Ma Jin has always had a crush on Shanshan, a company employee, but he feels inferior and cowardly, afraid to confess to Shanshan and feels that he is not worthy of her at all. He thinks that the only way to get close to Shanshan is money, so he keeps buying lottery tickets and dreams of getting rich overnight.
On the way to the company's league building, Ma Jin found himself winning 60 million prizes in the lottery. At this moment, he was full of confidence and began to go crazy in the car.
Later, they met a big storm at sea and drifted to an unknown desert island. Ma Jin looks forward to leaving every day, because the day of redemption is getting closer and closer.
At the deadline of redemption, he still didn't go out. From the initial madness to the final helplessness, Ma Jin was completely defeated.
How eager you are to get rich overnight, how desperate you will be in the end.
I believe that getting rich overnight will only make your life more painful, make yourself lose the motivation to struggle in life, and fall into the quagmire of getting rich overnight.
As Zhan Qingyun, the debater of The Story of Chipa, said, "Never think that there is only a distance between a tired life and a heroic dream. Getting rich overnight is so short and fast that we think our dreams are within reach, but it is the farthest distance in the world. "
Many poor people feel that heaven is unfair and have not given themselves the opportunity to get rich overnight, but they don't know that this is the greatest protection for you.
Wealth is a resource, but when your wealth exceeds your ability to control it, it may become a disaster.
I once read a ridiculous news on the Internet.
After buying a lottery ticket, a man in Fujian inquired about the lottery number. He was confident that he had won 5 million yuan from memory, so he invited a group of friends to celebrate the night. Not only did he spend all his savings, but he also overdrawn his credit card by a total of 8000 yuan. When I woke up, I found that the number was wrong, and then I jumped off the building to commit suicide.
This news is actually very typical, because he fell into a fairy tale of getting rich overnight, so when this fairy tale was shattered, he could not accept it and had to choose to end his life.
Suppose that if the man really won 5 million, what would be the outcome?
I think in a few months, he will lose everything, eat and drink and find more people to show off. Wealth is his ostentatious capital, not a necessity of life.
There is also news about Chen Mou, a fellow villager in Hunan. He was lucky to win 6.5438+million yuan in the lottery, but he didn't know how to spend it, so he squandered it in four years and ended up poorer than before.
Sadly, he is used to spending money lavishly and is no longer willing to make money in a down-to-earth manner. In order to gamble, he even maliciously overdrawn 200 thousand with his credit card, trying to turn over by buying lottery tickets, but it was not glory but cold handcuffs waiting for him.
After reading a sentence, I was deeply touched: "The essential difference between people who get rich overnight and those who get rich by themselves is that the latter is snowballing, and the snowball is getting bigger and bigger, while the former can only wait for the snowball to melt little by little."
If God wants to destroy anyone, he must first make him crazy. He has always been obsessed with making money, which is the beginning of an ordinary person's madness.
If a person always wants to change his life by making a fortune, life will only be more unfortunate.
There is an argument in the fifth season of Qi Pa Shuo: Is it a good thing to get rich overnight?
Debater Zhan Qingyun's answer aroused everyone's * * *, and she said:
Getting rich overnight is an ability that can be cultivated. In other words, if you believe in getting rich overnight, you will exercise your ability for it.
For example, if you believe that you will win the lottery, then you will always buy lottery tickets.
Because they are obsessed with getting rich overnight, many girls believe that it is better to marry well than to do well, and they also believe in the bastard logic of giving money to each other first when they win the grand prize.
Because I completely believe in getting rich overnight and keep buying lottery tickets, I am easily captured by the pyramid scheme of Xiti Ferrari. The more we believe that getting rich overnight is a good thing, the more we believe the truth of the scam.
If your purpose is only to get paid, then there is absolutely no need for you to find a job that is very tiring but can make you learn something, because money is the most important thing in your eyes.
There was a saying on the Internet: "How to solve your worries is only to get rich."
Is it really a good thing to get rich?
We have been looking for the so-called shortcut to get rich and completely ignored this process. We have been eager for the enjoyment of the result, but we have never worked hard for this result. It is really sad.
In your values, it seems that getting rich can solve all problems. In fact, getting rich is not only a natural pie, but also a trap in your life.
When you don't have the ability to control tens or even hundreds of times more wealth than yourself, and you lack enough determination, the final outcome can only be tragedy.
I read a story before.
There was a poor man crying in front of the Buddha, telling how hard his life was and complaining that the world was unfair:
"Why can the rich do nothing and still be so rich, while the poor will be half dead every day, and even their own food and clothing can't be solved!"
When the Buddha heard this, he asked him, "What do you think is fair?"
The poor quickly said, "I want the rich to do the same work as the poor who have no money." If the rich are still rich, then I won't complain! " "
The Buddha smiled and said, "All right."
So he made a rich man as poor as a poor man and gave each of them a Jingshan Park. Daily food can be bought with the money from selling coal, but it takes a month to dig Jingshan Park.
In fact, the Buddha gave them all the opportunities to get rich, but the poor were at a loss in the face of this huge wealth (Jingshan Park). What he can do is to improve his life with this wealth, so he will use all the money earned from selling coal for pleasure.
Rich people are not. He simply solved the problem of food and clothing and firmly believed that he could become rich, so he saved the money he earned.
A month passed quickly, and the poor only dug the tip of the iceberg. They use the money they earn every day to buy delicious food and drinks, and never want to save money.
The rich man commanded the workers to dig Jingshan Park half a month ago and made a lot of money. He used the money to do business and soon became a rich man again.
If you don't have the ability to plan money, it's no use making you rich. Sooner or later, you will have an empty pocket.
If you don't keep your feet on the ground and keep dreaming of getting rich overnight, it will only make your life more painful.
Your cognition determines your behavior, and your behavior determines your level.
The gap between people at different levels is widening. I don't improve my cognition, but I just want to change myself by getting rich overnight. This is the saddest thing in the world.
Do you believe that getting rich overnight or getting rich must be a bad thing?
The answer is naturally no.
In fact, many times, we are eager to get rich because we are afraid of poverty. If you have never been poor, you will never understand the heartbreak.
Only when you are poor will you feel that life is really difficult and that the world is particularly unfair. There are so many people in the world, why are the poor themselves?
Bernard Shaw said: "When the greatest danger, that is, the danger of poverty, haunts everyone's mind, nothing matters."
Although money is not everything, it is absolutely impossible without money, as Ma said:
When my mother swiped all her credit cards and couldn't make up enough money for studying abroad, how eager she was to get rich overnight;
When the takeaway brother was returned late at night and sat in the street in pain, how he hoped to get rich overnight and live a dignified life from then on.
But you should know that a gentleman loves money, even if he is temporarily poor, you can change it through your own efforts. You can change your destiny by learning, get closer to the outstanding people around you and realize your greatest value.
The idea of getting rich overnight is not shameful. I'm afraid you have fallen into the trap of getting rich overnight, and you will never work hard again and live a life of self-deception. If so, that's the saddest thing.
Only by never forgetting to study and trying to change yourself can we face life calmly and realize our dreams with our own wealth.
Improve your living standards and eventually become the master of wealth, not a slave.