? I am a person who will soon face marriage and start a family, in my opinion, I personally will not choose to live with my parents, because after all, their parents are old, and we are a certain generation gap, if we live together for a long time, the young couple and elders together, after all, there will be some contradictions arise, even if we try our best to avoid it may also exist some stumbling, which not only affects our relationship with our parents, but also affects our quality of life, but it does not mean that we have to stay away from our parents. This will not only affect the relationship between us and our parents, but also affect our quality of life, but it does not mean that we have to stay away from our parents.
If we have the economic conditions, we can buy a set of houses for our parents around their own home, no economic conditions, we can rent a set of houses for them, or buy a house at the time when the choice of some of them close to them, so that we can often go back and forth, such as going to dinner at night to have a meal together, eat dinner with their parents to go on a walk together, or to go to the market with their parents to go shopping, in this case more and They are also better than living together.
Some young people live with their parents in order to let them help watch the baby, but if they live separately, they can also take their parents to live at home for a period of time when the baby needs to be taken care of, and then send their parents back. Because parents also have their own later life, they also need to have their own space, they also need us to accompany, so we should live around the parents, so that you can go to spend time with them from time to time.
I choose not to live with my parents, not that I'm not filial, but I will avoid some of the contradictions that arise, and they live separately and but close to each other is also a good way. When you live together, if you live with your in-laws, then unnecessary conflicts may arise between your daughter-in-law and your mother-in-law, so that it will be difficult for you to be your husband. In Chinese families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very difficult to deal with, and very few families can handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very well, so living separately can also avoid such conflicts. If you live with your father-in-law and mother-in-law, then some of your son-in-law's behavior will cause unnecessary trouble if your father-in-law is not used to it, so it will be difficult for your wife to be in the middle. So I would choose not to live together.