Huang Xiaoming spent half a billion dollars to marry baby into the family, after the wedding gave birth to a small sponge, Huang's mother was overjoyed. Coupled with the fact that baby is beautiful and sweet-talking, Huang's mom has repeatedly praised baby in public for being well-behaved, understanding, and taking care of her family, which makes her a really good daughter-in-law. See baby and mother-in-law intimate photo, really envious of all people ah.
A good relationship with the mother-in-law, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well with each other, will give themselves a lot less trouble and pressure, why not? You may say: peace with your mother-in-law? I can't do that! Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like a natural enemy, and it's not easy to say but also to do. Let's start with me and my ? My mother-in-law and I have had our share of problems. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at this!
01 mother-in-law at a glance looks? has a halo around her?
01My mother-in-law looks like she has an aura of her own, because she always has her eyebrows locked and a serious face. She speaks in a loud voice. My mother-in-law lives on the fourth floor of her house, and I can hear her from the first floor. She was also a quick-tempered and impatient person. Once I rode the bus with her, the bus was overcrowded with people on the weekend. A normal thing for us.
Mother-in-law, on the other hand, was furious: why so many people? These people do not stay at home well, are out for what? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at the whole thing, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good look at the whole thing, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good look at it. My mother-in-law is a straight-talking woman who is very articulate. If you talk to her, in less than ten minutes, you will be able to grasp all the information about the family members, so one thing to tell her is the same as telling the whole world.
02Because the kids are small, my husband and I have to work, and it's inconvenient for my mother-in-law to run around, we decided to move in together. Although I was a million times reluctant in my heart, the child needed to be taken care of and we had to earn money to buy formula. If you pay someone to look after your child, how can you feel more at ease with your own people? I was reluctant to move in together, but there was no other way. I've got a good idea of how to get along with my mother-in-law after I've figured out her personality.
She likes to talk, and I just listen. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it. People say that the personalities of husband and wife are generally complementary, and that my mother-in-law and I are even more complementary.
My mother-in-law does things quickly, and I work to grind; she talks like a machine gun, da-da-da-da; I talk slowly, da-da-da-da-da; when my mother-in-law is in a good mood, I am a mouthful of a mom called, and she is happy to be able to close her mouth. So the living expenses of the family, utility bills she alone all inclusive. I can't let my mother-in-law feel bad! So I will often buy some small things to give her, a set of dress, an elderly massage pillow, will make her happy half a day. You have to pay, I have to return, so that each other can feel each other's sincerity and goodwill.
03 live together for a long time, the spoon which does not touch the edge of the pot. Looking back, those few heated arguments were also caused by the child. One summer night, the child does not know what is going on, how to coax not sleep, but also wailed and cried, so that I was upset, but do not want to beat. The mother-in-law rushed in like a gust of wind, snatched the child, and lifted her hand to two slaps: cry, cry, the disaster of the family are all by you cry!
The traditional cognition of the elderly, the child has no reason to cry, will bring the family evil omen. I was so angry at the time, the blood rushed to my head, I yelled at my mother-in-law: what makes you say my child crying disaster, she is so small, what do you know! The mother-in-law where can stand to be yelled at by others, usually she yells at others.
She pointed to my nose and yelled: you will not control the child, are you usually spoiled out of the stink! Ouch, I usually go to work and come home to feed the child, night coaxing the child, I still have a fault? The child cries at night, it is not me alone to take care of, you sleep quite good? The two sides of you back and forth, launched a mother-in-law-daughter-in-law war, the husband rushed to help talk about the fight.
I was so angry at night that I was in tears, and I felt so aggrieved that I was usually under pressure at work, even if I had to face a house full of dogs and chickens at home, and it was too much for me to live with! My mother-in-law and I had a cold war for a week, who did not speak, the atmosphere at home is dead. Once I came home from the night shift at 11 o'clock, I was about to rest, and my mother-in-law brought a bowl of pork ribs from the kitchen. You are not at home at night, specially reserved for you?
I froze for half a day, and two words came out of my mouth: thank you. My mother-in-law had taken the initiative to show me kindness, so I rode my donkey downhill and borrowed the steps down. The next day I went to the mall and bought her a dress that she had been eyeing for a long time but was too expensive. (I know my mother-in-law loves to dress up and show herself off in front of others.) She was really happy to accept it, and that night she wore the dress to go square dancing with a group of old sisters.
04The oldest of the old, and the oldest of the young, and the youngest of the young. Though not related to me by blood, my mother-in-law is also a mom, she was also conceived in October and worked hard to give birth to her son and raise him, only to have him snatched away by someone called her daughter-in-law. How can the heart ache?
To the mother-in-law, we should also learn to think differently, think more about her situation and feelings. There's a saying: "It's not a family, it's not a family". The two sides respect each other and are honest with each other. People's hearts are meat long, even if the fierce, cold mother-in-law, will be touched by your sincerity.