Tell me about my suggestion. Just because you don't like it now doesn't mean you won't like it in the future. You can catch up with it. Just master the skills. Here are some ways to write for you.
First of all, are you good at talking? If you are not good at it, practice your speaking skills. The way to exercise is to chat with friends, classmates, family and neighbors and buy some related books. There are many such books in the bookstore. It would be better to introduce in detail how to grasp the progress and scope of the speech in the book. For example, I have a book "Teach You to Meet Strangers in 5 Minutes".
Secondly, you should master the necessary skills of picking up girls. First of all, of course you have to get close to that woman, but you have to get close for a reason, so that she won't notice that you like what she does. Here are some of my examples and suggestions.
Seriously, you are not as attractive as that man. You have a good chance, but you must be strong.
You may find it strange that girls like to be gentle and considerate and overbearing, but the fact is that every girl, even a very quiet girl, will also like overbearing boys, which can impress their emotions and attract their attention. On the contrary, gentleness and thoughtfulness are very common and casual for them. After all, a good girl is surrounded by boys who are good to her.
Simply put, you learn to be a man, showing that you are overbearing to the whole world and only gentle to you. Next, I quote the last explanation about the concept of attraction:
Chasing girls pays attention to attraction! Confession is secondary! Next, look at the examples and you will know how to do it, but be patient!
Girls are duplicitous animals. Everyone knows that every woman will talk about finding a Gao Fushuai who loves her, but in fact, it is easy to see a beautiful girl with some "bad boys". It's simple. Bad boys can attract her. I quote these to illustrate a truth. Just being nice to her can't keep her with you. You have to attract her first, then be nice to her, and she will be with you.