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01
With the development of the times and changes, there is a relationship in the gradual disappearance of, that is, "hair small".
If you don't believe me, ask the young people around you and the children who are growing up, and they will listen to what is called "Fasiao", and they will probably show a puzzled look.
What's a "Fairy"?
Faye is a term for a special relationship between people. Usually refers to parents are very familiar, or in the same unit, the children are growing up together playmates.
The reason why it is called hair little, is from birth to kindergarten to grow up together, to primary and secondary school to study together, until high school graduation, each go their own way.
Most of them *** live in the same environment or the same compound. They played shuttlecock, jumped rope, sandbags and flag games, etc.
These are the most popular games in the world.
Not only did they grow up together, but their parents were in the same unit, and even decades later, the names of their playmates' parents were on their lips.
For those of us who are now over 100 years old, most of us don't call each other by our first names, and we don't even call each other by our nicknames.
The special feeling between them is unforgettable.
02
A few days ago, a dozen of our friends traveled together, and this is the third year.
The smallest of them are traveling together, not just purely travel, more, is in the peer travel, with food, live with, talk with the atmosphere and feeling. With the hair little together, you a word I a word, soon you can find back to childhood memories, back to childhood innocent age.
Memories of a certain teacher in elementary school, memories of unforgettable memories of childhood, there are always memories of endless stories, say endless interesting things.
During the period, the most memorable for the two hair little, is in high school, they participated in the school's girls basketball team, and in the district in the middle school basketball league, they participated in the whole game with the role of the main force. In the end, our school girls' basketball team won the championship. Representing the district to participate in the city tournament.
Once so brilliant results, and I did not remember. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling.
At that time, I was the kind of student who had the most trouble with physical education. I remember, as long as it was raining, the gym teacher took a thick Sherlock Holmes mystery book to tell us to listen to, accompanied by the rainy day outside, every time I listened to a lot of fun, many students than listening to the mathematical and scientific concentration.
Later, when I was in gym class, I was most concerned about whether it was raining today.
Although I don't like physical education. However, in elementary school, in one of the sports meetings, 60 meters of rope running was added. That time, I ran first place, the first record in this program. It seems that the next year, a schoolgirl broke my record.
In middle school, the pommel horse reached the standard, only a few girls in our class dare not jump. Among them, including me. Later, in one practice, finally tamed by the teacher courage. To this day, I still remember the moment I jumped over the pommel horse.
"Dilly-dilly-dilly-dilly" run, then, feet vigorously a boarding, arm force a support, legs naturally separate, jumping, the body with the inertia, a leap over, the original pommel horse is nothing more than that.
It is not exactly the fulfillment of the saying. "There is nothing difficult in the world, only fear of people who have the heart."
It's the same for everything. As long as you like it, as long as you put your mind to it, and as long as you work hard, there is nothing you can't learn or do.
03
We, the youngest generation, grew up in the same compound. From going to daycare to elementary school, to middle school, to high school, we witnessed each other's growth.
In those days, our country had not yet reformed and opened up, there was a lack of supplies, the standard of living was backward, and many things needed to be purchased with a ticket. In spite of this, life in the compound was still very rich. There were schools, hospitals, nurseries, canteens, department stores, vegetable companies, mini-markets, clubs, grain bureaus, and bathhouses. There was also a readymade clothes bureau.
At that time, the unit would often invite some troupes to perform. The amateur life was quite rich in opera, song and dance, drama, opera, and so on. The new movie, the club is the first time on the screening. Old movies were regularly shown in the square in front of the cafeteria in the compound. There were positive movies and negative movies. Anyway, there are audiences on both sides of the screen.
If you want to buy food, take the grain book to the grain bureau. There are coarse grains and fine grains. The coarse grain is corn, bean flour and so on. Oh, I remember when rice was also considered coarse grain. The fine grain is wheat, noodles and so on.
When I was a kid, I always smelled the fried food in the cafeteria of the compound so fragrant, and the aroma is so strong, it seems that now I still remember the aroma of the cafeteria burning food. Parents are busy at work, often, we are with the meal ticket, take the cloth pocket to the cafeteria to buy steamed bread, carrying a small bucket to the cafeteria to play thin rice, their own home cooking, life is very simple and convenient.
Compared to now, the food we ate then was very healthy and reassuring.
04
The compound was divided into one, two and three districts, which was supposed to be easy to manage. We all lived in rows of bungalows. None of the homes had yards, and there were about a dozen homes in a row, visible from the east end to the west end.
The compound is dominated by locals, with no shortage of southern and northern accents. Public plumbing, public toilets, hot water and hot water room. Now think about it, it is quite lively.
Later, in the early 1980s, the compound began to build buildings in the back of the vacant lot. The family moved into the building one after another. Slowly, the compound is still the same compound, but the bungalows in the compound have disappeared, disappeared, and rose up a block of buildings.
Despite this, the compound still retains the characteristics of the compound. It is different from other buildings, people seem to close the door to each other, the neighbors are not related to each other, and do not even know a unit to live in, are named.
So, the love we formed in our childhood is something that many children today do not experience.
From the small love, less utilitarian, more sincere. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. The love is pure, sincere, we are together, not so much polite and worldly, each other feel more, is the kind of no need to set up a defense line of solid and spontaneous.
So, with the hair little together, no need to disguise, no mask, everyone is the most childish, the most real self.
With the development of the times, the probability of today's children becoming a "hairy boy" will be less and less.
Perhaps, with the passage of time and the change of environment, the title of "hair little" will gradually fade out of people's minds. Because, in today's society, neighbors are less and less likely to visit each other, your family sends a plate of dumplings, my family sends a bowl of chicken soup is even more rare, and how can the children like our era, to become a hair little it.
In any case, no matter what time, we will never forget that there is such a relationship in the world: growing up with you and playing together. No matter how far apart, no matter where you are, no matter how long it takes to see each other, we will remember each other until old age.
This kind of relationship is: hair little.
This relationship is: Hairy Little.