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I'm sure you've all seen My First Half of Life, a TV series that tells us that it's impractical and most foolish for a woman to commit her life to a man.
Luo Zijun thought she married a good husband, who could earn money, treat her well, pamper her and take care of her, but then what happened? He still divorced her and fell in love with other women.
Men are always tired of you, and then can earn money is not for you to earn the day, this day if it really came, the woman is crying or calmly analyze how to live in the future?
It is true that life is not as complicated as the TV series, when a woman puts her feelings all in when it is not rational, not sober, she must have their own ideas, to have their own life, can not put all their own dedication to their husbands or children.
And the best way for a woman to live in the second half of her life is to learn these two words: let go, let go of the unworthy, let go of the unworthy, let go of him, and let go of yourself.
People live in the world, this life is not for you to fulfill others, you have to fulfill yourself, do not be too harsh on yourself.
Particularly in the relationship, do not love is not love, do not always go to the tangled to torment themselves, Luo Zijun desperately trying to get back to the Chen Junsheng, in the end and got what? Put your posture down to the dust, for you to him are not much sense, learn to look down on the gains and losses is more important.
02
Put down the unworthy person, put down the unworthy feelings.
The most important thing you need in your relationship is to look down, the more you look at the man, he left you the greater the factor, when you learn to look down, but the most charismatic, and if the two people really have no feelings, to the point of separation, then also learn to put down.
Women should remember, for those who do not deserve it, do not entangle, will only allow themselves to suffer greater harm, when you slowly learn to look down, put down, their lives but more bright.
If the first half of your life due to the age of small can still indulge, but when you ushered in the second half of their own life, must not be for the unworthy people shed tears.
Just like Luo Zijun's second half of life ushered in a new life, she chose to live for herself, to find her own job to go to interviews, to do what she once thought she couldn't do, to support herself and her children.
When she slowly let go of the past relationship, from the shadow of the divorce out, her whole person instead of the new some, so, to learn to let go of unworthy people, especially in the second half of life, should not be obsessed with feelings, that is too unwise.
03
Let go of the past, look down on the heart, and get a new life.
When we were young, we were always calculating, it is easy to be taken by people's emotions, sometimes you are not to compete with others, but instead is to compete with themselves, so that their own life is really very twisted.
But in the second half of life, you should understand, life is not as good as nine out of ten things, some people will come and some people will go, this is very fair, don't pull your heart for these things.
Like Blue Red in the recent hit drama Elite Lawyer, he has never been able to let go of Luo Pengyi and his past, that's why he often appears by Luo Pengyi's side and even begs to get back together.
Looking at the way she would approach Luo Bin every time something went wrong and the way she treated Luo Bin, it is obvious that she cannot let go of that past relationship or that unhappy past.
So when she hears about Luo Pen's sister, she can't help but get angry and doesn't want people to mention this person's name in front of her.
The last of her finally looked down and chose to leave Luo Penang, leaving this place that made her sad, that also means she reopened her heart and ready to accept a new life.
So, when a woman really let go of the past and look forward, she will not dwell on the people and things of the past, and when she looks down on it all, she will accept it with a calm heart to face it, and live a better life herself instead.
04
In fact, the second half of a woman's life is nothing more than to pay attention to themselves, learn to look down and put down, imagine when you yourself do not look at yourself, who else will pay attention to you?
You have to be true to your heart, put your mind at ease, do a good job in the present, do not get entangled in all the unpleasant things before, only in this way, it is possible to be reborn.
Life may be many things will not be too smooth, you have to learn to accept, rather than go back to the catty, unnecessary, some problems since the existence of it, then try to solve it, rather than bypassing it, so that you can live without screwing up.
The second half of life, the only happy enough, what else do you want!