The old boss lived a very wise life when he was in power, and after ten years of retirement, the more he lived, the more he got into Zen. We were his subordinates, and now they are in their middle age, even over 50, most of them do not have much success, we often ask the old boss to give guidance. The old man often admonished: over fifty years old, rich and powerful own signs? There are these 3 seedlings, the second half of life without interest the more mixed the worse, if not corrected in time, the blessing of consumption, inevitably late in life.
One fantasizes about getting rich.
Thirty not rich forty not hair. People in middle age, especially after 50 years, the original rich and powerful time did not get rich, more than half a hundred years, can easily get rich? Some middle-aged and elderly people, still can not see through the fate, the older the more anxious, every day to buy lottery tickets, dreaming of overnight wealth; there are also middle-aged and elderly people, take the life savings to speculate on the stock market, can not be every day to ride the dark horse, catch the stop; there are some middle-aged and elderly people, actually believe that the sky falling pie, was cheated out of all their money.
People to the middle age, we must rationalize the cognitive world, there can no longer be the opportunity to get rich overnight, buy a lottery ticket can be invested every day, ten eight, just figure a fun, but do not dream, can not be happy to build on the "jackpot". Speculation in the stock market can be, but do not get rich overnight, the more the principal to play less and less. Or don't play any investment, high return program, the majority of fraud, you think ah, such a good thing, how to beg you these strangers to play it.
People to middle age, still want to emphasize to do time friends, with the law of compound interest, slowly become rich. People to middle age, are a bit of savings, to use wisdom to do a good combination of financial investment, do not put eggs in a basket. If calculated according to the average life expectancy of 80 years, 40 years old, there are still 40 years of time, 50 years old, there are also 30 years of time. Time is still very long, don't expect to get rich overnight, be a friend of time, do steady financial management and investment, slowly become rich, steadily become rich.
The second emotion plays with fire.
People to the middle age, a little money, a little power, a little idle, the wife of an old man, the left hand touch the right hand, the heart will grow grass, the heart began to stir. I'm not willing to lose my youth, and I don't want to spend my whole life in the same place. Always want to play a little spark, add some color to life. Some middle-aged people are actively looking for flowers, women, some middle-aged people are "true love" fooled, the end of both cases, are falling into the abyss.
The young man and his wife are companions in their old age. When you are rich and strong, you will be able to make a career, neglect your family, and leave your family out in the cold. When you reach middle age, you have the energy, you should return to the family, but moved up the flowery intestines, the heart began to drift out. Can you afford the family? Wife from the youthful teenagers into the old, more need your love, you not only do not give, but also to the wild flowers outside. Trees want to be quiet, but the wind does not stop, children want to raise and parents do not wait. Your parents are also old and need your company, but you give your precious time to the vixen.
Qian Zhongshu said, people in their middle age, playing extramarital affairs, like an old house on fire, incorrigible, and finally burn themselves to cinders. The word "color" is a knife. People to the middle age, on the old and young, must shoulder the responsibility of the family pillar, if you still want to play with the idea of fire, doomed to the rest of your life is not a tool, the more you mix the worse. This is not an alarmist, for thousands of years, all play with fire in the middle-aged people, are broken and separated from their families, the rest of their lives live in regret, pain and guilt.
Three complained about the sky.
Forty is not confused, fifty knows the fate of heaven. To be forty without confusion means to be free from doubt, to have what should be self-knowledge of the world, of society, of human nature, and of oneself. Fifty know the fate of heaven, is to know the fate of the rest of life, according to the fate of heaven, let nature take its course, the fate of the time must be there, the fate of the time do not want to force.
In fact, when you think about it, when you're in your middle age and you're having a good time, you should just enjoy it. Even if God owes you, you can't change it, so why don't you just set your mind at ease and let nature take its course? If you have the ability, you can also do some business, such as e-commerce, micro-business, training, selling lessons, self-media, really can not, set up a small stall, open a small store, can make themselves more fulfilled.
For example, you can do self-media, share your experience, knowledge and skills, which can also bring income and happiness; if you do not have the popular technology and marketability, then, quietly live your own light days, do not complain, do not get angry, do not decadence, and live the rest of your life in good taste is not good?
But there are still many middle-aged people who can't see through it, who whine every day, who complain about God, and who feel that God owes them. For example, some old men and women, crowded teenage basketball courts to dance in the square, forcing young people to give up their seats. They are disrespectful to the elderly and are despised by the young. As long as you still have this kind of complaining about the "signs" and "signs", the second half of life is destined to have no success.