Playing the fool - how to be wise as a fool
Rarely has confusion been revered as a wise way of being in the world. As long as you know how to play dumb, you are not a fool, but a wise fool. Don't be proud of your talent, don't know how to forgive people. Too exposed too easy to be hated, easier to make enemies. I don't know how many subordinate giants to the high and mighty to incur the disaster of death. The most important skill is to play dumb with the leadership: not to show their own superiority, and more can not correct each other's mistakes. Interpersonal communication, playing dumb can be for people to cover up the shame, looking for steps; you can pretend not to know to reach the humor, the reverse lip ridicule; can be fake crazy confuse rivals. You must have good acting skills, in order to only lovely, crazy just right. Who do not know make in the truth who will be fooled; who can not appreciate the charm of the great wisdom, who is the real fool, fool.
1. Flowers should be half-opened, wine should be half-drunk
As a person, especially as a talented person. To do not reveal the front, both effective protection of self, but also to give full play to their own talent, not only to convince, overcome the blind pride and arrogance of the pathological psychology, not too crazy too aggressive in everything, but also to cultivate the virtue of humility and let people. As the saying goes, flowers should be half bloomed, wine should be half drunk, all flowers bloom delicate time, not immediately be picked and go, that is, the beginning of the decline. Life is the same way. When you are full of ambition, and not to be high and mighty, empty-handed, unbeatable, so you do not Road others as a target to hit it! So, no matter how you have outstanding talent, but must remember: do not see yourself as too great, do not see yourself as too important, do not see yourself as a saint to save the country and help the people like a gentleman, or to converge on your sharpness, pinch up your tail, cover up your talent it.
Duke Zhuang of Zheng prepared to attack Xu. Before the battle, he first organized a competition in the capital city to select the first officer. When the generals heard that the chance to show their faces and make a name for themselves had come, they all jumped at the chance to show off their skills.
The first event was fencing. All the generals have made every effort, only to see the short sword flying, shield shaking, fight to rush. After rounds of competition, six people were selected to compete in the next round.
The second project is to compare arrows, the winning six generals each shot three arrows to hit the bull's-eye for the win. Some shot the raked edge and some shot the bullseye. The 5th person who came up to shoot arrows was Gongsun Zidu. He was a strong martial artist, young and energetic, and never took others into account. Seeing his bow on the arrow, 3 arrows hit the bull's-eye. He held his head high, glanced at the last archer, and retreated.
The last archer was an old man, his beard a little white, his name was Ying Kao Shu, who had persuaded Duke Zhuang to reconcile with his mother, and valued him in the communiqué. Ying Kao Shu stepped forward, unperturbed, biting and biting three arrows to shoot, also hitting the bull's-eye in quick succession, and shooting even with both Gongsun Zi.
When only two men were left, Duke Zhuang sent someone to pull out a chariot and said, "The two of you stand a hundred paces away and come to grab this chariot at the same time. Whoever grabs it will be the first officer. Gongsun Zidu looked at his opponent with contempt, but when he was halfway through his run, Gongsun Zidu slipped and fell. When he got up, Uncle Ying Kao had already grabbed the car in his hand. When Gongsun Zidu got up, Ying Kaoshu had already grabbed the cart in his hand. Duke Zhuang sent his men to stop him and declared Ying Kao Shu as the first official. The Duke's son, Zidu, had a grudge against him.
Ying Kao Shu really lived up to the expectation of the Duke, and when he attacked the capital of Xu, he took the lead from the ladder to the top of the city with a big banner in his hand. When he saw Ying Kao's success, Gongsun Zidu was so jealous that he drew an arrow and aimed it at Ying Kao from the top of the city, which made Ying Kao fall down from the top of the city. Another general, Fake Shu Ying, thought that Ying Kao Shu had been killed by the Xu soldiers, so he picked up the battle flag and commanded the soldiers to charge the city again, and finally took Xudu.
The typical example of a man who got into trouble for showing too much of himself was the man who was a minister of the people in the old days. When fighting for the kingdom, heroes from all walks of life converged under one banner, each more capable than the other. The master, of course, needs to borrow the talents of these people to realize his ambition to dominate the world. But the world has been set, these tigers and generals will not disappear with the talent, then their talent became the emperor's heart disease, let him feel threatened, so there are many times in the early days of the founding of the country to kill meritorious ministers, the so-called donkey is also killed. Han Xin was killed, Ming Taizu burned the building to celebrate the success of the building, all so. We have read the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" may note that, after the death of Liu Bei, Zhu Geliang seems to have no great action, unlike Liu Bei in the world as a tent, full of wisdom, sharp. Under Liu Bei, Zhuge Liang did not have to worry about the suspicion of Liu Bei, and Liu Bei could not leave him, so he could do his best to utilize his talents to assist Liu Bei, to fight a share of the kingdom, and one of the three worlds. After Liu Bei's death, Ah Dou succeeded to the throne. Liu Bei said in front of his ministers: if this kid can be assisted, support him well; if he is not the material to be the monarch, you just set yourself up as the king. Zhuge Liang was in a sweat, at a loss for words, crying, kneeling and bowing to say: How can I not do my best to be loyal and chaste until I die without letting up? After saying that, kowtow and bleed. Liu Bei again benevolent and righteous, but also not to the country to Zhuge Liang, he said let Zhuge Liang for the king, how to know there is no kill his mind? Therefore, Zhuge Liang on the one hand, bow and scrape, on the one hand, is always on the war outside, in order to avoid granting people hostage Tian Yin 's handle. And he has a great convergence of sharpness, deliberately show their own old and useless, so as not to harm themselves. This is the tactic of biding one's time, and it is Zhuge Liang's great cleverness to restrain the sharpness.
If you don't show your face, you may never get the job; if you show your face too much, you will be easily trapped. Although it is easy to achieve temporary success, but dug a good grave for themselves. When you show your talent, also buried the seeds of crisis. So it's time to stop showing your talent.
In today's society, this is still true, and the skill of interacting with leaders is to play dumb on purpose. This means not showing off your intelligence, not refuting what the other person says. In fact, to do this is very not easy, you must have very good acting skills to do. However, not everyone can be silly enough to get it just right, and if you don't get it just right, you'll get it wrong instead.
2. Drunken boxing essentials: the shape of drunkenness and God is not drunk
Watch TV series "Wu Sung", very happy Wu Sung drunkenly beat Jiang Men Shen's wonderful clips: holding a glass of wine, neck and dry, the body fell to the west and the body, the steps of the light floating float, Jiang Men Shen in the moment of carelessness, the bridge of the nose with a sudden punch, has not yet returned to God, the eyes of the forehead and suffered a leg;... ...When he finally realized that this was not a drunkard's crooked attack, his body had already been seriously injured and had no power to fight back. There are martial arts people told: this is called drunken boxing, is a high degree of difficulty in martial arts boxing, is really powerful. I heard and thought, said: understand!
Looking at the classical novel "Dream of the Red Chamber", especially admired Xue Baoji strategy, its treatment of people and things very well, and good at starting from small things: Yuanchun provincial relatives and people *** narrative with the same time, the production of a riddle, so that Baoyu and the skirt hairpin powder to guess. Daiyu, Xiangyun a thousand people, such as an eye on, between the eyebrows very disdain, and Baoqin on this is not very novel, a see guessed the riddles, but the mouth can not help but praise, only that it is difficult to guess, intentionally searching for ideas. There are experts who broke the word: this is called the play stupid, because it is quite suitable for the powers that be in the House of women without talent is the virtue of the training, is a good wind with the power to send me on the high strokes of the green clouds. I read it and think, can't help but clap: perfect!
The power of drunkenness lies in the fact that one pretends to be drunk, and on the surface it seems to be stumbling, falling, staggering, unable to push, but in fact, drunkenness
This is the first time that I have ever seen a drunkenness.