The beautiful marriage she had hoped for turned into a bubble overnight. She was tortured to death and finally chose the road of suicide. The topic that can never be avoided in marriage is cheating. Even a once excellent woman fell into the swamp of marriage and completely gave up her original self. Weibo's first hot comment is: Women should never give up their careers. A woman without a career is equivalent to losing an umbrella.
Tang Hui used to have his own job, and it was easy to earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a year. After giving up her job, she became the "Mi Chong" at home, and even finding her husband to buy things for her children became a luxury in his eyes. But he took money to buy a bag for San Xiao, spent tens of thousands of dollars on a car, but felt sorry for the hundreds of dollars for buying shoes for his children. When a man doesn't love you, he doesn't even have to love his children.
To test whether a man really loves you, a serious illness is enough. At the beginning of this year, Tang Hui was diagnosed with breast cancer by the hospital. She was in hospital for nearly a month, and her husband only came once. In the face of her husband who has been playing with his mobile phone, she is chatting with her playful "girlfriend" in full swing. San Xiao and he are lovers in the game, and his mouth is full of smiles, completely forgetting his wife in the hospital bed. Tang Hui only felt a shudder.
She knew for a long time that he was cheating her. When she was seven months pregnant, San Xiao came to the door and swore at Tang Hui, threatening Tang Hui to divorce her husband, which led to Tang Hui's almost premature birth. From then on, her husband not only failed to converge, but became more blatant, and love rat's attributes were clear at a glance.
Tang Hui and her husband met at a cocktail party. She is a company executive and a young white-collar worker. He started his own business and was young and promising. Two excellent people are attracted to each other. They got married in less than three months. After getting married, her husband asked Tang Hui to resign so that she could stay at home without having to work hard. Tang Hui hesitated, but looking at his firm eyes, she believed that he would make herself happy. In this way, Tang Hui gave up her hard-won job and became a full-time wife.
Unemployed Tang Hui just wants to live a simple life with her husband. She learns to cook and make desserts, making life a poem. Until one time, her husband's company had some problems. At that time, the funds could not be transferred and there was no money. Tang Hui took out all his savings from working these years and tried his best to help him tide over the difficulties. Now that I think about it, that time was probably the time when he was most dependent on her, and he went home from work to accompany her every day. With the joint efforts of Qi Xin, the company got back on track, and her husband didn't say anything about the money he borrowed from Tang Hui.
It's hard for Tang Hui to ask him, so it's all shares in the company. It wasn't until San Xiao came to you that she realized that her husband and San Xiao had colluded to cheat her out of money. The company did have some minor problems, but they were quickly solved. The rest of Tang Hui's money went into this woman's pocket.
It turns out that her husband fell in love with this woman long before they got married, but her mother-in-law didn't like it. He couldn't marry her, so he married Tang Hui.
Tang Hui, who lost his job and savings, was afraid to get married again. Her husband once warned her that if she dared to divorce, she wouldn't get a penny, so after more than three years of marriage, she never dared to mention divorce. She is afraid that her children will lose their fatherly and maternal love. Tang Hui in the hospital bed, apart from physical illness, is more desperate for marriage, mourning is greater than despair for spiritual death.
Many women thought they were married for "love" before they got married, and only after they became housewives did they find that they could do nothing. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory, and love makes Shen Lijun lose his mind. She thought that giving up everything would reap the love of her dreams. She thinks that if she treats men sincerely, she will love her all her life ... She was wrong from the beginning. Without a career, she doesn't even have the courage to shout for herself.
Isn't it the same in Tang Hui? Marriage is a city. One day a woman wants to leave the besieged city, but she may not find an exit. Women's economic conditions have been pushed back by more than half, and then there are children. In addition, due to the external factors of parents and relatives around them, most women have no courage to leave and may leave their marriage again. Women are stupid, and women who are deeply in love are even more stupid. Therefore, no matter how good the man you met before marriage is, women should not give up their careers, and live for themselves to be confident.