One day, Cang Tianshuo received a phone call from Wei Xu's wife, Yuan Feng. Wei Xu is seriously depressed and has frequent suicidal tendencies. Unable to work, she left Beijing for Xi. Yuan Feng hopes that he can live. The doctor said that effective communication can alleviate his illness. Yuan Feng asked Cang Tianshuo to take time to talk to Xu Wei.
Cang Tianshuo is the nth person Yuan Feng turned to for help. There was little success in front of him. Xu Wei was famous at that time, but he was penniless and ill. No one wants to talk to a terminally ill "pauper", even a so-called brother.
Cang Tianshuo fought bravely. He and Yuan Feng said, "I will spare half a month to plant them with you. I will open it for others, don't worry. "
Sure enough, Cang Tianshuo showed up at Xu Wei's house with a car full of people and the style of a musician. After leaving the busy and noisy Beijing, in his small yard, when the drum set and music started again, Wei Xu burst into tears. ...
Ji Bolun said, "Your child is not your child. They are by your side, but they don't belong to you. What you give them is your love, but not your thoughts, because they have their own ideas. "
This sentence is really right for Xu Wei. From the family point of view, Xu Wei and music are almost out of touch. He was born in a teacher's family in Xi 'an, and his parents were not engaged in literature and art. From the origin, Xu Wei is an "artistic generation".
My parents had hoped that Xu Wei would be knowledgeable and thoughtful in the cultural class, but Xu Wei was not bad. The culture class is excellent, but he especially likes music.
/kloc-When she was 0/6 years old, Wei Xu was admitted to a key high school, which made her parents who were teachers look good. As soon as their parents were happy, they rewarded Xu Wei with a guitar he dreamed of, hoping that he would make persistent efforts in his grades, roam in the sea of knowledge, and then get back an admission notice from a key university.
Who knows, this piano just makes Xu Wei's life completely different from his parents' expectations.
In high school for three years, Xu Wei studied and practiced the piano. He is so obsessed with music that his parents think he can have his own hobbies and look elegant. But parents don't know that for Xu Wei, music is life, not a simple hobby.
1986, the first guitar playing and singing contest was held in Xi 'an. Wei Xu and one of his friends signed up and they sang a duet. As a result, Wei Xu and his friends easily won the first prize in the contest with more than 2,000 applicants.
This wet behind the ears young man is famous all over Xi.
After the competition, many performing groups came to Xu Wei and invited him to join their own team and perform all over the country. Xu Wei hadn't finished high school at that time, and the college entrance examination was just around the corner, but his heart was pulled farther and farther by music ... on the one hand, he was obsessed with music and charming distance, on the other hand, his parents' expectations for the university admission notice, which made Xu Wei very embarrassed.
After careful consideration, Xu Wei became a bad rebellious teenager and made a "big rebellious" decision-to give up the college entrance examination and travel around the country with the performance group.
Xu Wei thought that by following the troupe, he could achieve his ultimate goal and become a big star. Actually, it's not. The so-called travel is nothing more than walking on acupuncture points. They often perform until the wee hours, and then they don't even have a decent bed. They lie behind the stage and sleep. They must get up before dawn and go to the next place. They must move by themselves. Xu Wei is a musician, a loader, a tramp, a migrant worker ... and his salary is only paid once every few months. It is common to have no food.
For such a life full of gaps, Xu Wei began to reflect. I gave up the college entrance examination and paid such a big price. Have I ever lived like this?
After thinking, Wei Xu decided to go home. He wants music, not vagrancy.
1987 19-year-old Wei Xu returned to Xi 'an. The college entrance examination has been missed, and his musical dream is shattered for the first time. Xu Wei's life is full of "confusion".
Just when Xu Wei couldn't find the coordinates of life, he got an opportunity to recruit literary and art soldiers. It is perfect for Xu Zheng, who is good at guitar. He is back on the right track of life. His parents are also very happy. Their expectations for this "rebel" have sprouted again. Maybe he can pass the army and be admitted to the military school. You know, his culture class is very good.
Subsequently, Xu Wei was drafted into the army and began his life in the army.
He is still a man of few words in the army. He just wants to practice the piano. Apart from the special requirements of training and troops, he can practice the piano for more than ten hours a day without eating or sleeping. Such Xu Wei is not only an exception in the eyes of normal people, but also a professional musician.
Xu Wei, who is slightly different, not only lives freely, but also gains a love affair. Xu Wei, who is quiet and skilled in piano, attracted a female soldier in the army-Yuan Feng.
Yuan Feng is a cadre family, beautiful and excellent. It's as if God is destined to let Yue Lao's red line hang on her and Xu Wei, an unusual person.
Xu Wei and Yuan Feng fell in love when their comrades were forbidden to fall in love! They quietly covered up their secret love affair. One care is eight years, and one care is a lifetime.
1990, Wei Xu, Yuan Feng is facing demobilization. There are two roads in front of them. One is to enter the military school and become a lifelong soldier. One is to take the job-hopping fee home and choose your own job.
Wei Xu and Yuan Feng both won prizes in the army. It is a good idea for them to enter the military school. Both of them successfully received the notice from the military academy. Wei Xu's next stop is the stomatology major of Shanghai Fourth Military Medical University. The parents were overjoyed, and finally the child woke up and turned back from the crooked ways.
However, Xu Wei once again caught his parents off guard. He gave up the chance to go to military school, but he still wanted to pursue his musical dream. No matter whether the road ahead is flat or sewer, this road has been decided by him all his life.
How many disappointments there are in parents' eyes, how many firmness there are in Xu Wei's eyes. After many times of communication, my parents took out all their savings, plus Wei Xu's job-hopping fee of more than 5,000 yuan, and bought Wei Xu an electric guitar, which was regarded as the last full support of my parents on the road of life. Parents sent it, and the future road depends on Xu Wei's own road.
Yes 1990. In that era when everyone was striving to be a million households, Xu Wei's piano with more than 5,000 yuan was really worth more than life. Of course, Xu Wei lived up to expectations. With a good cultural background, he embarked on the road of creating singers and wrote his own songs and lyrics.
199 1 wrote "Don't cry baby", which is the song "Persistence" that later made Tian Zhen win all the charts in the mainland.
This song is for Yuan Feng. They have left the army and experienced the test of long-distance love, the opposition of Yuan Feng's parents and economic difficulties. Yuan Feng's parents are cadres, and they simply can't accept that their daughter in military uniform is with Xú Zhēng, a rock singer with long hair and a zipper leather coat.
Yuan Feng is often arranged by his parents to go on blind dates. In order to make her parents happy, she also went, but the first sentence was: "I have a boyfriend ... for my parents, so ...", so it was unsuccessful.
When Xu Wei officially sang "Don't cry baby" for Yuan Feng for the first time on 1993, Yuan Feng was in tears. She lasted so long, it was difficult and tired. It turned out that he knew.
Until 1998, Yuan Feng, an "old maid" who stayed in her early twenties until her thirties, finally waited for her parents' nod and became Xu Wei's wife with the blessing of her family.
But just as Xie Ye knows that marrying Gu Cheng is an abyss and still desperately wants to be together, Yuan Feng's life after marriage is not much better. Xu Wei had moved to Beijing and signed the Red Star. Yuan Feng was still left with endless waiting and loneliness, which Yuan Feng completely accepted, and then warmed into a cavity of love and full support, pushing Xu Wei forward on the road of music.
During the Red Star period, Xú Zhēng successively released the original songs "Two Days" and "Jade Bird", which were original and pleasant to listen to. Xu Wei soon became a heavyweight music idol group and a singer at the same level as Zheng Jun and Zhang Chu. I have to say that many people think that artists' cultural knowledge is really flattering, but Xu Wei is different. His lyrics "Two Days" have been selected by literary experts into "Selected Contemporary Poems of China". It can be seen that as early as 1990s, Xu Wei was probably not only an artist, but also a poet with profound cultural accomplishment.
From 65438 to 0997, Xú Zhēng released his first album "Elsewhere".
Before embarking on the road of rock and roll, someone once said to Xu Wei, "Mr. Lu Xun said that there are two kinds of people in China, one is the one who waves the flag and the other is the one who does things silently." Let's do the latter! "This sentence is a great shock to Xu Wei, and it also conforms to his flamboyant personality. Therefore, when "Elsewhere" was published, Xu Wei did the opposite, did not make any publicity, and relied on word of mouth from fans; This album actually sold 500,000 copies by word of mouth, and won the album of the year award in the annual album selection activity of that year.
Three years later, Xú Zhēng released The Year, which was unanimously regarded as the best record in the history of Chinese rock music.
Xu Wei finally proved himself to his parents and Yuan Feng. Their support and trust did not defeat Shui Piao. He and Xu Wei have been doing the right thing. They can still shine the lintel, not taking the usual road, which is the pride of live high.
But no one knows, in fact, when writing "That Year", Xu Wei was already depressed. He often stays up all night in order to write words that satisfy him; From turning on the light to dawn, in order to extract the essence of inspiration, he endlessly overdrawn his spirit, and finally lost his support and the whole person collapsed.
When the unit asked Yuan Feng to take Wei Xu home, he said that the man was going to a mental hospital. He's crazy. But Yuan Feng disagreed. She firmly believes that he is only ill, not crazy. There is also a scene at the beginning of the article. In order to prevent Xu Wei from committing suicide by jumping off the fifth floor, Yuan Feng moved his residence to a small yard. Every day when Xu Wei cries, she cries with him. When he can't get up, she helps him get up, dresses him, walks with him and asks friends to wake him up with music.
At that time, Xu Wei struggled with ten thousand suicidal thoughts every day. He has already made up his mind to quit the music circle, and it is an extravagant hope to be a normal person.
One day, Yuan Feng accompanied Xu Wei to run and ran to the underground passage of the bell tower. Through a group of people, Xu Wei and Yuan Feng heard someone singing. Take a closer look, it's two young people, one by one, all Xu Wei's songs. Xu Wei was dazed. He didn't know that someone liked him so much. Life is not that bad. His music has been recognized and followed by others. This incident greatly touched and encouraged Xu Wei.
200 1 When the depression eased slightly, Xu Wei accepted the invitation and became the producer of Huabei's new album. The album Pisces became the transition from illness to recovery in Xu Wei.
After that, Xu Wei returned to the music journey, still diligent and high-spirited, and became a prolific musician; In 2003 and 2004, Xu Wei's two albums Time Walk and Every Moment is New came out one after another. Time Walk won three awards in the fourth season of the China Media Music Awards selected by music media people, and was far ahead with the nomination of 1 1 in the annual awards list of the Music Billboard, and finally won two heavyweight awards of "Best Rock Singer" and "Best Rock Album". Every moment is new and it was nominated by the fifth Pepsi.
Since then, Xu Wei publicly announced: No more red carpet, no more awards, attending the awards ceremony, only performing. He refused all advertisements and reality shows, and he was not a judge or a contestant. If he just wants to be a musician, if you want to see me perform, I'll go, not to mention the other surroundings. Just like the promise of that year: "One waved the flag and shouted, the other worked silently, and what we did was the latter ..."
When interviewing Xu Wei in Lu Yu You Yue, he bluntly said that he was not very rich, because he relied entirely on the income from the performance, but he had a good time. He said that as a musician, he was afraid to lead the way. At the very least, he should have a benign responsibility, take good care of the people behind him and concentrate on what he should do.
And interestingly, Xu Wei's mother fell ill on 20 15. When he returned to the Fourth Military Medical University to contact his mother for hospitalization, his comrades-in-arms, classmates and leaders all asked him curiously: "Is (wife) still the original one?" Xú Zhēng understands very well, because divorce in the entertainment circle is too common, but Xú Zhēng said frankly, "Yes, it's still Yuan Feng."
Xu Wei and Yuan Feng, from their teens to their forties, have been caring for each other, holding each other's hands and being loyal to each other in a slightly cloudy environment in the entertainment circle for nearly 30 years.
To some extent, it is also Xu Wei who is practicing the invisible but important responsibility he defined for himself, doing himself well and setting a good example for the younger generation. Many responsibilities may not be put on Xu Wei, but he always bears them and never lets them go. He has always been a "silent man".
Today, 52-year-old Xu Wei is like his own "Blue Lotus": "The free world in my heart is so clear and noble, blooming and never dying!"
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