First of all, family members usually have an in-depth knowledge of their children and are able to make more accurate matches based on their children's personal circumstances and needs. They may take into account their children's personalities, interests, careers, family backgrounds and other factors to provide a more realistic and suitable candidate. In this case, matchmaking may be effective because the family may find someone who has the **** same values and life goals as their child.
However, there are some limitations to matchmaking in the family. First, family members may be too traditional or conservative in their outlook, which may affect their matching criteria. They may place more importance on material conditions such as family background, social status and wealth, while ignoring more important factors such as personality traits, personal interests and character. This may result in the family choosing an unsuitable candidate even if they have good social status and material conditions.
In addition, there may be some potential problems with family matchmaking. Family members may be constrained by their own social circles and relationships, and thus have limited choices to offer. They may not have sufficient knowledge and information to assess the suitability of candidates, and may be influenced by their own biases and preferences. These problems may result in family members recommending a match that does not meet the child's real needs.
In summary, blind dates arranged by family members are reliable to some extent, but there are some limitations and potential problems. Most importantly, children should communicate with their families, express their needs and expectations, and provide as many options and evaluation criteria as possible to ensure that they find the most suitable candidate for them.