The derailment also even if, the opponent is still a big mom, the wife was hurt began to look for a junior big mom to make trouble, but the big mom is a domineering response: lost to the old woman is your own problem. Really let a person and good gas, but also feel for this cheating aunt has the bottom of the expression of amazement.
Or netizen's comment is really, say this big sister although challenge extramarital affair is abominable, but the words are not unreasonable, this two people's marriage more or less certainly is a red light, otherwise it is not possible to be such an advantageous opponent won the upper hand. Or the big mom is great, can dance square dance, down to the little fresh meat.
In the marriage, such a phenomenon is really not uncommon, often excellent women's husbands will derail a far worse than their own conditions of women, this is why? Is not the man so-called "wild food" are hungry for food? In fact, not, the nature of the man cheating is ultimately due to his innate gender desires, the big deal is that some people are able to control their own desires, and some people in the desire to lose themselves.
Men are more explosive in the moment, because men appear to have a very exaggerated and strong instant explosive power. For example, swinging fists and beating, dancing and sword fighting. Or 100 meters sprint, lift heavy objects and other strength work, men are obviously strong. But to persistently do the same thing, the so-called endurance, men are quite weak.
This also explains why men lack endurance in the marriage, and why the lack of endurance leads to the loyalty of the marriage will be a "small error".
Junichi Watanabe in his masterpiece "man this thing" frankly said: men are unfaithful to their wives, outside the "wild food" to the development of later sincere commitment, often because they have a lot of things from their wives there is difficult to get to meet, but only to other women to seek. Probably, this can also explain why men will choose the conditions than the wife is much worse than the cheating object, like the 54-year-old woman, may not have the advantage of appearance, but compared to the wife is more understanding, can let the man get more adored by the vanity of the satisfaction.
Men and women, themselves from different planets, it is recommended that women can read Junichi Watanabe's book, "This Man Thing," can further insight into the psychology and desires of men, see through the two sexes in the values of the concept of love on the ambiguities and conflicts.
The book is one of Junichi Watanabe's best-selling works, and it is the first to be published in the United States. But after all, different cultures in different countries, different groups and individuals have their own different identities and views on things, and not every one of them thinks exactly the same way as Junichi Watanabe. In any case, Junichi Watanabe's frankness as a man is admirable, and also analyzes the real heart of most men's desire to speak out.