When you get old, what do you rely on to retire?3 Aunts tell you the answer
Wen/Ujihasu Kawaii
Time passes by, the years change, and everyone grows up to be an adult, and then slowly grows old. When you get old, what do you rely on to retire?
01 Auntie Ling: hold your hand and grow old with your son, my love, is my dependence
Auntie Ling and Uncle Li are teenage couples, then also a pair of golden boys and girls, the two of them together to go to the countryside, suffered from the bitter and tired, and raised two children, stumbling all the way through the half-life of each other.
Now Auntie Ling is not young, sometimes with back pain, Uncle Li is still hale and hearty. The two rented a piece of land, planted some vegetables and fruits, sunrise and sunset, the small life is quite good.
The two daughters are married outside the province, usually work is also busy, not often come back to see.
It was raining a while ago, and Auntie Ling slipped. After all, she is old and broke her bones in the fall.
Uncle Li was too busy to call an ambulance and took care of her. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a plaster cast and fixed it, and then I helped each other to go home.
Auntie Ling said, ? The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said.
The children have become adults and have their own families, and the burden is heavy on their shoulders. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it.
But I'm getting older, so I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to take care of the garden anymore.
When the time comes, we'll see if we can't get a babysitter, right? The first thing they did was to get the money to pay for a new car, and the second thing they did was to get the money to pay for a new car. The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of the car and get the best out of the car, and then you can get the best out of the car.
02 Aunt Yue: My husband died early, and my son and daughter-in-law are my family.
Yue aunt over thirty soon after her husband died in a car accident. With a son and a compensation, she simply broke off the idea of marrying, and focused on raising her son to adulthood.
A flash of twenty years has passed, and her son has long since started a family. The daughter-in-law, Xiao Jing, is gentle and generous, and treats Auntie Yue very well. After having a granddaughter, Auntie Yue is devoted to bringing up her little granddaughter.The granddaughter is also very close to her, with a name like "Grandma". The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list.
While living with her son and daughter-in-law, she doesn't interfere with their freedom. When she gets up early on weekends, she goes to the market or takes a walk in the neighborhood.
The children have their own lives, and she has her own.
Daughter-in-law advised her to learn square dancing, at first she also felt awkward, but slowly watched more and more, also began to join, sometimes go out at night to dance, moving arms and legs, seems to be the whole person is younger.
Daughter-in-law also taught her to pay with her cell phone, tied a bank card, not much money. Aunt Yue learned, think really convenient ah, now young people, than they would then, really too much too much.
The days of now, before really do not even dare to think about. Aunt Yue said, ? Once my husband died, I felt that this life is just like this, my son and daughter-in-law gave me a new hope, now I just feel that this day is really happy.03 I'm a Dink, I'm rich, I'm not worried.
Aunt Min is a Dink, Iron Dink.
Min Auntie is afraid to enter into a marriage, her parents have been fighting since she was a child, blaming each other, sometimes even fighting.
This kind of family makes Auntie Min afraid to believe in love. She watched her mother work hard for herself and watched her mother commiserate. She also suffered the anger of her mother, who yelled at her, ? If it wasn't for you, I would have gotten a divorce long ago.?
Aunt Min was trembling with fear of marriage, and even more fearful of becoming like her mother when she had a child.
But under the weight of her parents, Aunt Min married once.
The uncle began to talk well, do not want children, Dink. I didn't think he would change his mind after only a year of marriage.
Aunt Min simply divorced.
Free from the shackles of marriage, Auntie Min started practicing yoga and got a cat.
On weekends, she would meet her friends for afternoon tea, or she would practice yoga at home and jerk off the cat.
Without a family, Aunt Min works harder, saves what she earns, and has good insurance for herself and her parents.
I can not believe that others, I have myself, it is enough.? In fact, my life is quite good. Although other people have children and children are also happy, but I choose, is the most suitable for me.?Aunt Min also looks down on the future. She said that if she grows old in the future, she will live together with a few friends, so that they can take care of each other and won't feel lonely.
People will always grow old, relying on their partners, their children or themselves, and everyone's choices are different.
No matter what kind of choice you make, you have to know that you must grasp the sense of proportion and sense of boundaries. You can live a more comfortable life and have a better day if you are in charge of your own life.
When you get old, what kind of retirement will you choose? Feel free to leave your comments.
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