Parents after retirement, there is always a transition period is not quite adapted to, after all, usually accustomed to work, all of a sudden idle, the body and heart are not accustomed to.
This time, as children, we can help them through the following aspects.
01 accompanied by communication
Knowing that parents resigned, we must take the time to accompany them, you can talk about the situation at home, say their own work so that they understand their own children are busy with what, but also ask them to talk about their own work, and finally ask them about their intentions after retirement side-by-side.
Companying and communicating with them can give them something to do so that they don't get distracted by idleness.
Companying and communicating with them can help them understand what they really think, and make it easier for their children to put forward reasonable suggestions for their reference.
Company and communication can deepen the relationship between parents and children.
02 Participate in community activities
Community activities, first, is close to home, convenient for older parents to participate in nearby; second, the community is relatively familiar with the people inside the community, the feelings of contact is convenient; third, the community activities have a community of dedicated staff responsible for the community, a more formal, safe, parents to go over, the child to rest assured; and finally, the community activities are rich, the parents will always be able to go over to the past to find a their own interest in participating in. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product or service.
03 Bringing grandchildren to relieve boredom
Some young families do not feel comfortable with the elderly bringing up their children, so there will be a situation where the elderly are idle and the young are busy.
In fact, young people, you can try to let the retired parents with children try. The fact that the parents are retired shows that they are educated people and that there is no deep generation gap between them and the young people.
Parents with children, not only can reduce the burden of young people, but also so that they have something to do, busy, enjoy the joy of grandchildren, which will not be affected by the bad mood of the retirement, but also to the children to save time to take care of their trouble.
What's not to like?
04 Learning new things
Now there are many places have senior university, parents after retirement, if there is no child to bring, also do not like the community this type of activity, you can suggest that they go to the university of the elderly, to complete the young unfinished dream.
05 Travel
Parents of this generation, most of the very fine hard work, young busy children, busy work, there is no time to travel.
Waiting until retirement, there will be a lot of time to do this.
At first, we, as children, can take our parents on trips, and with a few more trips, they learn on their own to buy air tickets, train tickets, and contact the local travel agency and all these things. Next they can travel on their own or with old friends with them.
Traveling can satisfy their half-life-long regret of not going out of town, enrich their spare time, increase their knowledge, and allow them to meet many new friends.
Most importantly, traveling can make them younger and younger.