My personal opinion:
1, the mother-in-law to help children with children is good after all, if you have no time to go to work with children enough to eat no savings, while working with children will be very tired, but there is a disadvantage of the general rural mothers-in-law are not willing to go to the city to help with the children of the first in the city to stay unaccustomed to language, no acquaintances to speak, at home is more free, the second can also be planted on the point of crops, the second can also be used to help with the children's work. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to buy your own.
2, if the mother-in-law with children in rural areas to live in the couple can not see the child and can not afford, education is a problem people often say that the intergenerational pro is indeed so, the general grandparents with children are not reluctant to fight not reluctant to scold the child to love what kind of what kind of grandparents, but also grandparents are more serious, but the child is not listening to the words of the grandparents to listen to the words of Mom and Dad. The fact that the school is in poor condition will also have an impact on the teaching aspect of the school.
I think if a mother-in-law has the time and inclination, she can help her children with their children, rather than giving them the opportunity to take care of their children, which she is not obligated to do. These two concepts are totally different, the former is the mother-in-law's own will, a voluntary act; the latter is an obligation, an imposed act, meaning that she has to bring up the children even if she doesn't want to.
Our family of three children, the eldest two and a half years old, and a pair of twin sister just turned one year old, my mother-in-law is usually very happy to help with the children, even if she is tired, she is also willing, if you do not let her take, she is not happy, that you dislike her, and do not want to her to help, I am very grateful for her help. But sometimes she has her own things to do and can't help with the kids, so I'll just take the three alone and make my own arrangements, even though it's tiring, I've never blamed her, after all, she's helped enough already.
No matter whether the mother-in-law to help not to help with, the mother-in-law has no obligation to help children with children, it is recommended that if there are conditions best to bring the children around both the education of the children can give the children a good living and learning environment, both can look at the process of their growth. The first thing you need to do is to get the child home to the grandmother to bring as a left-behind child.