The child went to middle school, guys in that have any idea? In this article, we have compiled a letter of encouragement from parents to their children, welcome to read.
Parents to their children a letter of encouragement
Dear son:
Winter vacation has just passed, I do not know if your heart has taken back. In the remaining 100 days or so, how to organize your studies is crucial to your success or failure in the midterm examination. Originally, I wanted to talk to you face to face, to give you a few reminders and suggestions, but a look at your busy, and I'm afraid you're too annoying, the effect is not good, think about it or think this form is better.
The midterm exam is an important turning point and milestone in a person's life. If you can get into a good high school (Liugao or Tieyi), you will be with a group of students with excellent character ****, constant exchange of complementary **** with progress, and even more can be obtained outside the study of things. And then for the future into the 985/211 college to lay a good foundation, which in some ways will determine your future.
Now you have very little time left to fight, your future and destiny lies to a certain extent in the three months of your efforts. So I think you must listen to us, because you are our pride and hope, take back your heart, focus on these months to let go and fight for a better tomorrow.
Reasonable arrangement of study time, a few homework according to their own preferences in order of strength and weakness, time allocation according to the principle of ranking more poorly sorted, and strive for advantageous subjects, to make up for the disadvantageous subjects, because of the poor to improve the total score of the greatest potential, I suggest to the order of the number of things, physical, chemical, English, language arrangement of time, physical education subjects should be as soon as possible to catch up. Into the midterm review stage, to practice more, not only to complete the homework, but also the reference book in the exercise to do as much as possible, practice more, the greater the chance of winning. You should learn to summarize the wrong questions and constantly improve your knowledge. Every word spoken in the teacher's class is a key point, learn to interact with the teacher, the efficiency of the class is the best, this must be remembered.
After this week's observation, I found that you still don't use your time properly, and you don't know what to do after your homework is done. I bought you so many review materials, have you utilized them. In these three months, can you read more books and write less of your serials, and put your mind more on revision. I see in my eyes anxious in the heart, but it is not good to say you, afraid of affecting your mood.
I have said many times and you, our family today is the result of my efforts, my generation of hard work by their own efforts from the countryside, changed my own life, but also so that you have a decent life, but do not want to make the family turn to poverty because of your lack of effort. You are a man, you have to be responsible, you have to give your sister a good example.
Your ideals and your family's expectations and even your future are condensed in this three-month period. So no matter what ideas and thoughts you have in this period of time, please put them aside for a while and focus on grasping the most important period of time in your life. Across the past, you have great clear skies and a lot of time to read your favorite books and do what you want to do. Later on, you will look back, and you will not feel sorry for the hard work you once put in. There is no medicine for regrets, and time can not be reversed, I hope you are tired, sleepy or lonely, or when you look carefully at this letter, and constantly let it to remind you to encourage you, I believe that this is also your greatest motivation.
Go! Children, God rewards hard work, I believe that your efforts will be rewarded.
Love, mom and dad
A letter to my middle school sonDear son:
This is the first time my mom has written to you.
There are three main motivations for writing the letter, one is that you are now 13 years old and have entered junior high school, which is an important period for a person to establish his outlook on life and the world, and as a mother and as a friend, I feel that I can have an in-depth communication with you. The second is because of your character, shy, not good at family communication, I think the letter may be a better way of communication between us, can make us more equal, honest, calm communication and collision of ideas. The third is because of your experience of living in school, mom has some feelings that need to be expressed to you.
Last September, you moved from elementary school to middle school, a new milestone in your life.
There are many parents who don't understand, "Do you want to send such a young child to boarding school? You are too cruel!" "The child is to be accompanied", "parents have to give their children the best living conditions" and so on. All kinds of voices and opinions have been ringing in mom's ears. However, after half a semester of verification, it proved that mom's choice was right. With excellent teachers, excellent teaching environment, strict time management, and innocent friendship among classmates, every child has unlimited possibilities for development. Facts have proved that you are all the best! Through the exercise of living in the school, you can do life on the self-care, learning to cultivate independence, self-conscious of good habits, "learn, catch up, than, super" learning energy is not seen at home, the lazy rhythm was replaced by self-discipline, and what is more gratifying than letting your mother see this!
The mother of the eagle pushed the eagle off the cliff to teach it to fly the story you have heard, right? In fact, letting go is also love, children can not always grow up under the shelter of the mother, there will be a day you have to independently face the good times and bad times of life. Remember, moms always love their children, they just express it in different ways, which you have to understand and be convinced of. Today, mom would like to send you a few words to the present you, may you walk on the road of growth more solid, more determined.
First, be a person with dreams and pursuits
Secondary school is different from elementary school, and it is an important stage for a person to set his mind and grow up. What kind of life a person wants to live, what kind of person he wants to be, what kind of life goal he wants to set up, he has to think about it and strive for it at this stage. Liang Qichao said, "young man wisdom is China's wisdom, young man rich is China's rich, young man strong is the country strong", our great Premier Zhou at the age of 12 years old made a "for the rise of China and study" oath. Mom does not expect you to become a great man, but as an ordinary person should have their own dreams and pursuits.
Your current school has so many students who have entered Tsinghua University, Peking University, and other good universities. Don't think that they are so unattainable, they were as ignorant and young as you were six years ago. You can take them as an example, set goals in your mind and approach them step by step. When each small goal is realized, you are getting closer to your big goal. Most people without ideals and goals go with the flow, get by, or even muddle through and waste their time. Even if you don't have a big ideal, you should at least be a diligent and hardworking person. When you are old, you can be proud, no regrets to say to yourself "my youth, I worked hard!"
Second, to be a self-disciplined, planned
Excellent people are similar, they all have the quality of self-discipline without exception. The degree of your self-discipline will determine the height of your life. There is no one, who can just succeed without hard work and discipline. Those choices that really make you better must not be a comfortable process, but it will pay off with tenacity and perseverance. To give a simple example, those who are very fat, the body is very bad people are generally not self-discipline, they like junk food, do not love sports, and those who can successfully reverse, have a good body "once fat", must be through self-discipline and exercise, change their lifestyle, appearance, and even attitude towards life.
Whether it's self-discipline in life, or self-discipline in learning, it's the same. I know you are tired of studying at school, and when you go home, you want to relax, sleep and play with your cell phone. Appropriate relaxation is OK, but don't let laziness consume you, let alone indulging yourself. After you live in school, I did a fitness card, every day after work try to go to exercise for a while, do yoga, dance Uyghur Maxi Lai Pu dance, every day this self-discipline, full of life is really good, but also thank you for giving your mother such a space, so that each other to do a better version of themselves.
Third, to be a love of reading and love of sports
There is a saying I like very much, "The only thing you can't live up to in life is reading and sports, either reading, or sports, the mind and the body always have to have one on the road." Reading can enrich your knowledge, broaden your horizons, nourish your mind, make your spiritual world more abundant and full, make your mind become quiet, smooth and joyful. Although reading can not change the length of life, but enough to change the width and thickness of life, enough to accompany a lifetime. I hope you love reading, not just for writing!
Love of sports is also a valuable quality, not only to strengthen the body, change the external image, but also to make people resist stress, inner pleasure, and energy. In order not to become a greasy middle-aged woman, mom also began to change herself in the past few years, running, swimming and so on. Especially after the morning workout, the feeling of being light as a swallow and refreshed is so good! Exercise can really bring you a positive attitude towards life and full of positive energy, keeping you away from emptiness and boredom. The stress of studying needs to be broken down and metabolized through exercise, try to exercise more, when you appreciate the benefits of exercise, you will love to exercise!
Life is a practice, and you will experience it later. If you meet a good teacher to teach and a good parent to guide you, you will take a lot of detours. I hope you can be a good communicator and communicator with emotional intelligence, and share your joys and sorrows with your mom, and I will always be behind you to support you.
Love, mom
The above is my compilation of parents' encouragement letters to children for reference.