the ideal to have to pay we look at a good mother how to do. His son watched the Netflix Li Jiaqi, CCTV Zhu Guangquan live with goods, the scene is very hot, and mom said that in the future I also do like Li Jiaqi. Mom very gently asked the child a few questions:
The first question "Why do you want to be Li Jiaqi, and do not want to be Zhu Guangquan?" The son answered, because Li Jiaqi is now very hot, he wants to be as famous as Li Jiaqi. And Li Jiaqi can make a lot of money just by talking on the air and inviting a lot of celebrities to be his guests.
Mom was silent for a while, and asked her son a second question: which Li Jiaqi do you want to be?
The son looked at her in disbelief. So she turned over two photos, one is a photo of Li Jiaqi's recent live broadcast, and the other is a photo of Li Jiaqi before she became famous, squatting in the cubicle to do live broadcasts. The mother said, child, you envy, in fact, is the bright and shiny Li Jiaqi, not once obscure, but insisted on hard work to pay Li Jiaqi.
Next, the mother said: you are willing to insist on paying like him?
Li Jiaqi's success is not overnight, 365 days a year, he did 389 live broadcasts, from 7 p.m. live to 1 a.m., 4 a.m. to go to bed, had a continuous trial of 380 lipstick, and finally the lips are almost all cracked. These are just the tip of the iceberg of Li Jiaqi's fame.
The reason I'm telling you all this is not to disagree with you, but to let you know that no one can be successful casually.
Finally, mom also encouraged the child, if you can identify the goal, eat this bitter, no matter what you choose to do in the future, will not let mom disappointed.
Well, today we have shared that when a child says he wants to be a Netflix star, the parent must listen and communicate with the child to understand what he really wants, and let the child see the hard work and long term dedication it takes to be a Netflix star.
Every child's ideal deserves respect, and it's important for parents to guide them correctly, as good parents are the leaders of their children's growth.