2, this thing is also a node. If you go, it basically means that you agree with his pursuit. If you don't go, you can basically show your attitude.
3, since he offered to let you go, it means he doesn't play. Of course, this matter cannot be forced. If he insists on letting you go, regardless of your feelings, there may be a tendency of male chauvinism.
4. I still don't understand how old this world is.