I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.

Enan Tongshan County funeral crematorium set up in a hillside outside the city, when the eldest sister's remains pushed into the hearth at the moment, the hearth rumbled brightly, in front of the hazy eyes of friends and family tears, seems to refract her ordinary and simple life, to her life is fixed in the wuxu year in the spring of the last day of February, came to the earth, wobbling through eighty-four years of spring and autumn, counting on a high life expectancy.

The eldest sister, to be exact, is my wife's compatriot sister, according to the custom, the brother-in-law naturally should also call her as the eldest sister. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life, but I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life, and I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life, and I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life. Big sister is not adapted to the parents morning and evening to be criticized by some lessons of life, 1951 sixteen years old she resolutely out of the county west of the township, go to Wuhan to break through, had the opportunity to participate in the first financial cadres training course in Hubei Province, the completion of the allocation of qiaokou bank work, due to the good attitude to work, do things diligently and positively, warm and sincere to others, the higher organizations and leaders are trusted, and later transferred to Hankou Huarou Street, Liu Duqiao and other customer volume of work, and the work of the bank, and the work of the bank. Later, he was transferred to Hankou Hualoujie, Liuduqiao and other busy places with a large number of customers. In the country and the former Soviet Union, the so-called Big Brother friendly relations, the work unit organizations and foreign units of the friendship dance fellowship, met the Wuhan Meat Association, a young cadres from Huangpi, the two fell in love, married.

1958, is the red era, Wuhan City, called for young cadres to support the construction of poor mountainous areas, the newly married brother-in-law volunteered to sign up, to go to Tongshan County, E'nan. At that time, said, support the construction of mountainous areas after three years, you can return to Wuhan original unit work, but worried about her husband's food and clothing, no one to worry about the care and attention of cooking, in the unit also submitted an application to support the construction of mountainous areas, holding the less than a year old son came to the Tongshan, there is no reason for couples to return to the city of separation, and from then on in the Tongshan settled down.

The long years after the big sister left, the mother's family did not have any growth, the folk said that the parents committed seven female star, one after another born are girls, to the three girls named "enough wazi", meaning that the daughter was born enough, the five girls named "with the brother", followed by the girl. The fifth girl was named "Heidi", and the next one was a girl. The parents were no longer in the department store business and had nothing else to do, so supporting the family became the biggest problem. My father, who was used to carrying a load of goods, switched to selling coal on the streets for money, which was a drop in the bucket when it came to supporting the family. A group of daughters want to eat and drink, parents anxious hand rubbing.

Fortunately, the biggest characteristic of the sister is "family", began to work the first three years, monthly salary of only eighteen dollars and fifty cents, she sent back the whole ten dollars every month, leaving the change of their own spending. Take eight dollars and fifty cents of change, big sister can still save money, from time to time to send back to the sisters fashionable flower dresses flower dresses. Big sister's salary slowly increased, three years of natural disasters came, the national famine, the lack of food, but the town post office was able to deliver cookies, bread, canned food, candy and other food parcels to the old Liu family month after month. Greedy neighbors said that the old Liu family in a previous life accumulated virtue and good fortune, raised a big daughter of the family. Ideological emancipation, reform and opening up, but also famous cigarettes and wine sent to the old home, so that the family to enjoy. Big sister after leaving home nearly seventy years to her mother's home every month to send, the third time in 1971 back to her mother's home, specifically to the three sisters daughter to her home Fuyang, in order to alleviate the financial burden of the three sisters family. A year of spring, summer, autumn and winter seasons always in the care of the old family is not easy, nearly seventy years of perseverance is not simple, don't think that the big sister is always so rich, go to her home, you understand what she is relying on to take care of the mother's family.

In the summer of 1978, I participated in the Hubei Province, amateur authors on behalf of the meeting, my sister's husband heard, went to Hongshan Auditorium to pick me up to go to Tongshan, only to see my sister's family living conditions, the unit assigned to the three-room apartment, no decoration, no furnishings, when the cabinets with the table are old and decayed, lighting is more than fifteen-watt bulb, two rattan chairs, backrests and armrests rattan peeling off, with the use of iron wire wrapping the cigarette case! Tin foil lined cigarette cases were wrapped in wire. Big brother and sister couples like to smoke and drink, both husband and wife sucked are two dollars below a pack of poor quality cigarettes, drink is ten eight a catty bulk rural soil burning poor quality wine, even toilet wipe ` handpaper cut only two fingers wide and narrow, wash water stored in the washbasin, thrifty and frugal, true to its name.

In early spring this year, February, the children of the big sister of the yellow skinny belly swollen like a drum, she was sent to the hospital, in late February, in the hometown of the four sisters in the company went to Tongshan to visit the big sister, each sent her thousands of dollars of favors, the big sister of the original number of returns. February twenty-nine to the world, take the crane to the west, the bad news came, are sixty outside of the old sisters once again accompanied to Tongshan, for the big sister to send off, big sister to the two children and a daughter have a will, in my left you sisters three of the five hundred and fifty thousand deposits, moved out of the forty thousand dollars, divided among my still living four sisters ......

Big sister, the Your life, moving through the Tongshan each relevant township supply and marketing departments, go one place, no money and goods error, change a unit, no economic problems of fame, hear are clean and public praise, decades as one day, to receive family, a lifetime, try to take care of a group of sisters, to do their best to help their parents to a group of daughters to bring up the responsibility of the more important is also to raise their own two grams of son and a daughter, and also for the They have to worry and pay for their families and careers where there is still such a lot of savings to be shared with the sisters at the end of the day. Sisters of a word of mouth, that are big sister life hard their own, from the teeth to save out of ah ......

The family is composed of the cells of society, due to the big sister sister's husband's care of the family move, led to the sisters of their respective families as a family of unity, each other, respect for each other as a guest, there is no you fight for the phenomenon, only to help each other to pro Phenomenon, only to help each other's affection, there is no interest strife jealousy, only mutual understanding of each other to help each other's warmth and gas, five or six sisters, five or six families, there is each other, from the same, there is a distinction, but never distinction, a nephew in the sisters and relatives built a group of WeChat, the group name is: happy family!