I never used to keep long hair, since I have a baby, my hair is getting longer and longer, and will soon be long hair and waist.
It is hesitant to cut short, after all, so long, there are feelings!
I asked the man: "You say, I am to stay long hair good-looking or cut short hair good-looking ah!"
The man couldn't understand, and just held up the bottle to drink.
"Does mommy want a short haircut like you?!"
My little lover shook his head and said, "Don't cut your hair!"
"Then does Mommy look good with long hair?"
My little lover looked at me with a smile and nodded with a look of sincerity.
"So, does Mommy look good with short hair?"
The little lover is still smiling and nodding, and the pacifier is not leaving his mouth.
Of course, the man's mouth can say sentence after sentence to make you happy, then, the man is probably only 3 to 4 years old or less.
Otherwise, it is the following scenario (the picture is long, please mess):
Yes, there is such an honest and sweet-talking young lover, who still cares about the old lover like a piggyback?
Even, several nights, the next bed this old lover said he had to be out of town meeting can not come back, the phone this end expressed regret, but in the heart of the happy flowers: good ah good ah, today and my little lover can sleep alone. Of course, perhaps, the old lover on the other end of the phone is also very happy: good, good, good, can be clean to enjoy the single time.
In the past few years, there is a kind of chicken soup circulating in the world, which says that the one who is going to spend the whole life with you in the future is your other half, not your children and your parents. So, you must pay more attention to your other half.
But when there are children, who said this?Who care?
In fact, we mortals also simply do not have time to care, all day around the child.
The first thing you need to do is to take care of your own child, and then you can expect others to take care of it.
02
Once upon a time, I despised those mothers who only had children in their eyes every day.
N years ago, had seen TVB Deng Diwen starred in the "Women's Lords", after the completion of the then fresh into the community soon after the I, but also wrote a sprawling afterthought of a schoolboy, attacked the supporting role: the selfish "sheep needle" big grandmother.
Look, ancient women are really pathetic, life is only about men. The man is not much to look forward to, three wives and four concubines, only for their own sons to calculate the life, but the result is the wrong Secretary of life.
Fortunately, we were born in the new era, there are many things to do, have their own ideals and career to pursue, life is full of unlimited possibilities and wonderful, how can the child get broken wings? Do women should be like the heroine four grandma, strong and personal pursuit.
Now, I think I can appreciate this mood.
Earlier in the year, there was also a repeated nagging words in the very hot "ZhiNo": parents love their children, they plan far and wide for them.
The villainous Xiao Qin, in fact, is all about her son, but unfortunately in the wrong way, which is a one-way output. Before all did not do the minimum research, the customer needs do not understand, and the tactics are despicable. This would not be love, but harm.
Now, I'm an old "real" mom who can look at her sleeping child and giggle for hours without doing anything.
All I can think about is the good stuff.
Especially in winter, the children () hot bed, ah, what a beautiful picture! Men? Well, it could be in parentheses.
Probably people in middle age, feel that what can be held in the hand is the most real happiness.
What does it matter if it's a little bland? It's the bombast that the little heart can't stand.
For me, this can "hold" not only the hands of the little lover, because he is still relatively small, good control!
Hey, no!
It's that the child is still small and malleable!
The old mother is bursting at the seams with desire for a challenge!
03
I'm afraid it's not easy to "get a grip" on a man who is already "unsculptable".
In addition to the same "know whether" in the Minglan, intentionally or unintentionally in the mastery of the husband, the second uncle can have a day of scenery is not lack of Minglan's a few words to wake up the dreamer.
To mold a man who has been formed, the difficulty is really high ah.
In the past, I quite liked a suspense novel writer a candy. Her novels are usually filled with rich and handsome people, but the rich and handsome people also have a strong and a little bit of love child complex of the mother.
Think about it, the original passion of the women, the transformation of the lover program failed, the enthusiasm and more or less transferred to the body of the young lover.
Of course, this is extreme and dangerous psychology.
But the absence of a comrade-in-arms is quite common in women's parenting.
Although, comrades may be creating food and bullets in another form.
Older mothers are not taken for granted, but neither can they take themselves for granted.
Even more often, I feel that affection may be a one-way payment, the previous generation to us to pay, we how to repay and the so-called "filial piety" are not able to pay back this kind of favor, the only way to pass on to our next generation, so that this kind of love to continue.
This is the best return between generations.
So, there is nothing wrong with being "y in love" with your lover.
When you grow up, just respect each other.
You have your friends, I have my senior square dance.
To figure this out, and try to give your child as much as you can, what's wrong with that.
Many online users criticized Xiang Li's "rich" daughter, but people have their own capital, have their own ideas and ways, why do we have to worry. Can not be in favor, can not be used to their own children (provided, of course, that you also have this capital), but their own baby after all their own and baby said.
04
Again, with a young lover after the old lover.
Last night, the regular 11-11-7 work system of the next bed Lao Wang uncharacteristically early to go home, self-concerned about watching TV while gnawing on the dry hard air-dried beef, drinking life-threatening Da Wusu.
Suddenly he said to me in a serious manner, "How come I always wake up at four in the morning lately, and then I can't sleep after tossing and turning?" I gave him a look, "How should I know?" Continuing to snuggle over the baby who was holding up the bottle and drinking formula freely.
"It's that you don't care about me anymore." The old king was thoughtful.
"Each other," I snaps.
Come to think of it, it's true that after the baby was born, more energy was spent on the baby.
On second thought, we didn't really do anything very romantic.
We never talk on the phone for more than a minute, and when we are together, we play with our cell phones.
But I think it's a luxury to have the time to be together and play with our phones, especially for workaholics like us.
Two people together, especially in middle age, can't really afford to be bombastic.
The most important thing is to have the same goal and work towards it, each with their own self-binding and driving force.
At most, I'm looking forward to spending more time with my child and accompanying him as he grows up.