First, strengthen communication with each other. Many times there are contradictions between lovers because they don't know how to communicate, so there will be many misunderstandings. As long as the two sides can sit together calmly, frankly express their thoughts and emotional needs about life, and often exchange their feelings about life, they can strengthen the tacit understanding.
Second, when misunderstanding occurs, we should know how to reflect on ourselves in our feelings. The contradiction between lovers needs two hands to make a sound, and emotional things are particularly complicated. It is always two people who feel wronged in this relationship, and no one wants to admit their mistakes. You can let the other person calm down for a while, let yourself reflect on your own shortcomings and mistakes, seriously think about each other's feelings and ways of getting along, and see how to get along in the end, so that the relationship between the two will be more harmonious.
Third, take the initiative to admit your mistakes. In feelings, people who admit their mistakes first are generally people who care about this relationship. As long as your face is not as important as this relationship in your heart, learn to bow your head appropriately. Sometimes being too tough will only make us lose the people we love the most, and learn to admit our mistakes actively to resolve the contradictions between us.
Fourth, when couples get along together, they should keep an open-minded heart, don't always stare at each other's shortcomings and mistakes, and don't always haggle with each other because of a little thing. When encountering something, we should consider the problem from the other side's point of view, respect and consider each other's feelings, tolerate and understand each other's shortcomings, and learn to tolerate each other. * * It will be easier for two people to get along together.